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ElumEno · 07-02-2013, 07:39 PM

This should never be acceptable at any time, hobby or not, the sad thing is that a lot of the times, the women (and men) that endure such abuse will not turn it in.
They feel somehow it is their fault... and then with in the hobby world there are some ladies that will not report such thing account they are afraid that some of their
peers will tell them if they would have screened better then it would not have happened... that is total bullshit in my opinion.
You ladies need to always, no matter how much you might dislike one another, stick together when it comes to safety.
You need to get the word out, even if it is through private channels and not on the open board, about any and all such violent persons.
History has shown time and again that what starts as a little slap here and a punch there.. can turn into much more serious things later.

How would you feel if you didn't tell others about that violent person and the next girl he sees, he puts her into the hospital or god forbids, kills her.

So please ladies, share this type of information with each other.. if it helps just one girl not get hurt.. don't you think it is worth it.

Redwolf · 07-03-2013, 09:32 AM

Report the violent offender on Alerts.

Contact back the providers that he used for references to let them know what happened so that they will not continue giving him references and will strongly consider not seeing him again.

mexmex50 · 07-03-2013, 09:42 AM

That should never happen to a provider. How does stl get this information?

OLindsay · 07-03-2013, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by ElamEno

This should never be acceptable at any time, hobby or not, the sad thing is that a lot of the times, the women (and men) that endure such abuse will not turn it in.
They feel somehow it is their fault... and then with in the hobby world there are some ladies that will not report such thing account they are afraid that some of their
peers will tell them if they would have screened better then it would not have happened... that is total bullshit in my opinion.
You ladies need to always, no matter how much you might dislike one another, stick together when it comes to safety.
You need to get the word out, even if it is through private channels and not on the open board, about any and all such violent persons.
History has shown time and again that what starts as a little slap here and a punch there.. can turn into much more serious things later.

How would you feel if you didn't tell others about that violent person and the next girl he sees, he puts her into the hospital or god forbids, kills her.

So please ladies, share this type of information with each other.. if it helps just one girl not get hurt.. don't you think it is worth it.

+1

Guest090920 · 07-03-2013, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Kshunter

Who got hurt?

I'm going to be polite with my response and say with all due respect it is not important that you or anyone else know the identity of the girl who was mistreated unless she decides to share that very private information.

Another way of saying that is we're on a need to know basis and in her mind, we don't need to know at this point or else she would have made a public statement herself.

And yes, it is a terrible shame. There have been some excellent suggestions and recommendations made in this thread, in my opinion, about how to deal with the perpetrator.

Support from a community such as this is a very important element in not only having fun, but also being safe from all potentially bad elements.

DestinyInKC · 07-03-2013, 04:13 PM

This is horrible and I truely hope she is okay. However an alert would be appreciated. I don't want to run across this man myself.

searchthelimits · 07-03-2013, 05:34 PM

My understanding is that an alert for this Dallas piece of work. Hopefully all the great providers will be safe and careful. I am sorry as a man that this is ever a problem.

By the way, the provider is back at work so we lucky guys here can still enjoy her beauty and great GFE time. Hope you feel as I do.

Sir Licks-a-lot · 07-03-2013, 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by searchthelimits

My understanding is that an alert for this Dallas piece of work. Hopefully all the great providers will be safe and careful. I am sorry as a man that this is ever a problem.

By the way, the provider is back at work so we lucky guys here can still enjoy her beauty and great GFE time. Hope you feel as I do.

I was going to contact one of the fine providers for some fun this week but now I feel inclined to see her (who ever she is). It you are listening, PM me so I can make an appointment.

mexmex50 · 07-03-2013, 06:16 PM

Searchthelimits where did you get this information?

KCSmutMonkey · 07-03-2013, 06:20 PM

Uhhh, prolly from the chica. Just guessing.

Guest090920 · 07-03-2013, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by mexmex50

Searchthelimits where did you get this information?

Why do you care? He has it and has it correctly, and that is all you need to know.

Go "seen" one of your girls....

JRLawrence · 07-03-2013, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by scorpio31

I agree, search, this should never, ever happen to a young lady, regardless of the circumstances.

Not only in society, but also in this sub-culture there are acceptable norms of behavior and what happened to this fine, young lady, is completely outside of those boundaries.

As the old saying goes, "Karma is a bitch", so I hope what goes around comes around to the low-life who harmed a member of our community.

I do not understand hitting by anyone, but it happens. If she was giving him trouble, just walk away, There is nothing to prove by remaining in a situation where one is not satisfied with the encounter. Just get up and leave.

Women sometimes try to control things by continuing to talk, and talk, and talk. i.e., Bitch. If that bothers a guy, just leave. Take your business elsewhere; if it is your wife, allow her time to cool down. My best comeback has always been: "Honey, you are just too important to me for me to argue, or fight with. I can't do it. I am leaving for now, maybe we can discuss this matter tomorrow."

Then leave, and let her calm down. She is obviously upset, so the guy can't win. Forget about win, or loose. The guy never will make her happy by hitting her - so walk away; no matter how upset you are.

At that point the guy needs to calm down too. Remove yourself from the situation before it escalates. Call her later, or send her flowers if she is important to you.

It sounds like the world drove him crazy, he must have had seven women on his mind. Remember the song?

JR

Guest090920 · 07-03-2013, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by KCSmutMonkey

Uhhh, prolly from the chica. Just guessing.

Thanks for cluing in mexmex, he obviously needed our help. I originally thought too much cerveza, but lately, I don't know.

mexmex50 · 07-03-2013, 08:27 PM

Hey Scorpio I just asked a question. Who are you god?

Guest090920 · 07-03-2013, 08:41 PM

I'll let you in on the bottom line....it's none of your business! If it was, either search or the lady would have put the name out there.

Have you stopped long enough to think about whether she wants her name mentioned in public or not? My guess is no, you haven't.

Just because you think you are entitled to know doesn't make it so.