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ArisRose · 12-02-2012, 08:16 PM

Ok, first of all let me say that I am not trying to talk about anyone.
The only reason I'm mentioning this is because I had a long drawn out conversation about my face & skin regimen with a client last time I was hosting.

In my hoe bag I keep my face kit. I always have it. I uses several products to prevent acne and help with my skin discolorations. By the grace of God, it is working.

This kinky hobbyist likes to watch women bath and prep themselves so I got my big bag of products and he's just sitting in the bathroom looking at me do my thing then when I get out I proceed to my face routine he asks me all kinds of questions about my special wash cloth, mint face mask and my cleanser, toner, serum, and moisturizer.

He then started talking about a HDH w/ bad acne and how he felt cheated (he made it a weekend date to NYC, prepaid). He said had he known about the acne he would not have chosen her.

I asked how bad was it and he said it could not be hidden with the make up and when it came off it was worse (scars & sores).

Anyway, I spoke to a few people in chat about the issue and it was pretty 50/50. Some said as long as her body and services was on point it did not matter. Others said at her rate of $500 she needs to be perfect. Then others said she needs to make that known upfront. How in the fuck can you make acne known up front?

pyramider · 12-02-2012, 08:26 PM

The ladies set their own pricing structure ... anyone can be a HDH.

AngeLisa · 12-02-2012, 09:02 PM

TRU!!! It's not a bag of products nor a acne scar that sets u apart....it's You

Old-T · 12-02-2012, 09:29 PM

Agree, price is a complex combination of looks, service, personality, location, marketing, reputation, and a number of other factors.

Depending where you are, $500 is high but NOT astronomical territory. And depending upon the market, there are subcultures where $500 would be considered low. There have been some very long threads about groups where $5K for the night is a starting price range to be eye candy to the powerful. And I can tell you for certain some of those ladies do occasionally have a blemish.

Everything is relative

The Sixth Beatle · 12-02-2012, 09:37 PM

There are many movie stars and sex symbols that have issues with acne. You need only watch informational TV to find out who they are. Doesn't make them any less sexy or desirable in my book - nobody's perfect.

TexasBrooke · 12-02-2012, 09:42 PM

Well thank god i got over acne in my teens. But i use a Neutrogena deep cleanser plus my foundation is neutrogena....you cant help if your face breaks out...its not like itll stay forever. Men are something else...lol

Your Ebony Dream · 12-02-2012, 09:55 PM

Thank God my family has great skin ...

But to each their own, a girlfriend of mine charges $$$$ an hour. She works out (great body) Pampers herself (Nails, Hair, Clothes) && Has some of the worst acne on anybody over age 14.

She's had acne treatment, chemical peels, tomato treatment, salmon diets, Biore, Neutrogena, Proactiv (burned her skin) & Aveeno. I doubt there will be a time when she doesn't have acne. Needless to say nothing works she doesn't drink or use anything, but her acne never subsides even a little bit, she covers it with Aveda makeup but it doesn't really help.

I think a client has every right to be picky it's his money, Just as we have the right to price our nookie accordingly ... Maybe this is a question for the guys but I wouldn't care as long as her service wasn't as bad as her skin ....

thisguy23 · 12-02-2012, 11:05 PM

If her price was $$ or 2000 I wouldn't be upset as long as she is as advertised.

Jackie S · 12-03-2012, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by The Sixth Beatle

There are many movie stars and sex symbols that have issues with acne. You need only watch informational TV to find out who they are. Doesn't make them any less sexy or desirable in my book - nobody's perfect.

The advent of High Definition TV has also been a problem for many so called "beauties'. Men, and women alike.

Joyce · 12-03-2012, 10:55 AM

I've never really have had acne, not like the deep ice cream high school type zit I had back then, in this business, but I can get fruit rash as I call it. Just some 'thing' here and there from either hot sauce, fruits or juices, dried fruit, tomato sauces. I can't stand one tiny bump. But it happens. I've been still figuring food and diet to by-pass this with balancing protein and more vegetables. Vegetables do the trick mostly. I never like seeing a new client friend with this, and long time friends don't care or claim they don't notice - even though I still do or have.

I just got stuck with this tummy rash on and off these past weeks and couldn't figure it out. It has been from over washing and its clearing point is not going quickly because pms is here and the body wants to rid flesh overall and not keep strong with cell turn over. I just met someone new the other evening and we hit it off well on the phone - bright and friendly. I mentioned about it during our evening and still wondered these past few days from being self conscious. He just called again, and obviously didn't run from it.

I've been back to keeping up with some primrose oil and jojoba on me, and grape seed on vege's to get my skin protected also from the inside out. The water I have is very extreme, and sanitary for good reasons, but very harsh. It will parch your skin. I grew up with soft water and have had to refigure things out. This weekend I feel as though I'm back to mastering my skin and food routine once again. One thing about this business is that isn't always fun not eating foods that common people do and I once did. On times off it can be a time to binge again. I've been practicing balancing things out. Like I can eat ice cream but maybe one day and be fine. But consistently can turn into a problem like an overload. I've also found that chicken of all things makes me break out and only a small amount will do.

Also, if anything balances things out and keeps skin glowing is sex and the relaxation in the body afterwards. I've had another habit of eating chocolate and champagne on my own time after, and some other goodies, and can have no problems at all ... it's what can make things seemingly too good but is what is so wonderful, fun, sexy, healthy and partying like, that makes life that much better if not youthful... sex is good for you!

(unless you don't like it)

john_deere · 12-03-2012, 11:05 AM

a gentleman is never going to make you feel bad about a physical issue. you might not see him again, but he will never be a dick about it.

thisguy23 · 12-03-2012, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by john_deere

a gentleman is never going to make you feel bad about a physical issue. you might not see him again, but he will never be a dick about it.

I agree with this, as long as what you see when you open the door is what was advertised. If that is not the case you might see me show my ass.

Zabrina Sarafina · 12-03-2012, 04:44 PM

First of all if you suffer from acne...then you suffer from acne...ain't much else you can do about it outside of traditional meds

However, being in any entertainment business where You...are the product/service...yes you are expected to "appear" to be flawless...(Again most ppl aren't born perfect...it's all about casting an illusion using makeup plastic surgery etc )

Most acne can be easily covered by proper makeup...but if it's so severe where it can't even be "hidden" ....like really really horrific....then...the entertainment industry isn't for you.

I know as a hobbyist myself, when I see hot photos of the person I want to see...with a nice face...I expect them to look pretty much the same in person comparing to his professional photos...with maybe a little bit of difference

If when we meet...and he has a Whole pizza face...like it's just there...OBVIOUS ....then I'm going to feel cheated...this isn't what I want to PAY for...hell f'king no

I would def. cancel

Sweet N Little · 12-03-2012, 04:57 PM

I would think if she was high $ she could afford some acne meds

Guest061613 · 12-03-2012, 05:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zabrina Sarafina

First of all if you suffer from acne...then you suffer from acne...ain't much else you can do about it outside of traditional meds

However, being in any entertainment business where You...are the product/service...yes you are expected to "appear" to be flawless...(Again most ppl aren't born perfect...it's all about casting an illusion using makeup plastic surgery etc )

Most acne can be easily covered by proper makeup...but if it's so severe where it can't even be "hidden" ....like really really horrific....then...the entertainment industry isn't for you.

I know as a hobbyist myself, when I see hot photos of the person I want to see...with a nice face...I expect them to look pretty much the same in person comparing to his professional photos...with maybe a little bit of difference

If when we meet...and he has a Whole pizza face...like it's just there...OBVIOUS ....then I'm going to feel cheated...this isn't what I want to PAY for...hell f'king no

I would def. cancel

I like you! You got it!
If you have bad acne that can cause scaring, I would suggest accutane. It is very strong but it works.