why do yall men dont like other poeple hang around our work place.

[foxyred73]

This is bother me about yall men.

Use lady on this on eccie has there own work place that pay taxes at the end of the year when comes to there incall.

All of use lady use our incall to handle and run our business like sexy lady here .if we have our pvt life our incall or anybody else around use before you come for your appt or appt time.

We dont go to your work place and start ask question who is hang around your work place about your pvt life or setting sexy on your desk.

So why ok for you guy ask all of lady hang around our work place before your appt time at our incall?

[rockerrick]

Another provider thread complaining about shit that's their responsibility . If you don't want someone hanging at your work place , or asking about your business , SIMPLE , tell them to get the fuck out !!! Problem solved! But you're welcome to come hang out at mine , or ask about it , but don't be surprised if you get bored shitless! God knows I am !

[Doglegg]

I do not believe the OP was complaining about people hanging out in her work place, I believe she was asking why clients complained or were wary/curious about who else was in the incall such as in a shared apartment or private residence.

FoxyRed, some of us are extremely paranoid about being surprised by a 'visitor' such as a pimp, boyfriend, husband, SO, or girlfriend, or even children.

Not all men, but some of us feel very uncomfortable when others are around.

Others may be nosey and want to know what the situation is with a shared incall or private residence.

I for one, would like to know if there would be any 'interruptions' by other 'visitors'.

Of course this answer is only applicable if I read your question correctly.

Dogg

[John Landecker]

I have told this story before but it relates to what is being talked about here.

So here goes, I am seeing a popular Latina provider and while in MISH I hear the TV. I'm thinking damn....the walls in this place must be thin if I can hear the neighbors TV that well. Then it occurred to me, maybe it was her TV, but I just hadn't heard it until MISH.

So I asked her, "Is that the neighbor's TV or yours?"

As I banged away on her, she replied, "That is just my BF in the room next door."

Yikes. My eyes got THAT big. But I was Cool Hand Luke, did a few other positions with her....her CG was outstanding. I was going home right have the session, and didn't want to smell like sexy woman so…...I even had a shower.

Just as I entered the shower, in Spanish I heard her give him hell.

No..... I am not going to tell who this was with.

I was pretty naive back then....LOL...you're probably thinking I was insane.....I wouldn't be that cool now days. So to answer your question. It is best not to have the BF, SO or other men hanging around your place if you can help it….yes I know some guys like to watch…that is their turn on……BUT for most of us, it can really kill the mood if you know what I mean. Hell, I get paranoid now days when a bunch of teenage boys are hanging around the parking lot, and have nothing to do with the provider.



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[Ms. Milani]

That's hilarious!!

Originally Posted by Don Imus

I have told this story before but it relates to what is being talked about here.

So here goes, I am seeing a popular Latina provider and while in MISH I hear the TV. I'm thinking damn....the walls in this place must be thin if I can hear the neighbors TV that well. Then it occurred to me, maybe it was her TV, but I just hadn't heard it until MISH.

So I asked her, "Is that the neighbor's TV or yours?"

As I banged away on her, she replied, "That is just my BF in the room next door."

Yikes. My eyes got THAT big. But I was Cool Hand Luke, did a few other positions with her....her CG was outstanding. I was going home right have the session, and didn't want to smell like sexy woman so…...I even had a shower.

Just as I entered the shower, in Spanish I heard her give him hell.

No..... I am not going to tell who this was with.

I was pretty naive back then....LOL...you're probably thinking I was insane.....I wouldn't be that cool now days. So to answer your question. It is best not to have the BF, SO or other men hanging around your place if you can help it….yes I know some guys like to watch…that is their turn on……BUT for most of us, it can really kill the mood if you know what I mean. Hell, I get paranoid now days when a bunch of teenage boys are hanging around the parking lot, and have nothing to do with the provider.



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[dbeartx]

This is a pretty funny thread...

I think you answered your own question when you said

use our incall to handle and run our business like sexy lady

You are running a business, which makes your visitor your client. So if your "client" feels the need to ask about your business, he or she is entitled to do so no questions asked.

I preface with not all and not even very many.... but reading some of these posts, I think that some providers forget that they are running a business and with that comes certain expectations, especially at some of the donations being asked for.

Our time is just as valuable as your time, our safety and level of confidence and security are just as important as yours. The difference is, we are the customer in this scenario. That doesn't give us the right to be jackasses, but it does afford that certain expectations be met and professional-isms be extended.

Just my two (or three) cents...

[Hollywood101]

Ah-ha! I think I deciphered what she's asking, it made my brain hurt but I got it. (I think)

I believe she's saying: "when a date shows up earlier than expected and is sitting in their vehicle waiting for their date at her incall and see's the going on's of whatever she is doing and who is coming and going, it's not the gents place to ask questions about it."

Now, I understand 100% if a gent see's a guy walk in and not come out and he's about to go in. I don't blame him one bit for asking if the other guy is still in there, lol. However, to sit at ones incall while waiting and watch her dealings then ask questions is just rude. It's no ones business who she's talking with or seeing if it's not during y'all's scheduled time.

Well, hopefully I'm right, if not then I seriously have no clue as to what the rant was about.

[dbeartx]

Originally Posted by Hollywood101

Ah-ha! I think I deciphered what she's asking, it made my brain hurt but I got it. (I think)

I believe she's saying: "when a date shows up earlier than expected and is sitting in their vehicle waiting for their date at her incall and see's the going on's of whatever she is doing and who is coming and going, it's not the gents place to ask questions about it."

Now, I understand 100% if a gent see's a guy walk in and not come out and he's about to go in. I don't blame him one bit for asking if the other guy is still in there, lol. However, to sit at ones incall while waiting and watch her dealings then ask questions is just rude. It's no ones business who she's talking with or seeing if it's not during y'all's scheduled time.

Well, hopefully I'm right, if not then I seriously have no clue as to what the rant was about.

Lol, yeah I couldn't 100% make it out either...

I do agree though, if a guy is just sitting out there, it's none of his business... Unless it looks like LE or something else not safe, personally in that case I would just leave though.

[Naughty_Jezabelle]

I stopped a long time ago trying to figure out what this girl is trying to say. A true friend would say "just don't type anything on there again... ever.. no seriously.... ever"

But if Hollywood is right about what you are trying to say ... you shouldn't be giving out your specific address that far in advance. Or you shouldn't be booking dates that closely together.

If you are saying that guys shouldn't ask questions about who else is in the incall, you are nuts. For the amount of money these guys pay us, they have a right to feel safe. End of story. If I went to an incall and there was other people there, I would feel very uncomfortable.

Guys.. don't go to a date way early and sit in the parking lot. That's weird and stalker like behavior.

[Doglegg]

FoxyRed has a documented and well discussed reading/writing impairment.

There are times when she is able to fully articulate questions and partipate in discussions in written words.

There are other times that her temperment matches her flaming red hair and her abilities diminish.

Not to be a white knight, but all of us have times when we need some measure of kindness and understanding.

Dogg

[Naughty_Jezabelle]

She lost my caring when she went crazy bitch on a couple of girls for no damn reason in the past. After several times, my sympathy dwindled.

[Hollywood101]

Originally Posted by Doglegg

FoxyRed has a documented and well discussed reading/writing impairment.

There are times when she is able to fully articulate questions and partipate in discussions in written words.

There are other times that her temperment matches her flaming red hair and her abilities diminish.

Not to be a white knight, but all of us have times when we need some measure of kindness and understanding.

Dogg

I completely understand and was in no way making fun of her. I was seriously trying to help others understand what she was trying to communicate and keep it light hearted and silly. Hmmmm, maybe I was the one playing "White Knight?"

And no worries on being a "White Knight" yourself, some girls appreciate the sentiment.

[foxyred73]

If your boyfriend , or your persanally asst or another lady you working with for the day , or children or cant find a babysiter and you have to taken to work to incall for the day before your appt time .


Should our yall guys have the right to ask us question before there appt time

[Naughty_Jezabelle]

children should NEVER be near this.... EVER

[Hottassamelia]

Originally Posted by foxyred73

.." like sexy lady here "

Thats my favorite thing you've ever said. I actually keep repeating it out loud in an Asian accent ..then again in a Russian one...

Originally Posted by Don Imus

I have told this story before but it relates to what is being talked about here.

So here goes, I am seeing a popular Latina provider and while in MISH I hear the TV. I'm thinking damn....the walls in this place must be thin if I can hear the neighbors TV that well. Then it occurred to me, maybe it was her TV, but I just hadn't heard it until MISH.

So I asked her, "Is that the neighbor's TV or yours?"

As I banged away on her, she replied, "That is just my BF in the room next door."

Yikes. My eyes got THAT big. But I was Cool Hand Luke, did a few other positions with her....her CG was outstanding. I was going home right have the session, and didn't want to smell like sexy woman so…...I even had a shower.

Just as I entered the shower, in Spanish I heard her give him hell.

No..... I am not going to tell who this was with.

I was pretty naive back then....LOL...you're probably thinking I was insane.....I wouldn't be that cool now days. So to answer your question. It is best not to have the BF, SO or other men hanging around your place if you can help it….yes I know some guys like to watch…that is their turn on……BUT for most of us, it can really kill the mood if you know what I mean. Hell, I get paranoid now days when a bunch of teenage boys are hanging around the parking lot, and have nothing to do with the provider.



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Who does that>\? Are you serious??? SMH

Originally Posted by dbeartx

This is a pretty funny thread...

I think you answered your own question when you said



You are running a business, which makes your visitor your client. So if your "client" feels the need to ask about your business, he or she is entitled to do so no questions asked.

I preface with not all and not even very many.... but reading some of these posts, I think that some providers forget that they are running a business and with that comes certain expectations, especially at some of the donations being asked for.

Our time is just as valuable as your time, our safety and level of confidence and security are just as important as yours. The difference is, we are the customer in this scenario. That doesn't give us the right to be jackasses, but it does afford that certain expectations be met and professional-isms be extended.

Just my two (or three) cents...

AMEN

Originally Posted by Naughty_Jezabelle

I stopped a long time ago trying to figure out what this girl is trying to say. A true friend would say "just don't type anything on there again... ever.. no seriously.... ever"

I just spit out sweet tea I laughed so hard.
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Im sorry guys, it was funny,dont judge me.


But if Hollywood is right about what you are trying to say ... you shouldn't be giving out your specific address that far in advance. Or you shouldn't be booking dates that closely together.

AMEN!

If you are saying that guys shouldn't ask questions about who else is in the incall, you are nuts. For the amount of money these guys pay us, they have a right to feel safe. End of story. If I went to an incall and there was other people there, I would feel very uncomfortable.

And Again, AMEN.
Put yourself in their shoes, wouldnt you freak out or at least get very nervous about surprise guests during an outcall to their place?



Guys.. don't go to a date way early and sit in the parking lot. That's weird and stalker like behavior.

TRUE STORY..