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Molay · 01-07-2013, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by flyinghi

As to scorpio77 gay award, you're probably one of those who jerk around providers and treat them like crap.

As to Scorpio, read his reviews....he treats the ladies with respect. It's best not to assume something just because he thinks your thread is gay or whatever. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Doesn't make someone a bad guy.

Guest031213-02 · 01-07-2013, 02:52 PM

Most girls understand that things do come up.. I have a 3 strike you're out rule. I can understand if a guy has to cancel, but if you make a habit of doing it over and over then I will reply politely that Im booked the next time they try to schedule if I don't want to waste my time booking with someone in particular.

Pistolero · 01-07-2013, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by flyinghi

. Unfortunately, there was an injury to one of my employees and I couldn't get home as planned. The provider had texted me several times to confirm, asking for my reply. When I replied I was delayed for a couple of days, she got upset. Telling me I was unthoughtful of her time and had no respect for providers planning a meeting. She was mad i was delayed and couldn't get together as planned. I It's just sad when a well respected provider gets upset and rude, when I canceled a day before our meeting and she wouldn't reschedule for a few days later.

Local provider had a cancellation. And she is mad because he had an injured employee and could not get back to towm. To me, this shows great insensitivity to his situation or says she thinks he is lying. But he says he tried to reschedule. flyinghi, I would forget about this one.

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Originally Posted by Valerie

Because touring providers rely on pre-bookings... It is far more expensive for touring providers with traveling/hotel costs...So last minute cancellations would not only make one miss out on money, but could potentially put one in the negative since flights/cars/hotels were already paid for... So what part of that don't you understand exactly?

If you have one of those jobs where things pop up last minute a lot, then do providers a favour and don't pre-book. Some of you really have no concept of how much a tour actually costs us... Yeah shit does happen, but it's attitudes like yours that piss me the fuck off.

And attitudes like yours piss me off. Every part of the country is different. Out here, we hear all the time that providers do not want to come out because guys will not prebook, So, they don't come. At the same time, providers who do come are posting that things are great and they had good trips. With the oilfield and such out here, people are gonna have to cancel Health problems cause cancellation. And just RL in general. The providers who come are successful. Cancellations get filled.

Now, I am not advocating pre-booking if there is a good chance of cancellation. But in my market cancellations do not hurt providers to the extent of losing money on a tour. They may not make as much, but such is life.

scorpioseventy7 · 01-07-2013, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by flyinghi

As to scorpio77 gay award, you're probably one of those who jerk around providers and treat them like crap.

and if I am one of those guys who jerk around providers and treat them like crap, what-the-fuck business is it of yours? I gave you a "Gayest post of the day award" because "I THINK" that your post is fucking ghey. I read your thread, as well as the completely irrelevant post that immediately followed 3 times over just to make some sense of it all. However, it became apparent to me that your point was not going to be clear due to all of the ramblings about how valuable this is, how disrespectful that is, your employee, your positive OK's on p411 and how great her reviews are ect, ect. You type like an 11yr old and the reading of this thread made me want to fucking punch a baby.

Furthermore, nearly every thread you start (trust me, I've read everyone of them) is on some high school "he say/she say" mellow-drama shit. I get it dude, you assume that your praise of these providers makes you come off like Casanova, and you're just looking to score brownie points with providers while attempting to demonize the rest of the hobbyist. In the end, the so called provider texted you several times before you finally texted back that you could not make it at the said time, she gets understandably upset and don't want to fuck with your ass anymore. Now you're posting a thread in an attempt to make it seem like she's at fault just in case she warns other providers. This is a thread spawned from your own guilt and nothing more. However, I could be wrong and you could just be a guy trying to get an opinion on how to reconcile something that was supposed to be personal in a public forum. Either way you're still a moron.

Valerie · 01-07-2013, 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Pistolero

Local provider had a cancellation. And she is mad because he had an injured employee and could not get back to towm. To me, this shows great insensitivity to his situation or says she thinks he is lying. But he says he tried to reschedule. flyinghi, I would forget about this one.

And attitudes like yours piss me off. Every part of the country is different. Out here, we hear all the time that providers do not want to come out because guys will not prebook, So, they don't come. At the same time, providers who do come are posting that things are great and they had good trips. With the oilfield and such out here, people are gonna have to cancel Health problems cause cancellation. And just RL in general. The providers who come are successful. Cancellations get filled.

Now, I am not advocating pre-booking if there is a good chance of cancellation. But in my market cancellations do not hurt providers to the extent of losing money on a tour. They may not make as much, but such is life.

Then you are very naive..

BBWrider · 01-07-2013, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Brooke_Taylor

Most girls understand that things do come up.. I have a 3 strike you're out rule. I can understand if a guy has to cancel, but if you make a habit of doing it over and over then I will reply politely that Im booked the next time they try to schedule if I don't want to waste my time booking with someone in particular.

These are the only sensible words that have been written in this entire thread.

willdooit · 01-07-2013, 04:19 PM

I had to cancel my first ever request to a provider a couple years ago . The provider went ape shit called me all kinds of names wanted to be compensated for the cancellation very angry person. I had an emergency at work what was I suppose to do. In retrospect I`m glad the appointment didn`t go as planned I would of hated any drama. After being on this site a few years this provider is crazy. I see someone regularly and I believe we both had to cancel one time or another and no drama and I continue see this lady.Love it.

Eva Damita · 01-07-2013, 05:58 PM

No lie, I get a little pissed when shit happens, bc it does happen, hell, I had a guy cancel on me minutes before our supposed-to meet due to a fake fever. However it's better to not respond at all than in anger. I knew it was a BS excuse, but what IF it wasn't? Besides, at the end of the day, I can't FORCE you to spend time or your money with me, so I save the bitching for more necessary times....

flyinghi · 01-07-2013, 06:07 PM

She is local and not a touring provider. I knew that when we scheduled. I live in the city as she does and replied to her messages the same day. Yes, providers sometimes have to cancel and that is understood. When, I had to cancel the day before, I both responded to her texts, e-mail, as well as sending her one of my own. She's a nice girl and I still think so. Just that sometimes circumstances requires us to cancel too. I did so immediately and the day before. No answered texts or avoidance, just a cancellation the day before. She got mad, that's all.

flyinghi · 01-07-2013, 06:08 PM

By the way, Valerie, you're very pretty!!

flyinghi · 01-07-2013, 08:51 PM

Scorpio77 you fill your own words nicely. Who cares what the f you think dude, I sure don't. So, read all you want, you must have the time to do so, so get over it. By the way, that was pretty gay of you yourself! I like bi women! In fact, I know two who posted here

Guest021817-2 · 01-07-2013, 08:59 PM

You better not start throwing Pillows......

It might get ugly.....

Guest021817-2 · 01-07-2013, 09:04 PM

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Originally Posted by flyinghi

By the way, Valerie, you're very pretty!!

Valerie,

Put him on your to do list for your trip, I would like to read the review, I think he can afford you.

flyinghi · 01-07-2013, 09:14 PM

lol, she is a pretty girl! I gave up on pillows, some could get hurt!

cabletex7 · 01-07-2013, 09:54 PM

To OP. Even you admit that this is a well respected and imply an established provider. If the events happened the way you describe them then doesn't her reaction seem out of character?

You don't name her. In fact, you don't want to say anything bad or negative about this provider. Then what's your point? What's the purpose of this post? You just want people to know what a great guy you are for 1) standing by your injured employee and 2) trying to reschedule a day before your appointment? Awwwwwwwww. Attaboy!

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