What to do?

[katinsa]

Yesterday after yet another and NCNS I contacted someone I had seen once before before. She sounded normal on the phone and so I went to see her. She even seemed normal when I got there. verbally she was fine and she seemed stable. While I was changing in her room she closed the door and said her neighbor was there. Then I took a shower while she was supposed to be getting ready. From that point on her affect changed. She kept repeating the same things over again and the couldn't remember where she was when she was in the middle of a conversation. She kept rearranging things on her night stand. We were on the bed then she got up and went to a closet got out of bed spread made me get get off the bed and then put the bed spread on the bed. She could barely stand up. We never had the session. I left the money and her lasts words to me were "please don't write a review". She is a well known provider. She was obviously on something. She needs help but what should I do here?

[Laz]

Originally Posted by katinsa

Yesterday after yet another and NCNS I contacted someone I had seen once before before. She sounded normal on the phone and so I went to see her. She even seemed normal when I got there. verbally she was fine and she seemed stable. While I was changing in her room she closed the door and said her neighbor was there. Then I took a shower while she was supposed to be getting ready. From that point on her affect changed. She kept repeating the same things over again and the couldn't remember where she was when she was in the middle of a conversation. She kept rearranging things on her night stand. We were on the bed then she got up and went to a closet got out of bed spread made me get get off the bed and then put the bed spread on the bed. She could barely stand up. We never had the session. I left the money and her lasts words to me were "please don't write a review". She is a well known provider. She was obviously on something. She needs help but what should I do here?

If the question is should you name her then that is up to you. If you wish to cause her problems or try to "get even" you could. I hope that is not your question.

If you desire to help her or do something to get her to see the harm she is doing to herself, I doubt there is anything you can do. While it is frustrating to feel so helpless my experience is that until they choose to change you can talk until you are blue in the face and it will not matter. If you have a social relationship with the person I believe in continuing to encourage them to change but have had no luck. I am to stubborn to give up but am realistic enough to know that they are the only person that can make it happen.

[Guest101114]

Wtf?! Sorry bout your experience.....I don't understand how these chicks can accept the "donation" (or at least the whole donation) when they obviously f'd up and never did what they were "hired" to do.....sorry again hon

Hi again Laz

[Guest120113]

Don't see her again. Write the review if you feel complelled. And mainly... get over it.

[Bush Pilot]

Originally Posted by katinsa

...She needs help but what should I do here?

Your concern is commendable, but probably futile. I'll PM you shortly.

As for a review, whether to write one: Tough call. On one hand, you'd be doing a service to those mongers who would otherwise share your disappointing experience. On the other, she is well-known: so expect her White Knights to come riding to the rescue, making excuses for her and trying to discredit you.

[Bush Pilot]

Originally Posted by Bush Pilot

Your concern is commendable, but probably futile. I'll PM you shortly.

Never mind the PM. Missed the post by Laz, who already captured the essence of what I wanted to tell you:

Originally Posted by Laz

If you desire to help her or do something to get her to see the harm she is doing to herself, I doubt there is anything you can do. While it is frustrating to feel so helpless my experience is that until they choose to change you can talk until you are blue in the face and it will not matter. If you have a social relationship with the person I believe in continuing to encourage them to change but have had no luck. I am to stubborn to give up but am realistic enough to know that they are the only person that can make it happen.

[Pepper_Springfield]

Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

Wtf?! Sorry bout your experience.....I don't understand how these chicks can accept the "donation" (or at least the whole donation) when they obviously f'd up and never did what they were "hired" to do.....sorry again hon

Hi again Laz

@ Karla: It because they need money and at the time, they just dont give a fuck. Im sure she feels bad about it now.

@kat: See if she will make it up to u. Many times girls are good about it when they know they fucked up

[Sonya Playmate]

Originally Posted by katinsa

Yesterday after yet another and NCNS I contacted someone I had seen once before before. She sounded normal on the phone and so I went to see her. She even seemed normal when I got there. verbally she was fine and she seemed stable. While I was changing in her room she closed the door and said her neighbor was there. Then I took a shower while she was supposed to be getting ready. From that point on her affect changed. She kept repeating the same things over again and the couldn't remember where she was when she was in the middle of a conversation. She kept rearranging things on her night stand. We were on the bed then she got up and went to a closet got out of bed spread made me get get off the bed and then put the bed spread on the bed. She could barely stand up. We never had the session. I left the money and her lasts words to me were "please don't write a review". She is a well known provider. She was obviously on something. She needs help but what should I do here?

I say if you had a bad "experience" to write about it. It will help the rest of the 'guys' out if they want to see that person or not. It's ur choice at the end to review or not.

[jtmtexas]

This site is about information so as far as writing a review it's a tough call. Are there any other reviews with similar problems or is this any isolated event? I agree with Pepper to contact her and ask her if she will make it up to you. You don't know all of the specifics concerning her odd behavior. I have a friend that gets that way due to low blood sugar. Find out what info you can so that you can make an informed decision. Tough call either way!

Happy Hobbying!

[rockerrick]

You know the likely cause ! Do you want to see her again ? I wouldn't ! Write the review , do it honest , and DO NOT do it to get even ! Only if confronted with the consequences of their actions , will they ever consider making changes ! Also ask yourself what the consequences would have been if you showed up in that condition , that will probably be the best answer .

[Laz]

I agree with Pepper and Rockerrick.

If you are willing to give her the chance to make it right then call her. You might be very happy you did.

If not then if you decide to write a review be VERY factual. Negative statements may not be liked but when they are factual and not solely designed to be insulting it will not be a problem for you. Whether it would cause her to change, I doubt it. It might cause her to be more careful about booking appointments when she is in no condition to deliver.

[TrmaOne]

I'm going to be the Devils advocate here. If she was normal when you got there and then seemed the be disoriented,stumbling and the such after a few minutes. Then she was coherant enough to ask you not to review seems a bit, dishonest to me. Maybe she was scamming you all that time. Not to be shallow or come off as non empathetic, but sounds a little sketchy. Maybe the friendship you have was your enemy in this situation and you were taken advantage of. Hope that wasn't the case. If you do review, be ready for the fallout that will follow. Good luck either way .

T-1

[Precious_b]

What you should do here?
Gonna have to be more specific than that with your question.

For her? As others said, talk/write till your blue in the face/worked your fingers to the bone typing.

For Hobbyist? If she advertises here than your call for the review. Seeing that you gave most details in saying it was a session, than you put yourself over the line with your bretheren here.

For Providers? I'm not one. But I have to say Pepper speaks pretty well for one

Myself? Has happened to me. And just recently. Can't do a thing till they help themself. What I did do I know Hobbyist would call me an idiot / stupid / etc. But i'm comfortable with my actions and no need for complaint on my end.

Let your conscious be your guide?

[AngeLisa]

I say write the review, no one ever cease to mention anything else around here.
And frankly, I can't see how the girls need to be Drunk or high or whatever to preform, sounds like
A) she got high before and during your stay(whole yu showered)
B) she always does drugs she just did to much tonight....

Funny you guys tell him to try again with her,after assuming she's a user.

Lastly, if you are going to see her again don't leave her alone lol
You might get a repeat session

[JohnnyYanks]

ECC Information Exchange:

What you have given so far is gossip, and worthless. Time to man up and write the review.

Or you can just leave that pothole in the road for us to drive into also.