This Is Getting to be too much

[big boi terry]

Hello fellow board members, i've been a member of this board for a little while now. I've prided myself on conducting myself in an above board manner both on the boards, and in private conversations and activities. But the crap, and yes, I call it crap, that i've had to experience for the past years is taking a toll on me. I don't ever address race or preference, because everyone has a right to do business with whomever they choose to. But it has gotten so bad for me, that i've just about stopped trying to hobby at this level. My luck has been 3 out of 4 providers that visit this city, won't give me the time of day. It doesn't seem to matter that on p411 I have plus 30 ok's, and I believe that anyone that HAS actually met me, would vouch for me. I even let my p411 acct expire because again, what's the point. I am grateful to the providers that have actually judged me on my own merits, and to those that I have contacted, but then found out that they do indeed have the NO BLACK MEN policy, well at least those that would dignify me with a response, and believe me, there are plenty that look at my profile, and won't even respond, I wish you success too. I'm not trying to start another thread about NBA and no NBA policies, I just had to get this off my chest. Again, I hope that everyone plays safe, and that this year will be a better year than the last. BBT in Memphis.

[Abe Normal]

Well said young man. Have you ever considered that it is the "ladies" who are missing out ?

My downfall is, I'm old, fat, and ugly. All clients can't be Brad Pitt....or even Denzel Washington, LOL

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by Abe Normal

My downfall is, I'm old, fat, and ugly.

I'm old, fat, ugly, and a lousy lay. I'm surprised any ladies let me pay to be with them.

Cheers,

bcg

[JDNorthface]

Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

I'm old, fat, ugly, and a lousy lay. I'm surprised any ladies let me pay to be with them.
...

Do you have to beg many of them?

[doublelll]

If you think you have it bad it is worst in nashville area with most local providers!

[sovanna]

Sorry to hear you are going through this. I too was told ladies on p411 that see his profile with many oks, still won't see him since he's AA.

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

I'm old, fat, ugly, and a lousy lay. I'm surprised any ladies let me pay to be with them...

Not since I perfected my "puppy dog eyes" look.





Cheers,

bcg

[Sonoman]

Since dislocating one foot and breaking the other I have found limping works almost as good as "your puppy eyes". Sometimes they just feel sorry for us.

Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

Not since I perfected my "puppy dog eyes" look.





Cheers,

bcg

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by Sonoman

Since dislocating one foot and breaking the other I have found limping works almost as good as "your puppy eyes". Sometimes they just feel sorry for us.

Whatever works is OK by me; nothing succeeds like success.

Cheers,

bcg

[Guest080613-2]

I'm sorry sweetie, that you are having to go through this. Some are just missing out on an incredibly lovable guy who can fuck like a pro! MORE FOR US THO!

[DallasRain]

[big boi terry]

I'm sorry guys for even bringing this thread up, this is a place for information and for fun, and I allowed my frustrations to get the better of me. But since I posted this it helped to cleanse me somewhat. I renewed my p411 acct to make it easier for those that don't have an issue with someone like me, and decided that i'll visit with the great locals that never give me a hard time, and the visitors that don't have and issue. Abe Normal, your reply had particular importance for me, you made me think back to a thread that the red headed Chrissy, "Red Vixxen", posted about our meeting a yr or so ago. She also had the NBA policy, but she took a chance on me based on my ok's and actually talking to some that i've visited, and she gave me a public apology for treating me in the manner that she did prior to our meeting. So yea, a provider will miss out on a session with a guy that will do nothing more than treat her with as much respect, if not more, than any man here, be he white, green or red. So again, i'm sorry for venting publicly, but it's now time to move on. NOW, let me see, who can I visit with next, i'm getting VERY hungry lol.

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by big boi terry

I'm sorry guys for even bringing this thread up, this is a place for information and for fun, and I allowed my frustrations to get the better of me. But since I posted this it helped to cleanse me somewhat.

Sometimes we need to get things off our chest. And at least here you'd have a very sympathetic audience (and if anyone wasn't sympathetic, most of the rest of us would tear them apart for you).



Now GO GIT SUM! [© Mr. Giz]. And then write reviews of the sum you go git; I need some guidance on who I need to see before I hang up my cleats, which I shall need to do relatively soon.

Cheers,

bcg

[DallasRain]

BBT---I luv ya baby!!

[chrissy]

Originally Posted by big boi terry

I'm sorry guys for even bringing this thread up, this is a place for information and for fun, and I allowed my frustrations to get the better of me. But since I posted this it helped to cleanse me somewhat. I renewed my p411 acct to make it easier for those that don't have an issue with someone like me, and decided that i'll visit with the great locals that never give me a hard time, and the visitors that don't have and issue. Abe Normal, your reply had particular importance for me, you made me think back to a thread that the red headed Chrissy, "Red Vixxen", posted about our meeting a yr or so ago. She also had the NBA policy, but she took a chance on me based on my ok's and actually talking to some that i've visited, and she gave me a public apology for treating me in the manner that she did prior to our meeting. So yea, a provider will miss out on a session with a guy that will do nothing more than treat her with as much respect, if not more, than any man here, be he white, green or red. So again, i'm sorry for venting publicly, but it's now time to move on. NOW, let me see, who can I visit with next, i'm getting VERY hungry lol.

OH YES I am glad I did BBT....I got a great friend out of the deal too!.After a couple doosies I have my own feelings on the matter here in the South...so I will just say its the loss of a good future appt.. hobbiest and $ that they have to deal with...