Very Confusing To Me

[Ranchhand]

I read is some reviews, where the guy only gets cbj, mish, no kissing of any kind, and they pay anywhere from 200 to 250 for this session.
I would understand this, if that was all thats out there, but I know better. Then the guy puts in his review GFE, with a yes recommedation. Im confused, which by the way I stay most of the time. Why would a guy pay that much for so little, when there are so many beautful ladies out there that offer so much more? I know some ladies are YMMV but too me this seems stupid, but thats just me. Also, this is just me sitting here at this time of the morning reading reviews, and wondering wtf.

[RKGixxer]

I believe some reviewers equate FS with GFE, just have to read the ROS to make your own determination if a provider is GFE. I normally give a yes recommendation if a provider is legit and has decent TCB. Level and type of service is described in the ROS.

I have given a yes recommendation to providers I'll never see again, they provide the services advertised, resemble or meet the pics provided, and try and show you a good time.....they just weren't my cup of tea and I just didn't "click" with them.

[wilneal]

Hello everyone, I'm new here, can someone tell me where to find the meaning of these codes cbj, mish, etc.

Thanks

[knotty man]

Originally Posted by wilneal

Hello everyone, I'm new here, can someone tell me where to find the meaning of these codes cbj, mish, etc.

Thanks

urbandictionary.com

[NewKidnTX]

Ranchand
I know what you mean, some people seem to pay alot more than others for the same or less service and the term GFE is used loosely around these reviews and forums.
Normally, I feel like GFE is when kissing, foreplay, oral given and recieved and obviously FS is part of the session. The main thing that I am still not convienced is if BBBJ is necessary for GFE, some say yes others no. In my mind it needs to be BBBJ to be fully considered GFE.

Also, the higher donations is some cases might be due to someone that sets themself apart in the looks department or with excellent service skills.

[VictoriaLove]

I am a girl, so my opinion in this matter might be meaningless... but I offer gfe, with the exception that I have the right to refuse services. You come in and aren't up to my GFE standards I will show you a good time, just wont offer certain things. Not everyone is gonna have the same kind of FUN that others may have....

[Ranchhand]

Ms. Love, your opinion is just as important as anyones. To me, GFE means what the acronym stands for. I am a older gentleman, and been around the block a few times, and I have never had a girlfriend that wouldnt kiss me, and never had one that gave me a cbj. But again, thats just me. Also, if a lady thinks she is too pretty to even kiss me then thats not my cup of tea. I think it was Chipper that had in his signature line, something to the effect " If im paying you and your gonna kiss me, do it like you mean it" One more thing, if I am not your cup of tea, it would be much appreciated if you let me know up front.

[VictoriaLove]

I appreciate that sweet heart... Most men are my cup of tea... It's just I have a thing about cleanliness...

If your clean you get my whole undivided passionate attention... if your not well then yes babe I am half ass about it... I hate to be ugly to someone it's just how I feel.

[Ranchhand]

I completely understand the cleanliness part, thats just common courtesy. The part that gets me is that the ladies I am talking about dont even offer gfe on their web sites. They still get quite a bit of business, because I see reviews of them all the time. I dont know, it just doesnt make sense too me.

[VictoriaLove]

Ranchhand, each lady is at her on discretion as far as what she wants to offer and her donation request.

We are to price ourselves. If she chooses to price herself high most likely she has reviews to back up her services, her looks as well as her companionship that she offers. The enviroment she offers is above flawless!

Her Request are based off most of what she believes she is offering. I dunno.

I price myself based off
I don't wear makeup
I don't offer pse
I can be boring sometimes, so conversation maybe less then average.
I am not always available.
I am far from perfect

I am good company
I am a good kisser
I am very passionate
and I am not a rushy person

I look at the economy around me
I price myself with the price of other women in the local area that are around the same caliber of Service!

I hope this helps... I am just a needle in a haystack with one small outlook on this confusion!

[MsPrittiKitti]

wow ranchhand!
i thought your complaint about "my" rate was one thing.
but it seems in general.

im very much ymmv.
you see me clean, shaven, :respectable:...then i dont have many limits.
the 2 that i do have are no digits and no greek. unless its been previously settled.

i do not advertise as gfe (bc im ymmv) but i do provide a gfe experience (if youre clean, shaven, and :respectable

my rates may be out of the "norm", i may not be "everyones" cup of tea.
but i gaurantee, that i "am" one of a kind, i "know" that im hot, and lol if you are (see above), i will kiss you like i mean it, and we will have an awesome time!!!

now granted, you can get all of that from a provider whose rates are less. (as with everything in life. you can shop at the dollar store, walmart, jcpenny, or a highend store)... i think you should just continue to do as youve done, skip those girls whose rates are worth more than the time you could have with them.

[Ranchhand]

Ok, before I get into a misunderstanding here, let me clear something up. I was in no way talking about what a lady charges for her services. Thats her business not mine. I was not singleling "any" lady out. I am fully aware ladies charge what the market will bear. My "only confusion" is why would a guy see a lady that isnt gfe, for the same price of a lady that is gfe. This is based on looks and board personality being equal or close to equal. Remember im old, and have seen many ladies in my time. This is just a personal state of confusion, that just doesnt make sense too me, and as I have said many times, thats just me. Thank you all for your responses. Call me strange if you want, but I can get all the non-gfe I want at home.

[MsPrittiKitti]

lol. @ non gfe at home.
i understand your confusion.
which is why i mentioned < dollar store - "neimans">
(you can get the same thing, at various price levels, however it depends on what you are comfortable with paying)
im sure it will never be answered.
were only human...we have our flaws.

[charliec]

I would say generally speaking, if a YES is given, it means that the provider is legit, represents herself accurately, and what you read is what you get. Meaning no bait and switch, upsell, etc. The YES vote to me is simply saying that the Provider can be trusted to meet and have some fun with. What type of fun, whether she was into you, how far you went, activities, etc. is all subjective and in no way should dictate the YES or NO recommend in my view, because that YES or NO says to me the provider is legit or not. The experience is between you and the provider so I only glance to see if certain activities I may be in the mood for are offered.

Also, ANYONE who shows up to meet a provider looking like you just come from the oilfield can't possibly expect to be treated like a king. Courtesy, respect, and consideration are paramount whether it’s your wife, girlfriend, or a fun and respectable provider. ALL ladies deserve our very best! I expect no less than that which I intend to offer.

Just my two cents from an old fart!

By the way, a side note to any new or younger provider who may be reading my thoughts here…some of us older men who have been past the store a time or two in our lives find part of our enjoyment is giving you pleasure, in other words helping you orgasm. Now in my discussions with some providers I understand that some ladies have a disconnect, it’s a job and nothing more, those are the ladies I tend to not see again, however, I like to find a select group of ladies who truly enjoy what they do and not just boast it in an ad. So part of having a great experience for me is making sure you cross the finish line too, sometimes more than once. All I’m saying is if you get an older man who is a bit more confident, takes his time, and isn’t really a rabbit when you meet, you might find that he is interested in making your toes curl too, so don’t be afraid to tell him what you like. Personally I love it when a provider tells me what feels good and what doesn’t, I realize I am the client, but for me, the experience is about two people, and not just making a deposit or withdrawal from an ATM.

Again, you may or may not agree with what I have said, I’m just sayin’ some of us older guys like to make you happy too, that’s all! :-)

[casetractorman]

Amen Charliec.......