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[Ms. Milani]

Hello everyone,
It's with a heavy heart that I have to write this. It has come to my attention that malicious rumors are being spread about me. Apparently I was going to "out" another member. As soon as I found this out I spoke to several people close to said member and it was cleared up. I did not out or threaten to out anyone. A person close to said member was the one who actually concocted everything to purposely try to destroy my reputation. In the past two months, my personal information including my phone number, real name, and my address was leaked to other members by this person who's been stalking me. I've been trying my best to stay away from said person and to ignore the drama as I do not like drama. I've been threatened, harassed, and stalked. I have proof to back up everything as well. I've also sent the proof to the mods. This was intended to be kept bcd but apparently someone is still spreading the rumors. I URGE you to talk directly to those that the rumors involve. Ask them if I really was threatening to out them. I feel horrible because I do not ever like to hurt people and I've been targeted for absolutely no reason. Everyone involved realizes the truth now but it has not stopped the rumors. I am thankful for the apologies that I've gotten from some members because they thought I was actually the one stalking and hurting others. I assure you that is not the case. I did not want to be involved in this drama. I did not cause this drama. And even when my family was in danger by this stalker I still tried to act professional and keep the drama away from my clients.

I have proof of everything I've said. And now I ask PLEASE for everyone to stop spreading malicious rumors unless they are 100% certain they are true. You have no idea how much you're helping my stalker destroy me and my family. If you hear anything please ask for proof! Emails, texts, anything. See for your own eyes before continuing to spread rumors. We are all adults and we should act like it. I am a mother of 5 children who I'm defending furiously. My children are my world. But because of some unstable person they've put me and my children at risk. I am not for he said she said childishness. I have proof to prove my innocence.

I have placed this in the co ed forum because I know that even some providers hate me now because of these rumors. Again I am sorry that I even had to post this. I really hate drama and I've cried several times because I've been unwillingly dragged into this. I just want everything to go back to the way it was. I've been here since 2011 and I've never stalked or hurt someone. Yes I did get feisty once with another provider but we made amends and are keeping it professional.

And if you were given my personal information please I am begging you NOT to tell anyone. I am quickly trying to move but it requires me to have money that I have not yet been able to save up. I don't want any more drama. And I don't want my family in danger.

From this point on I will let this matter rest. You've heard my side and if you'd like proof please talk to one of the mods or myself. You can also talk to those directly involved in the rumors. If you hear a rumor..verify it before you spread it. I again apologize for the drama that has descended upon the board. I tried my best to squash it and it didn't work.

Have a wonderful week, everyone.

Malaya

[rex-man]

Be safe babe. I have heard nothing but great praise about you. Dont let this get you down.

[foxyred73]

I can understand that

[Guest101314]

I'm sorry you're going through this sweetie. Stay prayed up, I'll send some your way too

[Guest111113]

I don't wanna sound like a dick but I don't think this business is for you. There seems to always be something going on. Keeping it real here if you truly want to protect yourself and family I would leave this business and try and make it in the real world with a real job. We all have our reasons for being here but let me break it down for you, one for the money, two for the sex! That's it, sex and money...none of which are worth getting hurt for.

Stalkers are dangerous and there escapades often escalate. Some People are sick! The only true way to keep yourself safe is to quit, and move. As long as you stay in this lifestyle he/she will still be able to hurt you. It's easier said than done but I think it's something you should really consider and work towards. I wish you luck and hope for your safety. Don't take my words as judgment take it as advice from a friend that keeps it real! Lol

[mayorcastro]

I must not be in the Cool Crowd cause I never hear rumors.

[Secret Encounters]

^^^I agree 150% with the pipe layer..lol.. (lol abt pipe layer, not U)

We have read many post about being harassed, stalked, falling in luv w/clients, clingy clients, needing help.. financially, emotionally n sexually. Think u need time out to re group. This is supposed to be fun & a thrill with satisfaction , if ya knw wht i mean.
I mean lots of ppl are gonna talk. Ive had my fair share of rumors U hve spread but i took it like a big gurl and ive even been cordial & stayed professional w/u. U need to get thick skinned & Dont let it bother u.

If its a real safety issue rent an incall dont play where u stay. Safety should be ur #1 priority!!!

Keep ur head up n best of luck miss maam.

[Ms. Milani]

Yes I understand what you're saying. That is why I'm retiring in 2 months. While I love the great people I've met and I do enjoy sex...the danger that comes with it..is not worth it. Especially when my family is targeted. I was reassured though that this person would leave me alone though. So I'm going to finish my last two months and ride away into the sunset. I do think you need a very thick skin to be a provider. Which I will admit I don't have. I am too nice and too trusting and I don't think I could ever purposely hurt someone (unless they hurt my children of course). I have finished my school classes and I'm waiting on taking my licensing exam and then I will start my new job. Providing is a difficult and dangerous profession but for certain people it can be truly amazing. Being the kind of person I am...I tend to be an easy target because I am ill equipped to fight back. Those that are close to me know that I almost lost my life because of a hobbyist in 2007. I was too trusting. Although I'm grateful for all the amazing people I've met and it has definitely been a life experience but I do think I belong in the "real world". I appreciate your concern and advice.

Originally Posted by Mr.pipe

I don't wanna sound like a dick but I don't think this business is for you. There seems to always be something going on. Keeping it real here if you truly want to protect yourself and family I would leave this business and try and make it in the real world with a real job. We all have our reasons for being here but let me break it down for you, one for the money, two for the sex! That's it, sex and money...none of which are worth getting hurt for.

Stalkers are dangerous and there escapades often escalate. Some People are sick! The only true way to keep yourself safe is to quit, and move. As long as you stay in this lifestyle he/she will still be able to hurt you. It's easier said than done but I think it's something you should really consider and work towards. I wish you luck and hope for your safety. Don't take my words as judgment take it as advice from a friend that keeps it real! Lol

[Ms. Milani]

I don't think I've ever fallen in love with a client but I do remember enjoying sleeping with one enough to think of more. Emotionally though nothing was there.

I cannot say I've spread rumors about you. I do remember we had our spat that was public and in front of other eccie members. So perhaps they made up rumors and spread them? You should know I've always been honest. I am saddened that you would think I'm spreading rumors about you. I've actually referred several people to you. Please pm me so we can get to the bottom of any rumors.

And if anyone has heard any rumors regarding Lexxxi I assure you she is a beautiful spunky woman who loves to enjoy life and is very protective over her friends.

Originally Posted by Secret Encounters

^^^I agree 150% with the pipe layer..lol.. (lol abt pipe layer, not U)

We have read many post about being harassed, stalked, falling in luv w/clients, clingy clients, needing help.. financially, emotionally n sexually. Think u need time out to re group. This is supposed to be fun & a thrill with satisfaction , if ya knw wht i mean.
I mean lots of ppl are gonna talk. Ive had my fair share of rumors U hve spread but i took it like a big gurl and ive even been cordial & stayed professional w/u. U need to get thick skinned & Dont let it bother u.

If its a real safety issue rent an incall dont play where u stay. Safety should be ur #1 priority!!!

Keep ur head up n best of luck miss maam.

[Guest120113]

I am going to respond... which is NOT actually not part of my new way of thinking towards this site... I just want to use the advertising allowed here and leave all the past alone.

First of all I have not TARGETED anybodys family. That's bullshit. That isn't my style. I told you in one txt to leave me alone and stop YOUR side of this shit and referenced the office of the inspector general. I'm admitting that yes. Have I or would I ever snitch on anyone for any reason? Hell no. If I wanted you bad enough to do all this stalking you keep speaking of, I would have dealt with ( you ) already. I don't have any reasons left to defend myself against this... Your family is not a target nor are you. Let's let it go. Please.

The whole situation malaya is discussing is a dead deal. Its over. I am not talking to anyone about her or anyone else. I am trying very hard just to fade into the shadows. So I assure you Malaya I am not feeding any MORE fucking gossip. To you or any other individual, period. I'm DONE. I dont care anymore. But Im not going to sit here and let you publicly state I'm targeting your family. BULLSHIT.


You don't have to move or any of the stuff you are stating here. Its over its done let's make it a public announcement... if that's what it takes. I'm not out to get you or ruin your reputation. I want to be done with this whole subject... so if you hear I'm saying this or that.... its bullshit. I refuse to talk about anyone or anything after the messes gossip has created.


Id start a seperate thread but hopefully this is sufficiant. Its over. Please. Let's agree on that at least.

Thanks

[ArisRose]

Im posting this for the future providers who are lurking: keep them squares up out your circle. I wouldn't let a motherfucker from church know where I live much less anyone in the hobby.

[Secret Encounters]

YAY.. THATS IT LADIES..

BE CORDIAL...

[Ms. Milani]

Ginger, I already said that you had been leaving me alone. As I said earlier. I don't think it's you spreading the rumors. But you DID get my personal number, my real name, and my address and you DID give it to other members on the board. So regardless I will be moving. If you don't think finding out someone's personal information isn't stalking then I don't know what you think is. I appreciate that you are leaving me alone though. Thank you.

I want to let everyone know that Ginger and I are on peaceful terms so whomever is trying to continue the drama by spreading gossip is not appreciated.

Originally Posted by Ginger Lovelace

I am going to respond... which is NOT actually not part of my new way of thinking towards this site... I just want to use the advertising allowed here and leave all the past alone.

First of all I have not TARGETED anybodys family. That's bullshit. That isn't my style. I told you in one txt to leave me alone and stop YOUR side of this shit and referenced the office of the inspector general. I'm admitting that yes. Have I or would I ever snitch on anyone for any reason? Hell no. If I wanted you bad enough to do all this stalking you keep speaking of, I would have dealt with ( you ) already. I don't have any reasons left to defend myself against this... Your family is not a target nor are you. Let's let it go. Please.

The whole situation malaya is discussing is a dead deal. Its over. I am not talking to anyone about her or anyone else. I am trying very hard just to fade into the shadows. So I assure you Malaya I am not feeding any MORE fucking gossip. To you or any other individual, period. I'm DONE. I dont care anymore. But Im not going to sit here and let you publicly state I'm targeting your family. BULLSHIT.


You don't have to move or any of the stuff you are stating here. Its over its done let's make it a public announcement... if that's what it takes. I'm not out to get you or ruin your reputation. I want to be done with this whole subject... so if you hear I'm saying this or that.... its bullshit. I refuse to talk about anyone or anything after the messes gossip has created.


Id start a seperate thread but hopefully this is sufficiant. Its over. Please. Let's agree on that at least.

Thanks

[TrmaOne]

Sounds like an intervention is needed....

[Guest120113]

Thank you Malaya.
I was given your info, by someone. I have not given any of it to anyone. But anywhoo...
No intervention is needed, thanks TRMA