Here is some advise for providers

[jackson12345]

Dear providers,
Please take this from the heart of a long time hobbyist....Please don't treat us like a number and please don't treat us like customers. Yes, you are providing a service, and yes you may get some jerks, but this is a relational service and not all of us are jerks. For example, I am a customer of my barber but I continue going back not only because he provides a good service, but also because he is personable. If you want repeat clients, be warm and passionate, and inviting. The same way you don't want to be treated like an object, we don't want to be treated like a number. If you don't like what you are doing and don't like working with people, maybe you should consider going to tech school so you can work with computers and not people...that is all...I now step down from my soap box...

[Smoking Monkey]

Truer words have never been spoken!

[MsElena]

Your words are correct, but please also remember it works both ways.

If I may add, please don't compare us to other ladies because we're not all the same. Please don't talk about other providers during your time with us, because I don't want to hear about them. I'd say we, but I don't want to speak for others.

And if you want our time together to feel more natural, give us some attention so we don't have to use lube only to have you go back to write a review that says, "She's mechanical, she wasn't into it, etc."

[OLindsay]

Originally Posted by MsElena

Your words are correct, but please also remember it works both ways.

If I may add, please don't compare us to other ladies because we're not all the same. Please don't talk about other providers during your time with us, because I don't want to hear about them. I'd say we, but I don't want to speak for others.

And if you want our time together to feel more natural, give us some attention so we don't have to use lube only to have you go back to write a review that says, "She's mechanical, she wasn't into it, etc."

+1

[b@ileythepistol]

I agree with what you are saying I believe we as providers need to show we enjoy our job but... I have a lot of guys try to be rude with me because they are paying for my time. I understand that but its hard to be relaxed when someone is pushy any putting pressure on us to please.