Discounts on Donations? Is it ever OK for a hobbyist to ask?

[cowboyfan2745]

Originally Posted by OldSarge

So, given these comments, what do you advise a lady say in the hypothetical event an ECCIE member calls her up, knows her advertised rates and then says he will see her, but she HAS to discount. When she asks how much, his reply is a number less than half her rate? (and we are talking a hypothetical GFE lady with hourly rates less than $200).

The hypothetical lady should tell the hypothetical ECCIE member to pound sand and direct him towards BP where he might be able find someone more in his price range. At less then half of normal rate, one can only imagine the expected outcome of the overall session between the two of them. Hypothetically of course.

I don't ask for discounts myself, if I can't afford a particular provider at her stated rate then I just move on to someone more in my range until I feel that I can afford to splurge on that provider. I'd love to drive a Ferrari as my everyday vehicle but I own something more appropriate for my budget and lifestyle. You get what you pay for in life and as stated earlier by another poster if you can't afford playing in the hobby maybe the hypothetical gentleman has the wrong hobby. Just my .02 for what it's worth.

[sean rider]

Originally Posted by gee_a_cee

She got the 200 in the end anyway.

geeze dude, you could have just handed it to her!

[gee_a_cee]

Originally Posted by sean rider

geeze dude, you could have just handed it to her!

Not quite sure what to make of your response. This was a BP lady. Not eccie. An "unknown". Had it of been a less than desirable session she would not have received the tip.

I've gone on a $$ appointment with another BP lady. After finding out what was not on the menu I apologized that it did not meet my needs, gave her 40, we hugged and parted with no hard feelings. I was not out an additional 160 for something less than what I wanted and she made 40 for 5 minutes of her time for just talk.

I personally never try to haggle with an eccie or P411 lady. I pay the quoted rate and if it's exceptional also tip.

I had to cancel within a couple of hours of an appointment due to illness on my part. And this was with a high class eccie/P411 lady. I felt so bad I arranged to meet her in public and handed over a C note, no strings attached. Later that same day I received an OK from her on P411.

My take: Conduct yourself as a gentleman, put yourself in their shoes, and act accordingly. You will come out on top every time.

[knotty man]

i think you missed his humor.
she got the 200 in the "END" i.e. "da butt"

[gee_a_cee]

Originally Posted by knotty man

i think you missed his humor.
she got the 200 in the "END" i.e. "da butt"

Did not and still don't take it that way. Seemed like a jab at me for doing what I did.

Each to their own.

[cowboyfan2745]

GAC, I really don't think it was jab at you. Just knotty's way of humor.

[sean rider]

Gee a cee, just my feeble attempt at humor as per the above comments. Sorry if it caused confusion.

[gee_a_cee]

Originally Posted by sean rider

Gee a cee, just my feeble attempt at humor as per the above comments. Sorry if it caused confusion.

No harm, no foul. No problem. It's all cool. At my age I frequently get confused.

[Ms. Athena]

My rates are posted as well as any special I might be running, P411 men always have their discount posted there. So I prefer a man not to mention rates when we are setting up an appt. I always tend to go over time, as my time is mine to give and hate to feel rushed in any setting. Plus as a Cock Slut its sooo hard to stop sucking....slurp

[DallasRain]

I feel that my donations are WAY more than reasoable for all I offer!!

But i will offer my regular clients specials from time to time

[spice-is-nice]

DR and Ms. Athena are incredible women and have rates that are way more than reasonable AND they aren't clock watchers.

Thank you both for the great times we've had together.

I try to never talk about price and never dicker. There are only a few possible exceptions, and these are really clarifications or quid quo pro situations:

• As previously mentioned, if she doesn't have a posted rate for a given duration, I'll ask what it is, or perhaps suggest something for that length of time.
• She has different rates posted on different websites. if they are current, I expect the lowest one.
• If she requests that you help teach her how to do something (I've had that experience with D/s), or to buy her something (I've bought strap-ons on a couple of occasions at the lady's request), I think consideration is reasonable..
• I don't think this is a price negotiation. But there are a few times I have invited a lady to lunch or dinner off the clock, being very clear I have no expectation that she accept.

Respect is the most important part of this, and I think I have given that to every woman I have ever played with.

[Zabrina Sarafina]

ummm I think if you can pretend I mean if you genuinely are disabled some ladies offer some kinda special discount

or they'll be so creeped out they will put you on their block list 4eva

[Kal El69]

Where are all the guys who call the ladies and offer them a "Deal" of 60% off of their own posted rates? I wanna hear from them. Seems there must be more of you out there. I have heard about you, I just wanna hear you say it...... you know who you are....

Come on, we dont' care if the lady takes offense.... this IS a buyers market. It is OK to call them up for an appointment, tell them we had a great time last time. Remind them of how many reviews we write, tell them we know they make a good living off of our reviews and how much a bad review can hurt.... and then hit them with the "bill" up front for not writing a bad review?

I mean, come on guys, are you being a bunch of pussies about it? or is it not happening?

Ladies, are you telling me that some "established" gents have NEVER contacted you and asked for an appointment and then ask how little you will take to suck and fuck them?

I know I have and I know I am not alone!

Kal El. friend of JackJoeOff7667

[Buckskin]

Oh boy........

[cowboyfan2745]

Well it looks like someone is back in the area?