Respect ...

[JONBALLS]

oh yah, theyd have them meetings about every 6 mos

well, good luck with all that...

[JohnnyCap]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

I do not agree with that part on a SHMB

that be only half right maybe.

I was starting from pyramiders quote, that it must be earned. I don't believe that, but enough people do, that I adjusted my view.

There are two sorts of respect, that which you are given and that which you earn. The former is the sort DD says everyone deserves, and can lose, and I agree, but some folks, not usually my types, say 'fuck 'Em' from square one and require everyone else to prove their worth to get even the consideration of respect.

I feel when that latter type of person 'respects' someone, it often isn't even real respect, but rather pandering that will be used to an end. I'm not differentiating for an SHMB, as I'm not sure what that acronym is.

Sex Hobby Message Board? If that's right, I'm in no position to speak on respect/power, I'm just a lurking noob.

Respect, and its brother dissed, is an overused word these days.

[JONBALLS]

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[The Drummer]

Some I'm sure will disagree, but I believe, at least, Human Dignity should be afforded in all cases as the foundation for then earning respect.

TD

[The Drummer]

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

oh yah, theyd have them meetings about every 6 mos

well, good luck with all that...

Are you refering to "Team Building"?

Yeah, that works!

[offshoredrilling]

errr can someone wake me up when the meeting is over


note: errrr don't blame me, I had no idea what I was going ta say till I saw what smiles I had easily enable to work with

[The Drummer]

Make Dull Meetings a Thing of the Past

[DDarkness]

Originally Posted by The Drummer

Some I'm sure will disagree, but I believe, at least, Human Dignity should be afforded in all cases as the foundation for then earning respect.

TD

DD

[pyramider]

Why has no one mentioned respecting the taint?

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

errr can someone wake me up when the meeting is over


note: errrr don't blame me, I had no idea what I was going ta say till I saw what smiles I had easily enable to work with

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[offshoredrilling]

well many may not like my ways. yet I'm the most loyal repeater on the board. trying not to be a WK.

[elghund]

You know, a lot of people piled on DD for the respect issue. I gotta say, I get what he is trying to say.

Example: I did a review for a chick named Selina, and wrote what I saw and experienced.
I described her as follows:

".....Boobies are all natural firm and have perfect size medium colored nipples, and they were already erect. Flawless skin, coild not see a stretch mark anywhere, shaved downstairs, and her ass is not big, not small, and nothing but smooth and firm....."

This is what I saw. But, some newbie trash talker jumped on me with the following:

"......i was shocked to see how much she has physically let her self go!She had 2 and a half chins working, a visible gut that was hanging out side of her shirt and her now miss shapened ass was HUUUGE ! She probably weighed every bit of 180-190 lbs on a 5' 3" frame .Not a very pretty sight at all......."

You guys can find the thread....it's still there. And, this is exactly what I think DD is talking about......there is no reason for this kind of trash talk. In that review, I said what I saw. If there was disagreement, there are ways to say it without being such an ass......and this guy was an ass about the way he handled that whole exchange. Even if the guy was right (which he was NOT), there are far better ways to word what he wanted to say.

And, it goes further......I posted a good review, and the newbie piled on.....and, instead of researching his past record of: A) Short time on site B) Posting history as an "attacker" C) Questionable stories about himself.......what happens is that everyone else starts piling on me, and questions what I saw.

I've been around a good long time. I was around on ASPD when it was alive. I used to find my hobby fix by using Freetime and the New Times print editions. I found chicks in clubs, and kept my ass as safe as I could working by myself to hobby. I was glad the internet started having hobby sites, and started "hunting" that way. It's been good having input from others.

On ECCIE, I've posted some Yes and No reviews, and called things pretty accurately, I believe. I try to give good information, and things that I think will help out people who read what I write.
I've never really given anyone any shit, and tried to have good constructive comments when I could.

And, what I got in that review was a lot of shit, and no help in calling out the attacker....who disappeared after his attack.

I think that a lot of lurkers go through what I did on that review. Try to join in. Run into crap like this. And say Fuckit......

I know that some feel that lurkers are "chickenshit"......and maybe some are, but I think many just try, get the shit kicked out of them by some (or many) asses, and just say why bother......

I also think that the GOBC should be the first ones who come to the defense of newer people (or anyone) trying to get on board and help.....because you guys have been around and should be able to smell out who's for real and who's a faker.

And, girls....same to you. Everyone reveals enough about themselves here to form an opinion of who you should be able to trust....or not.

Sorry for the long post, but this topic is important, I believe. And DD is right to keep it in our faces.

Flame away.......


elg....

[DDarkness]

Its nice when people get it!

being respectful of each other and the ladies is as important as the quality of the review. It DOESN'T matter if its a yes or no, THAT is the poster's opinion and we should respect it. Attacking another though is crap and serves only to demonstrate the quality and character of the attacker ...

We make up our own minds and decide based on what we read, the reviews, what we read in threads, and on the initial calls we make as well as actual interactions that we have with the providers!

There are many different ladies out there with a variety of styles, looks, and skill sets. The information that you can glean here allows you to make an informed decision but being respectful to the lady and the reviewer is an appropriate way of showing appreciation for the efforts that both have made here on the board!

Thanks elg!

DD

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by elghund

You guys can find the thread....it's still there. And, this is exactly what I think DD is talking about......there is no reason for this kind of trash talk. In that review, I said what I saw. If there was disagreement, there are ways to say it without being such an ass......and this guy was an ass about the way he handled that whole exchange. Even if the guy was right (which he was NOT), there are far better ways to word what he wanted to say.

I agree. If someone has a bad experience it might be wise to hold off doing the review for a couple days so as to cool off a bit. Probably not a good idea to write a review when still angry, especially if the little head is giving you the middle finger LOL. If you write a review when still pissed you're more apt to be nasty about it.

[brasil]

Originally Posted by cowboy8055

I agree. If someone has a bad experience it might be wise to hold off doing the review for a couple days so as to cool off a bit. Probably not a good idea to write a review when still angry, especially if the little head is giving you the middle finger LOL. If you write a review when still pissed you're more apt to be nasty about it.

The same might be true about a good experience. We may be more objective when the euphoria has passed.