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Taylor Sims · 08-20-2013, 05:10 AM

What are yall's thoughts on MFM sessions. Is it something yall like to do and have done. Is it something you would do in civie life but not hobby life? How comfortable are yall with these sessions? I have done several MFM and enjoyed the moments and have great memories..

bule84 · 08-20-2013, 07:11 AM

Have done several. For me, it is best when you find consistent people that you are compatable with sexually (similiar kink levels), you get to know them what they like and you explore together. I guess there are 3 scenaios in my mind

First, odd guy out finding a couple. I was friends with a married couple for a couple years and we would play on a regular basis, it only got better over time as we got to know each other. But I was always the odd guy, and that made it less enjoyable for me.

Second, being part of the couple and finding a guy. I have done this with a previous GF. That was a very different experience, being part of the couple, rather than being the odd person that made up the 3rd. I enjoyed this scenario a lot more than being the odd guy for several reasons. We never found anyone consistent, but did have a couple really good experiences w people that we talked to a lot before we met

Third, 3 people decide to hook up. I have not done this, but it is not too appealing to me, unless there was a lot of communication before hand

For me, it would not be so conducive in the hobby, as it probablyy is not going to be a regular thing. In my expereince, the first time the group is together they are feeling each other out, and is not be as satisfying as subsequent sessions. Unless there was a lot of communication beforehand on everyones likes, dislikes, etc.

my .02

IQUITNOW · 08-20-2013, 08:18 AM

Icky

MuffinMan · 08-20-2013, 08:31 AM

I subscribe to the ONE DICK IN THE ROOM RULE....but, different stroke for different folks!

MM

Taylor Sims · 08-20-2013, 08:38 AM

MFM does not mean the men are having to touch each other.

bule84 great post.

MuffinMan · 08-20-2013, 10:29 AM

TP....I know what MFM stands for. I was just giving you MY thoughts on the situation. Uh...that was what you asked for, right?

MM

Horn^I^Dog · 08-20-2013, 12:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MuffinMan

I subscribe to the ONE DICK IN THE ROOM RULE....but, different stroke for different folks!

MM

I was wondering when Muffy would chime in with his ONE DICK IN THE ROOM rule. LOL

For those that haven't figured it out, when it comes to a threesome the order of letters does make a difference. The letter in the center indicates the "middle", the one that is the center of attention.

MFM = male female male (no male on male)
MMF = male male female (almost always male on male action included)
FFM = female female male (lez and hetero action)
FMF = female male female (lez action may occur but male is center of attention)

That being said, I'm still not a fan of MFM. I mean, while someone else is pumping from behind and she's blowing me I still have to look at the other guy's face! LOL

HID

thebrain · 08-20-2013, 12:50 PM

MFM and FMF are much better enjoyed outside the hobby with civilians. There has to be chemistry and communication for it to be more than a tag team. Inside the hobby, the time clock is ticking, so that prevents you from really getting to know and explore each other as a group.

Taylor Sims · 08-20-2013, 03:47 PM

I have blind folds.

bule84 · 08-21-2013, 04:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thebrain

MFM and FMF are much better enjoyed outside the hobby with civilians. There has to be chemistry and communication for it to be more than a tag team. Inside the hobby, the time clock is ticking, so that prevents you from really getting to know and explore each other as a group.

That is what said

I had to use more words.....lol

Im not much of a hobbyist, I need more of a connection than showing up for an hour and getting off, plus I like to explore more of the kinkier avenues, and you have to know someone to do that.

I prefer more UTR type of girls that might need some help, but that don't have stopwatches

But I do like the boards and enjoy reading and chiming in on things that interest me