Advice... A little hobby related... A little not.

[BitchWaffles]

That's sad

[TexasCowboy]

As a friend or an individual that cares we all need to step up to the plate and let someone that we care about really know what is taking place before it is to late.....A word of wisdom is always take what others are saying to you as helpful indicatives and get yourself out of the hole that you may be digging.....These words and comments from others are there to help, if they are hurtful it is meant in a positive way...

[privatecollections]

I agree. I've learned the hard way the right thing may not be the easy way but it's the only way. I've already been through what Jillian is going through. Thank God I learned, hard way or not. Good bless and have fun cause I'm finished with this conversation. It's been going on for too long as it is. Jill, I'll pray for ya girl. But as far as I'm concerned, keep me out of your posts and drama. I dont have time for it anymore.

[St.Mateo]

I think most people here know who is lying.and who isn't
Before you make a accusation.abouttopics that areforbidden
make sur you can prove it otherwise its just. speculation and that doesnt
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[privatecollections]

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I bailed her out of jail two weeks ago. No proof needed. Like I said have fun I'm done.

[matchingmole]

Wow bet this one gets closed fast...good idea to pull that pic.

[BitchWaffles]

Oh nice!! What did she get arrested for?

[matchingmole]

Originally Posted by BitchWaffles

Oh nice!! What did she get arrested for?

“To be Irish is to know that in the end the world will break your heart.”

[Iaintliein]

Originally Posted by Jillian Price

Thank you for the advice. I am just trying to decide if I should confront the person and risk the personal attack on myself of if I should just let them make the decision to not be in my life any more.

You first must decide what your true goal is. Then decide if confrontation will help you achieve it.

To me, the only strategic value confrontation has is to change future behavior. . . and it never, ever works. If you are leaving the relationship anyway, just leave. The less fanfare, drama and equivocating, the better. Make the cut as clean and well mannered as possible, but make it complete.

Then re-evaluate how you got into the situation so as to learn to stay out of similar ones in the future. Essentially, a relationship "post mortem".

Above all, remember that free advice is always worth precisely what you pay for it!

Regards,
IAL

[rcg001]

When you break up with someone that might hurt you physically, then do so by phone, email or text. You should also make arrangements to protect your home & car.

Depending of the degree of potential harm, you must remain safe and make the break clean and permanent.

I may be overreacting to what you are saying, but I just want be make sure you are ok.

[TheWanderer]

I think the last few posters missed the drama that just stormed past them and are still trying to give advice to the lovelorn.
I don't think this is a man-woman break up....good lovin' gone bad kind of thing.
We have a cat fight in progress.