NO CALL NO SHOW

[jaja133]

NCNS It seams like this happens quite often. Some providers say they will make it up. If a provider wants to make it up to you. What is a fair way to make it up?
Something FREE?
Discount?
Extra time next time?
Just say I owe you than blow you off?


Providers and hobbyist what are your thoughts?

[Bairstan]

I have never had a no call no show. Probably because I am awesome. I don't know how I would deal with it. It depends a lot on the provider.

[farmstud60]

I've been lucky and never had a NCNS but I would say if the provider wants to make it up to a person, half off the next time get together, or maybe add time. So if you booked an hour you could get an hour and a half.

[Guest022718]

I've been NCNS'd by several gals. One in particular did PM me and apologize, and offered an extended session at reduced price.

I appreciated the offer, but I never took her up on it. I'm not sure how an "obligated" session would go, and didn't want to test it.

[saxcat81]

Had a few NCNS in the past many years. Have never had one get in touch with me after and offer anything. Guess work out a deal with the provider that you are happy with and she will give you.

[MsElena]

Let the provider make an offer, take her up on it. I say this because its her idea and the session goes on without a problem.

I've NCNS once because of a kidney stone, the guy was more than happy when I made it up to him. But, he also understood why it happened. If I'm running late or have to change the time on a client, I usually make it up them with a discount or extended time. Never had a guy complain yet.

Never expect something for free from the lady, that's quite unfair to her.

You guys are lucky to a point when it comes to NCNS, if the provider has a good reputation, then she'll make it up to you. When us ladies get NCNS, we don't get jack and the guy almost never makes it right with us.

[TRex1176]

I had a NCNS once. Provider contacted me saying she would make it up to me, then I never heard back from her. I guess I just chalk it up to playing the game and move on.

[CS123]

I have been stuck more than once and it was after I got a room. Not much you can do about it. Never once an apology, excuse or anything. I fixed it by just staying with a couple of gals I know and the hell with variety if it means getting stood up, I just don't have the funds for it in this economy.

[John Bull]

CS123, that's why you stick with well-reviewed ladys. It lessens your risk, for sure!

[Netx9]

I'm patient, some times too patient. I'll contact weeks in advance sometimes after checking reviews, p411 activity. It costs me more occasionally bc newer providers with lower intro rates are enticing but I don't think want to risk. I may not be the guy who TOFTT because of it (sorry) but I'm wary of my time and funds. If they engage me in emails/txts for a bit before, I get a vibe of their reliability - good tcb, prompt responses are all better signs I look for.

[windowsidiot]

I am a newbie but I have never had a nsnc. My schedule is such that I almost always schedule in advance and with well reviewed providers. I am not on the road any more so most of my dates are incalls and I text or call the day before to verify. I do get some ymmv on the bad side though.

[Bigh1955]

Being ncns'd isn't a question of if, but of when. The longer you hobby the more likely it becomes that the inevitable will happy to you...regardless of how awesome you are Bair

Barring the person can prove they were unconsious in the hospital, or something like that, my suggestion is you scratch the person from your list, even if they're a regular. A true NCNS shows a clear lack of respect and warrants nothing less. If they offer to make it up to you, and you accept, then you're saying it's OK to be disrespectful to me in the future. I say BS, no thank you, and I don't care who you are I'm posting that you NCNS'd and are a disrespectful person. That goes for providers or hobbyists. NEVER NCNS.

I'd rather hear - I'm sorry I'm going to have to reschedule because I'm getting my brains banged out by your worst enemy - than be NCNS'd.

Makeups (extended sessions, big tips, whatever) are appropriate when lesser issues came up like needing to reschedule a trip or appointment, needing to end an appointment early, or accidentally going over time. These are good business practices, regardless of the business. There's nothing appropriate to address disrespect.

IMHO

[guest101013-2]

I've been NCNS'd somewhere around 50 times. Four times in one week was the record, but I was also balling 3 or 4 gals a day with emphasis on new faces a while ago. Most of the time it is traveling gals through Omaha.