0 for 4 on Friday

[Room Service]

Was in DSM for business Friday morning. Knew I should be done some time around or before noon.

First attempt was Cherishastarr, been on the bucket list for a long time. Texted back and forth sweet girl, not her fault, she was checking out before I could make it there.

Second attempt, wont mention her name but set something up Thurs evening for Friday noon. Text and call a little before noon, no reply.

Panic mode now. Check backpage, text one that has caught my eye several times. Ask if we can meet she says sure. No replies or answer calls???

Running short on time now. Place 2 calls to another lady, adds on BP and here. Calls went unanswered.

Had plenty of Benjamins in my wallet. What is a guy suppose to do?

[alessiajordan]

Aww thats too bad I was not visiting. Sorry things didnt work out for you though. Hopefully next time it all goes smooth. Maybe we can cross paths the next time I visit. Which may be soon.

[livn2do]

Originally Posted by kendall.dvoe

next time I visit. Which may be soon.

Kendall, Its not nice to get our, uh, hopes up like that.

RS, it happens to all of us.

[alessiajordan]

Originally Posted by livn2do

Kendall, Its not nice to get our, uh, hopes up like that.

RS, it happens to all of us.

Hey sweetie how are you? Well I am thinking about it soon... maybe May/June time frame. And since I am getting some hopes up high, I do plan on delivering.

[livn2do]

Lookin' forward to it

[Guest091515-1]

It's happened to me a few times. I'll go to Des Moines with a whole list of phone numbers and come up empty. I may have been occupying one of those girls you called.

[ferca1980]

I've been in that exact same position, yet I must say that it was because I lacked organization (please note I refer to myself only) since I got the "cravings" out of the blue, which limited not only the list of possible providers but also the budget. Next time I will plan ahead, come up with a proper budget and time frame and I am sure I can ensure a great meeting with delicious providers like Couture for instance.
Perhaps we need to have a little more disciple and not succumb to rush meetings, specially since we dont want to on the news for meeting with an undercover law agent or end up entangled with a provider that later gets in to trouble and which can ultimately put us in jeopardy.

[Estella Ayres]

Plus, remember, some women do not operate using a phone call as a proper introduction to be able to meet them. I don't know what tier of ladies you were trying to meet with, but many of us are not just sitting by the phone waiting on a random call. I usually know who I'm seeing and when several weeks in advance. Not to mention, I don't answer calls from numbers I don't know or am not expecting, I'm sure I'm not the only one to operate in this manner. E-mail and planning ahead can work wonders for you. We do have lives to attend to as well.

[livn2do]

Sounds like entirely too much work for me. Find someone you dig Room Service, someone who digs you back and then set up a standing appointment like I have with Renee Couture. I know plenty of top shelf ladies who will bend over backwards to accommodate you on short notice as long as you can be verified through something like P411 and have reputable references. I also know plenty of top shelf ladies who won't like was said regardless of your references. Neither is right, neither is wrong, its just how they do business and since it is their business they have the right to conduct it however they see fit. Build your bank of ladies so to speak and those sudden urges wont get the best of you anymore...most of the time.

[MichelleInIowa]

Originally Posted by Estella Ayres

I'm sure I'm not the only one to operate in this manner.

You most def. are not the only one Estella! Although I've been known to be available on short notice I prefer advanced notice ...

[Room Service]

Originally Posted by Estella Ayres

Plus, remember, some women do not operate using a phone call as a proper introduction to be able to meet them. I don't know what tier of ladies you were trying to meet with, but many of us are not just sitting by the phone waiting on a random call. I usually know who I'm seeing and when several weeks in advance. Not to mention, I don't answer calls from numbers I don't know or am not expecting, I'm sure I'm not the only one to operate in this manner. E-mail and planning ahead can work wonders for you. We do have lives to attend to as well.

Didn't start off as a random call. Had communication with Ms. Starr for a couple of days. When I realized that wasn't going to work out I contacted another lady, that is a active member on here, and set a appointment for the next day. 24 hours in advance. Only became random calls after no replies from that one. My point is what could I do? I had a tentative appointment. Should I have had more than 1 appointment scheduled?

[Estella Ayres]

I would never recommend booking numerous appt's in the case that both come through and then one of them has to be cancelled at the last minute. However, I would suggest that if you're able, just do what you started to do, and just have your appointment confirmed ahead of time, that's always the best scenario.
It also comes down to communication and what not beforehand with your intended appt. I wouldn't think it would be bad form to throw a feeler out or two if you feel like your confirmed appt is a little flaky or hasn't communicated with you when you try to confirm the day before or something along those lines. Same deal if you know they have a history of NCNS or overbooking themselves.
All I was saying was that it's definitely no surprise that it didn't work out if you just start calling numbers with no plan ahead of time. I know some guys don't like to plan but it sounds like you at least tried. It's also good to have a kind of list in your mind of who you might like to see if your confirmed appt doesn't work out and familiarize yourself with their schedules. Do they seem to be the type who would be fine with short notice or would require more planning? Do they work weekends, etc? Are they on tour right now? If so, you can eliminate them from your list this time around and find another in case your plans don't work out. It's all about the research and homework for the best outcome.

[tav3484]

You should get signed up on p411. I have luck with the traveling providers that come through Des Moines! For the big buck I would see jenessa Skye! She's definitely worth it! With a smoking body!