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Old 10-14-2012, 05:13 PM   #16
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Me I guess once I find a few that I like, I like staying with the same two or three(at the most). Its nice when you become comfortable and familar with them. Its a more personal touch for me that i like, Its easier to make conversation, I especially like that you get more cuddle time I do beleive.

Like "elghund" said complete sex isn't always a requirement for a great date it is nice to just relax and hangout for a while and "Cuddle". For us married guys I do beleive that is why we are all here to get that something extra that we don't get at home. Its not always about the "sex" or how much, I do beleive.
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Old 10-14-2012, 05:33 PM   #17
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Like "elghund" said complete sex isn't always a requirement for a great date it is nice to just relax and hangout for a while and "Cuddle". For us married guys I do beleive that is why we are all here to get that something extra that we don't get at home. Its not always about the "sex" or how much, I do beleive.

Maybe some, not all. Everyone is different.
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Old 10-14-2012, 05:38 PM   #18
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I agree vern but want a combo of all of the above for overnights combined with a decent rate,

cause at least half the time your sleeping.., hard to find,,

I have evolved into enjoying the more hang out time though

you can stage one two ...maybe three to hit all the switches .... economy has put a damper on that though....
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Old 10-14-2012, 06:03 PM   #19
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yup for JB again.
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Old 10-14-2012, 06:17 PM   #20
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I like what Elg had to say about meltdowns, and also what GP had to say about becoming a "non" regular......

A regular to me is different than an established client.

If a gent stops hobbying with frequency, but still schedules with me when he comes out of seclusion, he remains a regular. In other words, it could be once a year and he's still a regular!

However, if he's hobbying with other people more and with me less, he does not remain a regular. (More like GPs point.)

A regular or not, I offer discounts to "established clients." It is my way of showing appreciation! Once I visit with a gent he is established!

Being a newbie friendly provider, there are men who LOVE getting their feet wet, then promptly ask for a reference to schedule with a different gal! The hobby is what it is. These clients may return, and may not. Either way, if he does, he gets the discount lisited for established clientele.


As far as grandfathering, there are few people who qualify under this. The ones who do have always been extremely gratuitous beyond my rate, and therefore, no big deal.


Additionally, I am flexible with my schedule for either an established client or a regular. In other words, if a client is catching a flight and can only meet at 4am, I will be there! If a gent is seeking a half hour, daytrip, mini vacation, business travel, or anything out of the ordinary from "an hour," I am open minded and like trying new things!

A preferred client to me is a "regular" whom I am extremely comfortable with.

I feel that all client/provider relationships should be carefully and frequently evaluated so as to adjust boundaries as the relationship changes over time.
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Old 10-14-2012, 06:29 PM   #21
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I agree vern but want a combo of all of the above for overnights combined with a decent rate,

cause at least half the time your sleeping.., hard to find,,

I have evolved into enjoying the more hang out time though

you can stage one two ...maybe three to hit all the switches .... economy has put a damper on that though....

Yes combine the sex and hangout time it makes the hobby more fun I do beleive, I think I have gotten sick of going to BP girls not knowing what on the otherside of the door. Once in the door its wham bang thank you mama!! I Just dont like that type of interaction any more I'd rather have some fun time as well.
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Old 10-14-2012, 06:44 PM   #22
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theres some bp girls that have great sex..and wont hang,,, stage them in first...
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Old 10-14-2012, 06:55 PM   #23
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rats. I in a txt disagreement with two. Answer the phone please. its faster
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Old 10-14-2012, 08:43 PM   #24
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Me I guess once I find a few that I like, I like staying with the same two or three(at the most). Its nice when you become comfortable and familar with them. Its a more personal touch for me that i like, Its easier to make conversation, I especially like that you get more cuddle time I do beleive.

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Has Vern gotten hold of some tainted blue pills?
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Old 10-14-2012, 08:57 PM   #25
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yes! they where tainted with The Searchers - Love Potion No. 9
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Old 10-14-2012, 10:02 PM   #26
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A regular is someone that sees me every trip or AT LEAST every other time I am in their area, has seen me for months/years, a local that sees me 2-4 times a month. If they notify me of a break or slow down in they hobby they remain a regular as long as they see me 4 times a year or when they return.
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Old 10-14-2012, 11:42 PM   #27
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A regular for me anyways is I see him at least once every 6 wk (local/"at home".
When I tour someone who sees me at least every other time I travel to their area.
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Old 10-15-2012, 04:56 AM   #28
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Has Vern gotten hold of some tainted blue pills?

Damn reminds me gotta get my script filled running out of free ones!! No none are taintd but when you don't get it at home I you have to go for the entire experirence some where else.
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Old 10-15-2012, 07:05 AM   #29
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Gents that will come back and see me at least once a month..I have a few that come on a bi-weekly basis..these gents are whom I consider my regulars..
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Old 10-15-2012, 07:37 AM   #30
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Return Gents are always wonderful and greatly appreciated so they get a special and an even better special depending on how far in advance they prebook. Regulars and semi regulars(that I have seen several times throughout the years) that prebook in advance are my bread and butter, they get the best specials, they are the ones that make me a very reliable traveling provider. If I dont have a set number of prebooks I wont make a trip, I am thanking my lucky stars because that never happens. Ususlly I know far in advance that I wont get enough prbooks and wont go through with even making a date to go somewhere (Albany /Binghamton). I have only ever canceled a hand full of trips throughout the years and the vast majority of those reasons were out of my control (car break down/accident, unsafe situation I want no part in, illness, or death in my family/close friends). Some Gents like to experience and live up the candy store aspect of the hobby which is just fine. The returns, regulars, and first prebook first serve are the super important ones that get top priority in my book. If I have 2 emails/pms that pop in my box at the same time and one is from a regular/return they get opened first and get a time over the new Gent if they want the same time. Even though I will get less of a donation from the return/regular due to specials I still give them top priority because they are more important. Don't read that wrong, every Gent interested in spending time with me is greatly appreciated and very important to me but new Gents really need to prebook further in advance due to screening unless they have written a lot of reviews which make it super easy to screen without even asking them multiple questions. Regulars/returns save me time which is money because I dont have to screen them or ask a ton of questions.
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