question for my fellow providers.. and opinions welcome from men with respect

[raquel santos]

Do you think its possible for a woman to be in this line of business and still be able to find a man that will truly love her completely mind heart body and soul..and no judgements, without having to hide what you do... or will we always be____________… in the eyes of others.. I like to believe Its possible.. but everything shows other wise...

PS just a random question cause I'm not trying to do this forever just wondering if this hobby will always be a factor even when I'm done with it .

Please be honest and respectful when you respond to this thread. Thank you

[offshoredrilling]

maybe

[raquel santos]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

maybe

Please explain.. what would make it a deal breaker for you

[tommylove]

Well I'm 65 and have been hobbying for many years and have respected all the ladies I have been with. Well yes I would think it would be very possible.

[Howdy Do Me]

RS, I think do. There are many VPs who have BFs that aren't their pimps and some who are married. I think it would take a special person tho.

[JohnnyCap]

What you do now will always be a factor later, and I'm speaking in general, not just to the hooking. You deal, steal, whatever, what you are in the future is the sum of the past. Some folks hide it well so perception becomes a factor as well, but fuck that.

I like to think true love is still accessible to you regardless of that past, but it might limit the market. But there's only so much true love anyhow, and you aren't going to experience it if you don't have it within. So if you don't think you're going to be all right with yourself down the road, stop now.

[raquel santos]

Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

What you do now will always be a factor later, and I'm speaking in general, not just to the hooking. You deal, steal, whatever, what you are in the future is the sum of the past. Some folks hide it well so perception becomes a factor as well, but fuck that.

I like to think true love is still accessible to you regardless of that past, but it might limit the market. But there's only so much true love anyhow, and you aren't going to experience it if you don't have it within. So if you don't think you're going to be all right with yourself down the road, stop now.

I'll be OK with myself I love myself. I have no shame in what I do cause I'm doing it so that I can provide better... but I would like to believe that I can find a man that I don't have to lie to or hide what I do. I like to believe that a REAL MAN would accept and understand. if i was a man I wouldn't mind having a go getter...shit at least I know I'm not being used for a free ride..

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by raquel santos

Please explain.. what would make it a deal breaker for you

well you made it sound that you would still be taking P4P
so would you be ok if he started or keep on with P4P
both must be ok with or stop

As I find hooke errr providers more honest than any civilian gal I ever dated. That can in-itself be the killer. I myself would have married by now. One she knew I would not stop buying time. Another few I know too much lets just say. Then one already has a SO. And it drives him nuts.

Also if your looking, it taint the place to be looking.
If you want to be foolish, I have a boat for sale

[raquel santos]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

well you made it sound that you would still be taking P4P
so would you be ok if he started or keep on with P4P
both must be ok with or stop

As I find hooke errr providers more honest than any civilian gal I ever dated. That can in-itself be the killer. I myself would have married by now. One she knew I would not stop buying time. Another few I know too much lets just say. Then one already has a SO. And it drives him nuts.

Also if your looking, it taint the place to be looking.
If you want to be foolish, I have a boat for sale

Lol I feel you but I'm not looking on here and when I do I'll be done with the hobby cause I'll be done with schooling so I can make close to what I make as a provider it great income.. for tuition...

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by raquel santos

Lol I feel you but I'm not looking on here and when I do I'll be done with the hobby cause I'll be done with schooling so I can make close to what I make as a provider it great income.. for tuition...

not knowing you, your odds just went up.
but now if your both broke, what would happen?

[raquel santos]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

not knowing you, your odds just went up.
but now if your both broke, what would happen?

Lmao.... I'm not trying to be broke... and I'm not trying to deal with a broke man either.. I need to be met half way

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by raquel santos

Lmao.... I'm not trying to be broke... and I'm not trying to deal with a broke man either.. I need to be met half way

Ok you find a nice guy at school that knows what you did, and does not give a rats ass.
You both find good jobs. You have a kid by him and give the job up. Now he gets laid off. Both of you can't find work.

he says, or you think. hit the computer and spread them.
what happens then???

may have been a better way to put it.

[raquel santos]

Lol I understand what you mean and the only person I would open my legs for is my daughter wanting her to have better is my drive

[offshoredrilling]

Mary????
errr joking

anyways what you think of porn stars faking the oh's and Ah's or not
you know you got her when you hear that squishy sound, or do porn stars fake

back to topic
Is it better to tell him before you move in together
or
not say a word and hope he dose not find out

[raquel santos]

I rather be honest I believe that all cards should be set on the table a healthy relationship can't be started with lies and secrets..


I stopped watching porn for that same reason I rather make one then watch