Wonderful to hear that you are considering coming to Des Moines! I took a look at your reviews here on ECCIE and they are GREAT!!!
IMO...I feel that you would be welcomed by several of the Iowa gents! As a locale provider in Des Moines...I do appreciate all the terrific reputable ladies who have been visiting Iowa!!! Because of those ladies regularity here in Iowa, it draws other quality providers...like yourself Kat and others...to visit Iowa too!!!
If you do schedule a visit here you would get a better response if you came during the week. I would be happy to also send you a list of hotels that you would be comfortable at during your stay.
Best wishes....