Pm's?

[SexyKaylen]

OK... is it OK for guys to share PM's with other providers?
I had that happened to me.Please let me know the rules about that..I told a mod about that and they didn't do anything about that.Do mods choose who to point and who not to point?

[Guest102513-1]

Oh for gosh sakes, have you been talking to Helicopter regarding what are good thread subjects???

Mods give points for stuff that happens on Eccie. They wisely don't get involve in hearsay subjects that occur outside of Eccie. And what one person supposedly tells another person, regardless of subject matter, off of Eccie is not Mod territory.

What is up lately with people getting all butt hurt about what others may or may not be saying about them???

I would imagine most of these folks are the biggest gossip talkers, and then when it comes back and bites them in the ass we get the..."{poor me victim" nonsense

If you are going to play the "gossip game", then be a mature adult so when gossip or secret sharing is turned on you....don't be a cry baby and run to the Mods, or anyone else, for help or symphathy

[PleasantSurprise]

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

OK... is it OK for guys to share PM's with other providers?
I had that happened to me.Please let me know the rules about that..I told a mod about that and they didn't do anything about that.Do mods choose who to point and who not to point?

I don't know if it's ok to share, so from a rules and regulations standpoint, my reply here is useless.

But there's only so much Eccie can do. Even if sharing PM's were against the rules on Eccie, there isn't really any way to stop a person…. there are ways around everything. It'd soon become your word against their word, a long line of he said she said, and who's on who's side, and a huge mess.

This may be one of those chalk it up lessons. I always assume what a person tells me is being told to me in confidence, but not everyone operates that way.

I would lean towards playing it safe. Imagine worst case scenario. If what I type were to be copied and pasted and made public, would it humiliate me? Would it embarrass me? Would it damage a friendship or burn a bridge?

Anything shared, even if just with 1 person, has the potential to be made public for anyone and everyone out there to see, manipulate, twist around, or used against you.

[SexyKaylen]

Omg never mind..Forget I even said anything.

Originally Posted by vkmaster

Oh for gosh sakes, have you been talking to Helicopter regarding what are good thread subjects???

Mods give points for stuff that happens on Eccie. They wisely don't get involve in hearsay subjects that occur outside of Eccie. And what one person supposedly tells another person, regardless of subject matter, off of Eccie is not Mod territory.

What is up lately with people getting all butt hurt about what others may or may not be saying about them???

I would imagine most of these folks are the biggest gossip talkers, and then when it comes back and bites them in the ass we get the..."{poor me victim" nonsense

[Guest102513-1]

Yea but you did post something.

Kaylen, it is not like you are new to Eccie. Newbies get a past with some stuff.

For the rest of us...including you, when you take the time to post something....you own it

The 'forget I said anything" option doesn't work for veteran posters...whether you like it or not.

[SexyKaylen]

No one gives a shit but you..You always have something to say about everyone else..

[clusterlizard]

I doubt it violates any board rules since it wasn't public. But at least now you know who not to trust.

[Guest102513-1]

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

No one gives a shit but you..You always have something to say about everyone else..

Does this mean we will no longer be exchanging Holiday greeting cards anymore???



And as far as I always have something to say.....I'm only as good as the material I am given to work with, and you have always been so kind to me in this area..., so a heart-felt thanks!!!

[gman44]

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

OK... is it OK for guys to share PM's with other providers?

As long as any form of private communication is not posted in public

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

Do mods choose who to point and who not to point?

yes, we can either point the member who did not break any rules or the one who did

[PleasantSurprise]

Originally Posted by vkmaster

Does this mean we will no longer be exchanging Holiday greeting cards anymore???

This is bullshit. I never got a card from you over the holidays vkmaster.

[dirty dog]

Someone's talking about me, I know someone is talking about me, I can feel that someone is talking about me, who's talking about me, why is someone talking about me, I know someone is talking about me, I think someone is talking about me, is someone talking about me,............... I need my meds.............. sigh

[Guest102513-1]

And here all this time, I didn't think you care

Ok, I'm adding you to the list...did you know you can buy Holiday gift cards in July at half price????

Of course, it looks like there will be somebody on this thread, that I will be eliminating from my list.

But I don't name, names....no sir.

But I think somebody is talking about me. No, I know somebody is talking about me. Who is that, who said somebody was talking about me. Could it be, I'm talking about me?
Why is somebody talking about me. And even more importantly...why isn't anybody talking about me. I once talk about somebody...but only after they talked about me...I think.
Whips and chains may hurt me...but I like it, like it, when somebody is talking about me.

DD....I think we have the making of a hit summer song.. I'm thinking Rhinna, with a little Kanye mixed into it!!!!

Is it too early for the green tea??? Naaaaa. Green tea and a mid afternoon movie sounds like a winner to me

I hope the people sitting behind me, doesn't talk about me...and then again maybe I can give them some "talking about me" material!!!

[Guest092813]

Never say anything on the internet, regardless if its in pm, email, etc that you don't want someone else to read, or hear about or talk about.

[Allie_Kat]

PM's are SUPPOSED to be private, but unfortunately nothing on this board is as much as we would all like to believe. I don't know what they can do to the perpetrator unless he posts it on the boards publicly. I'm sorry that happened to you Kaylen, a breach of trust is always deeply disappointing.

[NoahScape]

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

Omg never mind..Forget I even said anything.

Maybe that thought should have gone through your mind before you posted in the first place.

I can see why you didn't. Bailey is getting a lot of attention.