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Samcro84 · 10-25-2013, 02:14 PM

There has been a lot on here about GFE experiences. I sure we can all agree that there are many versions of what a guy wants.

So my question to the ladies is - How about the BFE (boy friends experience). What does a girl like to see or have done to her? Does he need to bring food, gifts, toys or ??. What kind of gifts - personal, alcohol, clothing, perfumes. What makes you feel special and needed and wanted?

I know guys I am going to get some of you saying WTF why even ask the question, guys this is not about you.

I hope that the girls I have been with during my life can agree with me that my attitude is that it is not all about me, I like her to have fun too.

travelerman

bearf15amc · 10-25-2013, 02:52 PM

I do have to comment WTH! Why didn't I think of that...so dumb...great question.

thatgirlbailey · 10-25-2013, 03:54 PM

Personally BFE to me is when a guy is not cold and withdrawn it is honestly that simple.

I like when we just have a good time no matter what is may be. When we are comfortable with each other. That is BFE to me. It is not about the gifts it is about our time spent together.

Also the same as "GFE" kissing, cuddling, holding each other, pillow talk etc.

I hate to be so short in my reply but, that was a simple question to me

BTW both you guys have BFE down to a T

thatgirlbailey · 10-25-2013, 03:56 PM

Personally BFE to me is when a guy is not cold and withdrawn it is honestly that simple.

I like when we just have a good time no matter what it may be. When we are comfortable with each other. That is BFE to me. It is not about the gifts it is about our time spent together.

Also the same as "GFE" kissing, cuddling, holding each other, pillow talk etc.

I hate to be so short in my reply but, that was a simple question to me

BTW both you guys have BFE down to a T

Candi Staxx · 10-25-2013, 04:00 PM

If a Gentlemen could ever be put on a for sure "DO see" list, travelerman just became number one!!!

For me, my absolute favorite is fresh flowers! Pink roses are my favorite, but ANY bouquet of flowers will Always make me go "awwww", they make me very happy! I keep flowers all throughout my house, so thats something very special for me. That will really brighten my day (FYI guys!) Also any sex toys =) BC we can use them together, plus if even for a second, I'll think about you everytime I use it myself! But My second favorite is definitely any Lingerie for Sure! I LOVE when guys bring me something sexy They'd like to see me in, turns me on and gets excited =) and yes, for sure makes me feel wanted!

Candi Staxx · 10-25-2013, 04:06 PM

Not that the gifts are needed, just since you asked!

As long as we are able to conversate and relax without sex, talk some- shit even something as simple as just asking me how my day has been, and actually caring (or pretend to) I love to be admired and told Im beautfiul and all, but relaxing like normal people would, can really be the best.
Also agree with Bailey as well!

Candi Staxx · 10-25-2013, 04:26 PM

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Maxx · 10-25-2013, 04:30 PM

Gotta hand it to ya TMan .... scoring points!!!

Good question though, I'm like bear, wish I'd thought of it.

Samcro84 · 10-26-2013, 07:14 AM

I need all the points I can get Maxx. Thanks Bailey and Candi.

Brandy Starr · 10-26-2013, 03:33 PM

That's sweet! Good1 traveler man. I'm with Bailey. BFE is all about comfort for me... Not awkwardness or shyness. As a few of my guys know I love football and I usually keep the game on during a session because I feel sex & football pair well together. I'm not too big on expensive gifts. Maybe something we can share like wine, food, candles... Somethin like that. Bfe can even be a little date before the actual session starts so we can get familiar with our likes before our time together... Something like that... But football dates rule

Add in sensuality and some dfk an it sounds like a good time to me!

foxyred73 · 10-27-2013, 07:45 PM

I love flowers and sexy gifts from a guy

Whispers · 10-27-2013, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by foxyred73

I love flowers and sexy gifts from a guy

I love it when provider remembers all the business I gave her through out the year as well as referred to her and she buys me something special showing her appreciation for a client rather than expecting gifts after taking my money!

Samcro84 · 10-27-2013, 09:08 PM

Whispers man what is your secret? I have only one that has shown that appreciation to me, made lunch last week. I was ready to arrive with food, but she offered. So would that be the GFE in her with showing the appreciation?

Whispers · 10-28-2013, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by travelerman

Whispers man what is your secret? I have only one that has shown that appreciation to me, made lunch last week. I was ready to arrive with food, but she offered. So would that be the GFE in her with showing the appreciation?

Most of the ladies don't give a fuck about anything or anyone other than padding their pockets and taking whatever they can get.....

Those tend to lose the ability to create long term repeat clients..... You find them posting a lot because they have a business model that sucks.....

The ones that WILL appreciate you have to be culled from ranks.. pour over reviews..... look at ladies that are not clock watchers but get consistent reviews....

I can refer you to a Dallas lady that always made me feel very special.... I think she is still around....

Samcro84 · 10-28-2013, 08:21 AM

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Most of the ladies don't give a fuck about anything or anyone other than padding their pockets and taking whatever they can get.....

Wow that is a mouth full.

Yes we can tell the ones we tend to like because of some form of outward appreciation or no clock watching. And the ones that follow the crowd with price increase or SOP.