ATTITUDES ARE EVERYTHING

[Caleb]

Don't know what happened to the last version of this thread -http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=911906

Apparently, someone had a bad attitude. I'd like to try this again because I thought the topic was very worthy of discussion, and it seemed to end abrubtly.

I was introduced to the hobby by a lady of extreme beauty, both inside and out. After months of lurking on the boards, I got up the courage to send her an email introducing myself. Quite frankly, I didn't expect much of a reply. And what I received completely surprised me. She was helpful, encouraging, flirtatious, and full of POSITIVE ATTITUDE for the hobby. She remains a very special friend to this day.

I have met many, many ladies who all have great attitudes, who have gone out of their way to make our experience memorable and magical. And if they can do that with the likes of me, I must believe that is how they treat everyone. And so I thank them for their intelligent witty, charming, teasing, silly, fun natures as much as for often gravity defying BCD skills. It is their total attitude that makes spending time with them great! That's what got me here, that's why I stay.

Now back to your regularly scheduled drama...

[Eva Damita]

I agree - attitude makes a huge difference. You can tell if a providers burned out, not interested, by her attitude. Good thread.

[NearHauteRed]

Attitude of a provider when you see her for a session defines the difference between if she is ATF material or at least seeing her for another session again soon and just a fuck or worse.

[SD2011]

Agree. I like a provider (person) who is really there, looks at you and isn't afraid to just be herself. When you reach that point in comfort during your time together, it's great.

[Jules Jaguar]

Great post Caleb

Sometimes sarcasm can be lost in text and I think that has a lot to do with it also.

A lot of guys are surprised to find out I am not a huge bitch and I'm actually sweet and even a little shy in person especially when I am first meeting someone.

Some guys who are rather douchy on here are totally big sweethearts in person so I've learned not to judge someone so fast on their "board persona"

[VIP Mya Michelle]

I agree OP attitude IS everything. There may be a plethora of Providers who can satisfy a man in the sheets. The other part of being a positive provider and one whom will stand the test of time in any given city, is the one whom understands the hospitality side of the business.

Many men aren't going to order a rendezvous and expect to be in the bed the whole time. As you progress in a career of escorting you learn that you need to be able to be helpful in your responses of initial contact (also if you want a helpful response to your inquiry you should write out a nice initial contact verbiage , as you would expect one back), hold an entertaining conversation, being knowledgable about many subjects in life. Knowing how to portray body language that says I am comfortable with you. Not putting up walls or being distracted from giving you as much TLC as possible. Because as you progress the actual "BCD" is less and less what you are over all judged on... because quite frankly "anyone can do that" its everything else you bring with the experience that measures a true unique more soulful encounter. The effort you put forth shows wonders.

Providing is an Art form, a skill, like any other business. You have to be talented in more than just one way to pull it off for a long time. Prestige is a key component, honesty and integrity. Consistency is as well. I cherish this business, I love being a well to-do provider. Making one man feel that much better one man at a time. I remember once in a movie it was said ... "There is nothing more rewarding, than public service."

and for me that quote is quite on track with how I feel about what I do.

Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

Great post Caleb

Sometimes sarcasm can be lost in text and I think that has a lot to do with it also.

A lot of guys are surprised to find out I am not a huge bitch and I'm actually sweet and even a little shy in person especially when I am first meeting someone.

Some guys who are rather douchy on here are totally big sweethearts in person so I've learned not to judge someone so fast on their "board persona"

+1
Indeed most drama's that occur on this board have much more history than majority of the community knows about or keeps up with anyways. All they see is the backlash of brewing problems. Which at a certain time as a provider and a hobbyist you must reach your all you can take meter and withdraw yourself, or you can learn to ignore the drama and continue to stay positive with your insights. There will always be a few bad apples, but you cannot let them spoil the whole bunch.

[Molly Chandler]

And I hope you stay for a long, long time, Caleb.

Your attitude rocks and men like yourself make this a happy place to be.

I agree with Jules and can totally relate to what she said.

We all have our moments, but at the end of the day I sleep soundly at night, knowing that I am a good person and an even better friend. People are hasty to judge or 'hate', and often miss out on fascinating and kind people.

[SD2011]

<----- heheheh (le douchy de jour)

[pyramider]

Fuck, shit, damn Caleb ... if you are going to help me out at least taint it up a bit, geez ... if he were a newbie I swear I would ...


Every time a provider asks what makes me contact a provider I respond with attitude. In real life, I may look but a woman's attitude is what will make me contact, see, and return. Years ago, a friend's dad told us a simple truth. This truth was wasted on a couple of 18 year olds. The simple truth is 90% of sex is between your ears. I am not talking about BBCR right now ... maybe in a bit.

The ladies of icky that I see have board personas. I can see their attitudes thru their posting styles. I have only reviewed two here, under this handle, Several have asked me not to post a review due to fucktards being jealous of my prowess with my 1.3" of dangling death and my ability as a taint whisperer. To a woman I have respected their requests.

I still do not know why the original thread was closed. I do not agree with the closure. But I rarely agree with closing threads. I maintain that threads need to die a natural death and that the best modtards come from the rancks of the dead.

[SweaterPuppies]

Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

I agree OP attitude IS everything.

Oh, the irony is too much. A good attitude, prestige, honesty and integrity are all inversely related to the persona you have created on this board.

And Mya, you forgot to insult other providers and tell us all how great you think you are with your reply.

[VIP Mya Michelle]

Originally Posted by SweaterPuppies

Oh, the irony is too much. A good attitude, prestige, honesty and integrity are all inversely related to the persona you have created on this board.

And Mya, you forgot to insult other providers and tell us all how great you think you are with your reply.

Happy Holidays

I have never robbed a client, showed up half an hour late, NCNS, showed up Un-groomed, had a dirty incall, not looked like my pictures, played with clients time. I have never upsold a guy once session started. I have never rushed a guy out disregarding the amount of time he paid for. I have never been inconsiderate to clients age, weight, or disabilities. As far as I know, I have never had a client leave feeling as though he did not receive what he was expecting. I strive to treat every man whom takes out the time to inquire about spending time with me the UTMOST courtesy and respect SO LONG as he reciprocates the same Respect and Courtesy back to me.

So you may think I have an attitude, but as far as my prestige, honesty, and integrity... I can assure you will find no evidence to prove that I DO NOT possess those qualities.

Remember not to confuse my personality and my attitude.... because my personality is ME... and my attitude depends on YOU...

Also as far as being disrespectful to other providers, I have never. I have only called out the women whom have shown malice and derogatory statements against me in their posts.

If anyone wants to take offense because of the comments I made towards those two women alone, I cant do much about that now can I.

I will admit to trying to write the best response that I can muster up upon my insights upon the Topic at hand.

[pfmtony]

I agree with the OP, and thank you to all the wonderful ladies in D that I have seen. If I have seen you 2,.3 or more times your attitude is incredible. I wish I had the ability to meet all the providers in D, but I do not. Even positive texts, PMs, and kind replies are appreciated.

Being sexy or having a certain menu will get my attention. Having a great attitude, personality, and being yourself will keep my interest.

[SD2011]

Originally Posted by pfmtony

I agree with the OP, and thank you to all the wonderful ladies in D that I have seen. If I have seen you 2,.3 or more times your attitude is incredible. I wish I had the ability to meet all the providers in D, but I do not. Even positive texts, PMs, and kind replies are appreciated.

Being sexy or having a certain menu will get my attention. Having a great attitude, personality, and being yourself will keep my interest.

Good to see you. Happy upcoming Turkey day Tony!

Have fun

[pfmtony]

Originally Posted by SD2011

Good to see you. Happy upcoming Turkey day Tony!

Have fun

Thanks, its my birthday too. And SD all the women say you are a gentleman with a stellar attitude, at least the ones we have both met.

[exoticbabygirl]

You have a great bday and turkey day

Originally Posted by pfmtony

I agree with the OP, and thank you to all the wonderful ladies in D that I have seen. If I have seen you 2,.3 or more times your attitude is incredible. I wish I had the ability to meet all the providers in D, but I do not. Even positive texts, PMs, and kind replies are appreciated.

Being sexy or having a certain menu will get my attention. Having a great attitude, personality, and being yourself will keep my interest.