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Guest041614 · 09-28-2013, 11:06 PM

So I have been a bit UTR and intentionally so. In one month my first grandchild was born (HEALTHY HANDSOME BOY ...HELL YEA I AM PROUD!!! ) And my mother passed a week and a half ago : ( My mind and heart have been in Turmoil for awhile!!! I wanted to run but am staying in ICT for one more year. I read a partial review I kinda want to address... First of all I WILL NOT SEE ANYONE UNDER 30... Mr. DM... And that is my f@@king choice... WHY... BECAUSE I CAN!!!!!! I am 2nd oldest of 7 (5 BROTHERS) AND I have 4 sons... aging 20 something to 10... I have paid taxes since I was 14 and I will do whatever the hell I want!!! I don't steal, I am not addicted to substances... THOSE ARE MY CHOICES TOO!!! If you aren't a happy person and are under 30 please do not contact me... we won't get along, I can pretty much promise that!!!! Hope everyone has a safe and special Holidays - enjoy your friends and family!!!

HUGS & Kisses to ALL!!!!! SEXY SYDNEY in ICT

Guest013121 · 09-28-2013, 11:19 PM

Haha, I love your individuality and outspoken ways. But, I am terribly sorry for your pain and suffering from your loss. I am also very excited to hear of the birth of your grandson. Life is beautiful and its a lovely thing to experience the birth of a baby. I'm the same way, I don't see anyone under 40, and for obvious reasons. We are grown mature ladies and we deserve to be treated as such. I commend you on making this post in such a vibrant and mature way.

Take care of yourself Sexy Lady! You deserve the best.

Gemma

The DarkSide · 09-29-2013, 09:28 AM

you are upset because someone under 30 wants to see you, I would take that as a compliment..................

Yankee457 · 09-29-2013, 12:16 PM

We as hobbyist have the choice to see who we choose to. Providers should also have the right to see who they choose. I for one have no issue with it as long as it is clearly understood upfront. In my case I meet the age requirement for all providers since I am over 40 so I might be a little more understanding. I think we all just need to respect everybody's right to do as they see fit.

Stay safe and play responsibly!

Helicopter206 · 09-29-2013, 03:38 PM

Gotta love every provider, it's their body and their choice, to see whomever they want. It's like the providers have a client menu, and if your not one of the flavors o well.

DallasRain · 09-29-2013, 04:36 PM

congrats on the grandbaby...but so sorry about your loss!

take care and stay strong!

bluegrana · 09-29-2013, 06:50 PM

As a 25 year old I say good for you

Don't do any thing you are not comfortable with

PleasantSurprise · 09-29-2013, 09:20 PM

Sydney,

I agree with you that the decision to only see people of a certain age is definitely a boundary you can set. Like yourself and Gemma, I have an age preference, and that is to only see gentlemen 40 and above. I've found I'm more compatible with older gentlemen, and I try to make sure anyone who arranges a date with me has read my site.

With that said, I'm not one to discriminate or turn a client down because of their age. I do my best to make sure anyone who contacts me has read my site and knows I am most compatible with men 40 and up and I do my best to gently let younger friends know there's a chance we might not be compatible, however, if they are willing to chance it, I don't see anything wrong with that. If after a few communications back and forth you think proceeding would be a disaster, maybe a kind way to respond might be something like… "You sound like a great guy, but I've found that I'm not really compatible with guys under 30. I appreciate you contacting me, it is very flattering. At the same time, I think you would have a better time meeting with a lady other than myself." Something beautiful like that.

Taking it one step further though, do you treat younger men differently than older men? Would you not be compatible with them because of them, or because of you? Would you still put your best foot forward during the appointment?

One thing I did notice…

If I were a man who found your avatar attractive and then made my way over to your eccie showcase, it doesn't say anywhere that you prefer men over 30.

I then click over to your P411 profile, and it doesn't say anything there either about only seeing men over 30.

I agree that if you only want to see men over 30 than that is your right, but in doing a quick glance over your eccie showcase and P411 profile, I think it would help weed out some of the younger men by adding something like 30+ only.

I hope you are holding it together with your mother passing away a week and a half ago. I had a very close relative pass away roughly a week and a half ago as well. I thought it would hit me harder than it did. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to send me an email anytime. I wish you the best. Good luck woman.

PS

ICTguy32 · 09-30-2013, 12:35 AM

Syndey - good for you. by the way.. I am a fit 40 year old in wichita. perhaps we should meet sometime?

JRLawrence · 09-30-2013, 04:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sexy sydney

So I have been a bit UTR and intentionally so. In one month my first grandchild was born .....

HUGS & Kisses to ALL!!!!! SEXY SYDNEY in ICT

Good for you girl.

You can be proud of the grandchild. Congratulations.

JR

MOCHAakaMOCHA · 09-30-2013, 09:00 PM

Very sorry for the loss of your mother. Biggest congrats on the new grandchild.

Guest041614 · 10-01-2013, 12:40 AM

Thanks for your support ladies and gentsI will post age Limits I usually can weed through the age limits by their grammar and vocabulary lol... I. Just like older men ALWAYS HAVE... But the ding that wrote the review said I was wierd cuz of datlmao ok so be it.... Mix that w/ a lol pms and oops SS vents on eccie BTW I am back and WILD AS EVER.. Be safe , and sweet dreams OXOXXX SS

CuteOldGuy · 10-01-2013, 02:02 AM

Sydney, also sorry for your loss. And grandchildren ROCK! Congrats on that! Oh, btw, glad to hear you will be in Wichita awhile longer. I am a not-so-fit, slightly older than 40, gentleman, who would like to meet you!

Nia Baby · 10-01-2013, 08:01 AM

Sexy Syd,
Do not respond to that bullshit babe... Do can do wtf you want to do!!!
Some guys have a lot of damn nerve!! I am so sick of them slamming ladies on here...
Congrats!! And many blessing your way

Quote:

Originally Posted by sexy sydney

So I have been a bit UTR and intentionally so. In one month my first grandchild was born (HEALTHY HANDSOME BOY ...HELL YEA I AM PROUD!!! ) And my mother passed a week and a half ago : ( My mind and heart have been in Turmoil for awhile!!! I wanted to run but am staying in ICT for one more year. I read a partial review I kinda want to address... First of all I WILL NOT SEE ANYONE UNDER 30... Mr. DM... And that is my f@@king choice... WHY... BECAUSE I CAN!!!!!! I am 2nd oldest of 7 (5 BROTHERS) AND I have 4 sons... aging 20 something to 10... I have paid taxes since I was 14 and I will do whatever the hell I want!!! I don't steal, I am not addicted to substances... THOSE ARE MY CHOICES TOO!!! If you aren't a happy person and are under 30 please do not contact me... we won't get along, I can pretty much promise that!!!! Hope everyone has a safe and special Holidays - enjoy your friends and family!!!

HUGS & Kisses to ALL!!!!! SEXY SYDNEY in ICT

Guest021115 · 10-01-2013, 08:03 AM

Sydney,

I'm so sorry to hear about your recent loss. You know I'm here if you need to talk, doll!! Since you're staying in Wichita perhaps we can meet for lunch or something, sometime.

Congrats on the new gbaby! The best thing about being a gma is you get to spoil them rotten then send them home to their momma. lol

Take care,
Staci