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Originally Posted by TooDum ToHum
FUCK YOU PEOPLE. If you had anything better to do, it wouldn't have been read.
Paying these people for sex is nothing to be proud of nor a life achievement. Matter of fact, go
announce it to your relatives at the next family gathering and see how many more you get an
invite to, 'nuff said. If you're in "Constant search" of anything, you're a sex addict and won't own
up to it. Personally, I have NO desire to jump through hoops for some chick just because I'm crippled.
I don't think most of you ever had relationships, I'd bet money on that. This 'hobby' is dysfunctionality at it's most warped.
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So we get a further peak into your fucked up psyche, eh? Major guilt trip going on with you isn't there?
First off, its JUST SEX! Quit trying to turn it into this huge Judeo-Christian ethics play. Sex is fun & releases stress reducing endorphins. So the act itself is not only enjoyable, its also healthy for you.
As to telling the family? With the fucked up morals of the united states, what should be a fun agreement between two consenting adults is made to be something wrong. But in many cultures its perfectly normal to seek release from a working girl. Go to Thailand, you'll see an entirely different mindset on what is considered an acceptable way to pass some time and have some fun. Also, some of the happiest people in the world. Why? They don't walk around sexually frustrated all the time. If a guy is stressed, he can be with some of the most beautiful women in the world for roughly 30 and walk around with a smile the rest of the day.
As to "sex addicts"...basically you say that like its a bad thing... I don't get that at all and it just puts an exclamation mark on your disgust with your life, yourself & your crippleism. You hate your life...you bore us with the details. No one GIVE A FLYING FUCK about your condition here. That might sound cold and calloused, but its absolutely a truism.
Maybe God just doesn't like you? As to me, he has blessed me with a SB who I don't even have to pay for anymore..just get to spoil the hell out of her...its more like a friends with benefits now. My thoughts are God rewards those who try to enjoy life and punishes those sad motherfuckers who don't.
And get this...you CAN'T jump through hoops....Why? Because you're crippled... Cripples don't "jump" they kind of fall out of their wheelchairs through the hoop. Like a fish jumping out of its tank and flopping around on the ground.
You come on here with your uber angry at life persona & cut down women even as they are talking with you. Its obvious being in this hobby is not for someone so caught up in themselves and their issues. You hate your life & I doubt you try to do much to make it better....just sit around and feel sorry for your crippled ass and lash out at others. Guess what? We all have life challenges. We all gotta die. You can accept those things and try to have some enjoyment or you can live each day in hell like you do.
As to family? Check this. My SB is going to ACL with me and my family. Not paying her. Not compensating her in any way other than ticket, food, drink. Because she WANTS to meet my family & they want to meet her. No she will not be introduced as a hoogar, just as my girl friend...you see my friend, if you have a positive attitude-try to be a good guy-sometimes, sometimes good things happen to you.
I'm sorry you life sucks for you so much, I really am. The hobby offers some of us a little break from the complexities and stress of life. Most of the guys on here have solid jobs, careers, families...or else they couldn't afford to partake of this expensive hobby. So its NOT a bunch of freaks & cripples for the most part, its upstanding citizens who pay back to the community.
It sounds to me like YOU are the outcast & the one who has all the guilt associations with enjoying some time with a young lady and then helping her with lifes bills. And my friend, when you break it down? That's all we are doing...spending some quality time and then helping a friend out with expenses...
Maybe you'll be lucky and die soon, then you won't have to live with this terrible guilt. I for one will be pulling for you! Good luck in the afterlife...