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Originally Posted by poplips
I did not mean to say that providing itself is universally an addiction. I meant to ask specifically with very low esteem or none at all people they may view men paying them for sex as a way to define their worth and that's what I meant by the addiction. Maybe this is more true for pt providers. But what I do want to ask the providers here, because some women that have expressed their views on this and think it shameful and degrading, is it really a shameless profession or what is it about the trade for those who provide and for those that seek it that marks as degenerates and lowlifes? The same is true for pornstars. Why is their trade acceptable and not the ones who remain off camera? I try to not judge myself too harshly when I see a provider but the pt ones do weigh on my mind. They say if they're hooking they're using but like FF said not all are PTs. The ones in Canada may not all be PTs. And why is the lore about providers always that they turn to pt as a way to repair their souls. I get conflicting views. I was talking to pt provider in Buffalo while she was high that she is jaded by the trade and had no place and goes in and out of jail for pt. She's only 35 with 4 kids. The last one by a john and adopted and hooked on pt because she couldn't stop. If a provider cannot stop using when she knows she's pregnant makes me understand how powerful that addiction is. So knowing this pt providers will definitely weigh on my mind. Is this something they would willingly do if they were free of pt ? I don't know for sure what is out there more of the pt provider or the stable educated provider who likes what she's doing and will do this for the rest of her life cuz it's fun and delightful. Or it's a temporary thing until they earn enough cash for something new in their lives. I truly do not know.
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Everyone is obviously different..
You started this thread about an sp just out of rehab?! You are asking if "when pt is involved, would an sp do this without it?" Plus I think you are wondering if an sp who needed rehab for pt "if going back to sp means she's going back to pt"? Or "is the sp addicted to something she gets out of the sp scene"?!
I am thinking rehab is good. She needs to work, being an sp might be her only option right now. She may put her money to constructive resources now after rehab. Time will tell. The last thing she probably needs is someone judging her and doubting her after she has made an effort in the right direction.
If I was coming out of rehab and attempting to resolve my problems, I would put anyone outside on the curb who doubted me and was less then supportive.