Is the hobby good for married couples?

[pyramider]

Just pulling the panties to the side would suffice.

[Guest021817-2]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Just pulling the panties to the side would suffice.

I was just thinking..... you are almost normal.......


I was wrong again........

[*GoddessDallas*]

LOVE the avatar, lookn4!

[Mature Companion]

Doll,
Not all men are driven by sex. Men are mysterious creatures. And there's many different types of pleasure they desire that have little if any, to do with sex. And like another member stated. You know your husband best.
But since you asked me. IF he would be more likely to *go behind your back, in the hobby as opposed to the swinging lifestyle? Yes.* But then again, You know your husband best.

They are two different lifestyle. The hobby, is instant contact with another and affairs can happen, not just the *sex*. The swinging lifestyle. there's a lot more boundaries that are protected and not crossed.

Originally Posted by redhead24355

Thanks. I brought up swinging, but he wasn't into the idea really. I guess I'll look into it more. I just said I don't want to fuck other guys, never said no to women.

Hobby for both of us. He doesn't care if he fucks any of them. The idea of his wife with another woman is hott. We just had the session. She made it into a great experience. She was more into me than him and my husband liked that. He didn't want to fuck her at all, but I had him go for it.

He isn't driven by sex so he wouldn't do anything unless I give him the okay too. So you are saying he is more likely to go behind my back in this hobby than the swinging lifestyle?

[Guest021817-2]

Originally Posted by *GoddessDallas*

LOVE the avatar, lookn4!

I like yours even more.....

[pyramider]

WMilf,

Men are simple creatures. Sex is always in our thoughts.




Now back to RedHead's dilemma. If the low t is taken care of there are other issues at hand. Since RedHead has admitted to being a horny girl ... its not the usual male complaints. Hmmm, maybe her husband is gay.

[bistraight69]

We'd like to give some specifics as to why we found that the Lifestyle sucks and the hobby is better for a married couple:

We started in our thirties and everyone out there was like 20 years older than we were, which would have been fine if they weren't fat, hairy, wearing granny panties, had a penile implant or worse. On the other hand, because we were considerably younger, they treated us like sex gods. This was a stroke to our egos, but that pro could not out weigh the cons. We wanted what was in those Motley Crue videos from the 80's (or as close to it as our $$ can buy). The only descent women we met were married to a senior citizen and wanted some younger dick, or a hot provider out there who was swinging with her SO. We also meet providers who were on the clock with a hobbyist, on the payroll and taking one for the team. The initial fascination with watching people having group sex wore off surprisingly quickly. I wouldn't have clicked on that orgy porn! Like everyone else our playtime was limited by kids, work, etc. so attending these parties were a roll of the dice regarding the type of booty that was going to be available. We needed a guarantee of a good time for our valuable time. The reason we love the hobby is that there is a smorgasbord of women to choose from like when I 1st started hobbying in Europe. We are also able to confer with other hobbyists and completely research a provider. In conclusion, when you see guys like Charlie Sheen, etc. out and about they don't have a woman from a swinger's club on their arms - they are dancers, porn stars or escorts!!