*sigh* advice?

[Guest112113-3]

Me thinks he doesn't have the balls nor the money...... next..

All of the posters here have made good suggestions and all have been not satisfactory to him, as Tracey says: "Time Wasters"

[deos68]

ok guys will take a plunge and see a newbie friendly provider
sorry if i offended anyone nor do i think im special that i can skip anything actually got used to the strip club scene
where i could literally pick out a female of my choice so to speak and test my luck
if not i could literally go to another club and try again
guess this did turn into a rant/advice type deal lol
any recommended newbie friendly providers ?

[deos68]

Originally Posted by Woody of TX

Me thinks he doesn't have the balls nor the money...... next..

All of the posters here have made good suggestions and all have been not satisfactory to him, as Tracey says: "Time Wasters"

and yes exactly i dont have balls in a sense i got to much to lose i mean alot to lose if i visit a random provider either here BP or anywhere and things go sour well my biggest fear would be LE not a provider in general

[Guest112113-3]

Originally Posted by deos68

and yes exactly i dont have balls in a sense i got to much to lose i mean alot to lose if i visit a random provider either here BP or anywhere and things go sour well my biggest fear would be LE not a provider in general

1. Welcome to the group, like I said previously there are tons of us with big names and hell allot of us with allot to lose, you're not alone, we have suggested many ways to do it discretely and safety, you're not the first and I promise you won't be the last.
2. Well that means to me that your in Law Enforcement or work related, welcome again, none of us want to enter that senerio, and I'm speaking full spectrum here on that subject. I'm not in Law Enforcement but I sure that many of us know good friends that are, or even know a few Federal guys that are members here, think of the risk they are thinking, they walked the bridge. I imagine a few of the providers could even say some of their clients are the LE group of some sort.

Somewhere you have to decide if your going to walk across the bridge or not, I personally don't think you will, but I hope that you think it out and do what you think is best for you, maybe you will be back and shut me up by me calling you out on not having the balls or money......just saying...

Good Luck

[Guest101314]

I can take newbies but outcall only and you would have to pass alternative screening.

[Keyzer Soze]

Deos check out the short notice forum and do some research. a lot of newbie friendly ladies there,just a suggestion. Did not intend to offend,just pointing out somethings. Play safe

[deos68]

Originally Posted by Keyzer Soze

Deos check out the short notice forum and do some research. a lot of newbie friendly ladies there,just a suggestion. Did not intend to offend,just pointing out somethings. Play safe

thank you will do as stated above
ps i dont have to prove anything to anyone i know what i can and can't do just asking a few questions that's all
mods can close this thread
no further bashing is needed i got all the info i needed thank you to those provided positive answers

[bamatide]

I've been seeing a trend from new guys thinking they can disregrad the safety of other in the community because their don't have the time or are unwilling to provide information for screening.

Everyone I know started as a newbie to build reputation as a well behaved client. Safety!!!

You have to walk before you can run in the hobby world.

I really think you will need to see a newbie provider or forgot hobbying.

Just my opinion take it or leave it.

[Mossman]

Man UP! If you don't have enough personal skills to convince a lady who advertises that she is available, you truly are a lost cause. Find her...go one on one with her and give her what is necessary to allow her to be comfortable with you. If you can't figure a way, meh!

[SweetCara]

Originally Posted by deos68

i understand ladies have to take precaution to ensure safety no doubt but what about the johns we have to protect ourselves also
what if one day i meet a provider and things go sour for whatever reason and im out and about with say my SO and the provider wants to be a b**** and stirs up trouble
l

As a provider who has made a pretty good name for myself...and become quite reputable on the boards not only here but in other states...I can assure you that if you meet a GOOD REPUTABLE provider...she IS NOT going to do some dramatic BS like you are saying here just because something went "sour" between the two of you. To be honest...the only thing "SOUR" that could happen would be if YOU YOURSELF did something to upset her. Which in my opinion would be 'short her', 'hurt her', 'stalk her' or just be a downright asshole to her. Even still, us REPUTABLE ladies DO NOT start trouble out in public if we see someone we do not like from the boards. If we did that to everyone that we had a "sour" visit with, we wouldn't be reputable ladies anymore. Besides, didn't you say you travel often and are not here enough to pay for PA? In that case, why would you be worried about seeing one of us out in public?
I completely understand you have to protect your identity and safety. But I'm with most everyone else. You have to PAY TO PLAY sweetheart. And I WILL NOT see someone without 2-3 REPUTABLE references from ladies that are verified either here or P411. It is a HUGE safety risk to do otherwise. I apologize you are having difficulty seeing the "lady of your choice"...but you should DEFINITELY get a new hobby if you are not willing to "jump the hurdles" to find a lady you are satisfied with.

[Guest112113-3]

Originally Posted by Woody of TX

If not, I suggest you pick up another hobby.

Originally Posted by Keyzer Soze

Sounds like this may not be for you.

Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

I agree w the others...this may not be the hobby for you

Originally Posted by Aftershock

play by the so called rules or go some where else.

Originally Posted by bamatide

I really think you will need to see a newbie provider or forgot hobbying.

Just my opinion take it or leave it.

Originally Posted by SweetCara

..but you should DEFINITELY get a new hobby if you are not willing to "jump the hurdles" to find a lady you are satisfied with

Ok me quoting this might seem mean but is not intended to be so, just saying you might take this in consideration since you asked the community and the majority here sort of said the same.

[phillyintexas]

TANSTAAFL There Ain't No Such Thing As A Free Lunch

[Gman0108]

Take it from me bro. As you can tell I'm pretty new as well but I've seen some newbie friendly providers that rocked my damn world. I've got a lot of patience and I think that's what's required in order for all of us to be safe and secure. I don't always get to see every provider that I "apply" for but I still have the newbie friendly ones. I don't like to name names but trust me they were worth every penny and thank you beautiful ladies for seeing little ole newbie me

[Guest112113-3]

Nothing wrong with a newbie provider, I have to give them credit for taking more of a risk, just because they do doesn't mean they are lesser in the game.