What on earth???

[mexmex50]

Here's the bottom line the question wasn't directed at you so mind your own business Scorpio. Seems to me you got your nose stuck in everything but panocha.

[Guest090920]

Fair point. Does the fact the original poster hasn't answered your question register with you? Geez....get a clue!

[searchthelimits]

I am assuming that most of the curiousityas to the identity is simply to show support for the injuried party. That is both noble and says that there are far more kind and good people in this lifestyle than first may be thought. If the provider looks at this tread and feels the desire to identify herself, she certainly knows how to post. If she wants to discuss this with any individual, she can easily send a PM.

It doesn't matter who she is. One of the best providers was hurt and we can feel empathy toward her even if we may not have ever seen her. The important thing is that this community stands together against violence on any type - physical, mental and emotional. If you agree with that, then these messages have been a success. If you are only concerned for a particular lady or group of ladies then you have missed the point.

I am glad that there seems to be no lasting damage to her. I know she simply wants to forget the entire incident. She did the responsible thing to protect others by posting alerts. So she did her duty to the community. Why not focus on support for all providers and stop worrying about who and specific details. Let's show our love and appreciation for our ladies and acknowledge the important service they provide in this hard business. I know that is my intent on starting this discussion.

Natutally any ideas that can help prevent future violence would be helpful. But simply showing hatred for the perpetrator and expressing violent retribution isn't moving the community forward.

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

It would sure be nice if the rest of us ladies had a clue who to avoid so we don't have to go through the same thing.

[LeilaniBebe]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

It would sure be nice if the rest of us ladies had a clue who to avoid so we don't have to go through the same thing.

+1

How bout just sending one of us ladies a PM to post the information for her. That way she can be anonymous.

Just a thought.

[SexyKaylen]

+100
I think the lady's have the right to know ...Its for our safety..Lady's screen screen screen..Please be safe everyone...xoxo

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

It would sure be nice if the rest of us ladies had a clue who to avoid so we don't have to go through the same thing.

[searchthelimits]

Maybe my earlier posts weren't clear. I was told by the provider she had reported this. I assume that meant she posted it in the provider section which of course I don't have access to view. The good news is that the dude who did it is not local but from Dallas. I hope she will contact all providers that have expressed a desire for more information. But I hope you understand that I take being told in confidence seriously. I am not going to reveal her indentity in this thread. Sorry.

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Oh. He was from Texas. That makes it entirely different. Cause he'll never visit KC again and beat up another girl. Ok ladies, let move along, nothing to worry about. Those Dallas girls can't screw themselves too. They don't need to know about a bad guy in their midst.

[alterego1]

Good point Sins. There's a good chance he's done it before and will do it again. I hope all the fine ladies out there become aware of the bastard so they don't see him.

[Guest090920]

SOTF, take a deep breath, sip your coffee, and leave the sarcastic attitude behind for a moment. Are you capable of doing that for a minute or two?

I was told by the lady last night, that an alert had been posted in a "ladies section" but that it doesn't seem to be appearing. This young lady is good with technology, so something went amiss.

I have no doubt she will attempt again to post the alert because she does have concern for the safety of the other ladies regardless of their location.

Now, Happy Independence Day, everyone!

[JS42]

Originally Posted by scorpio31

SOTF, take a deep breath, sip your coffee, and leave the sarcastic attitude behind for a moment. Are you capable of doing that for a minute or two?

I was thinking pretty much the same thing. We all (well pretty much all of us) want the lady providers safety a paramount issue, but seriously, lay off the snarky ass comments. Give this a little time to play out and I'm sure you will get the answer you seek.

Needless to say, the guy is a POS.

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Search what are the odds that two different girls would tell you their sad stories of troubles with other guys? It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out who we are talking about here. If she can post in a general forum this very morning in fact, then she can take the 5 minutes needed to post an alert.

The alleged incident occurred days ago. She found time to PM with at least two of you guys, who knows how many others, but in that same time, not a peep in the form of any kind of alert. I"m sure the women of Dallas would like to know about an alleged abuser. So would the women of KC, or any other place the alleged abuser might visit.

Until she does, I call BS on the whole thing, and will gladly eat my words when and if she should deign to communicate with her fellow providers.

[OLindsay]

There is no alert in the Dallas forum in either info share nor the alert section from her, this is really sad that we have had 4 providers with in the last month in a half that has been attacked robbed, rapped or hurt and out of the 4 there was only one alert made, ladies we are suppose to work together not against each other, and yes I know that things get repeated that shouldnt when it's posted in private, but hell we all have cell phones and we all have email if you don't feel comfortable posting it on here.Ijs someone needs to come forth and speak up on this violence that us ladies could end up enduring during our session with a complete stranger.

[clusterlizard]

I think the drama on this site, to which this thread contributes, can be a deterrent to information sharing. What should properly be handled in the girl's forums has spilled out onto the public board for no real reason. If you want to start a discussion about abusive clients, then do so without alluding to any specific person. If a provider wanted to bring her private business to the public board, then she would have. As for the alerts and what-not, that's between the ladies.

[Redwolf]

Search, I would hope that you had permission to share this private conversation with the board. Did the lady encourage you to start this thread?

Happy 4th to everyone!