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mirandalee · 10-03-2012, 07:54 PM

Ok I have started offering massages,(offcourse candles) everywhere for you gentlemen but some do not want a massage before the session, so hmmm got me thinking as to why some dont want one, does a massage get you too relaxed and affraid you might pass out or something else lol? I have had some who enjoyed it very much and so my thoughts to you are would you like to recieve a massage or pass it up, your thoughts please? When Im in Tampa almost all the guys requested a massage before hand.... and loved it...

Well for those of you with backpains or tension hey I would love to massage you and get you relaxed you can reach me and make it happen for you...
. let the thougts begin!!!

blasian1246 · 10-03-2012, 08:09 PM

it depends, im the type that needs to really be sore in order to ask for one. i hate pain (meaning deep tissue, or almost any hard pressure...hell, i dont even enjoy light biting, pinching, etc during a session). with that said, im also extremely ticklish, so light pressure or light touch has me squirming, so no enjoyment there either! im basically a providers/massage therapist worse nightmare! im sure other hobbyist just want to get down to business and want to bypass a massage to save time.

Guest083013 · 10-03-2012, 08:10 PM

.....I really think a nice massage (or something very comparative) is a wonderful way to lead two people into a very erotic time together that can end in a variety of ways ====> mutual can be awesome too....

nice question mirandalee!!

DallasRain · 10-03-2012, 08:25 PM

I usually start my sessions with a nice oily body rub...and the guys love it!

so,yes baby,go for it!!! have fun!!

Nutting Buckeye · 10-03-2012, 08:44 PM

Massages before playing are awesome!!! They are not only a great means for relaxation as well as better for getting soreness out than smelly Ben Gay. Massages are also are great means for increasing that invisible feeling/action called chemistry.

Both persons can start building up their chemistry with each other during the massage especially if there is some sensual convo included thus offering a great lead in to some intense foreplay!

Then let the fireworks of the session really begin!!!

mirandalee · 10-03-2012, 08:45 PM

Not a rough massage sensual and light touching im not always agressive guys lol... I do have a softer side too. Like im on top of you, and youre face down and just rubbing your back with massage oil and candles lit, seductive type...

Travelingbro · 10-03-2012, 08:55 PM

I'm all for the massage. It is a great segway into the session and a nice added "touch".

Mature Companion · 10-03-2012, 09:03 PM

I love giving massages. And am damn good at it. And some men came while still on their stomach. Which was a compliment in it's own way.

But some men, simply don't like all the the hands on touching. Not just because they may be ticklish. But because some simply aren't into being touched by women, outside of getting fucked. AND also, some don't like the smell or feel of certain oils on their skin. Some fear it'll be still be on them, long after they showered. Yes, these concerns have been mentioned to me. They're not *guesstimations on my part*.
So I'm not offended in the least if someone doesn't wish to enjoy a massage. To each their own.
But for me, I want the manly hands on my skin. The stronger the massage. The better. Especially, now since I've done a heck of a lot of lifting over the course of the last week/weekend, helping a friend move.

Miranda,
If you opt to give massages. the best, non smelling, feels like silk, oil to use. It Eros Body glide. It's not just for intimate acts. It's amazing for giving massages. Leaves NO scent whatsoever and it will leave his/her skin feeling soft.

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Originally Posted by mirandalee

Ok I have started offering massages,(offcourse candles) everywhere for you gentlemen but some do not want a massage before the session, so hmmm got me thinking as to why some dont want one, does a massage get you too relaxed and affraid you might pass out or something else lol? I have had some who enjoyed it very much and so my thoughts to you are would you like to recieve a massage or pass it up, your thoughts please? When Im in Tampa almost all the guys requested a massage before hand.... and loved it...

Well for those of you with backpains or tension hey I would love to massage you and get you relaxed you can reach me and make it happen for you...
. let the thougts begin!!!

Nutting Buckeye · 10-03-2012, 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

And some men came while still on their stomach. Which was a compliment in it's own way.

Whoa WM, that must be one helluva a massage!!!

atxdream · 10-03-2012, 09:35 PM

I'm not a prof masseuse but I often assist my roomie who is. We use ivy oil. It looks like Crisco but melts in the hand. It leaves no scent, no greasy feeling, won't stain clothes and completely dissolves in skin. Great stuff!
The massages I offer are sensory deprivation massages. I'd be happy to show you how these work. They take up the whole session time, but I get tons of repeat requests for them. They're pretty intense so I always make sure the gent has at least 30 mins to recover before driving.

funnyboy · 10-04-2012, 07:39 AM

I think one of the main reasons for passing on a massage is they tend to not really be a massage but a light rubbing of the hands over the body.

I love to start sessions with real massages, but when they are not very good it just seems like the lady may be trying to milk the clock a bit, that is my opinion and not a representation of what the lady is actually feeling or doing

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atxdream · 10-04-2012, 09:34 AM

I don't see how a massage would be considered milking the clock. She is offering it as a way to set the mood & relax the gent. Both of those things can help make the time remaining much more enjoyable for both parties.

mirandalee · 10-04-2012, 09:47 AM

I have great massage oil it doesnt have a smell nor does it leave greasy niether its called JO its a warming massage glide thats silky, smooth and its long lasting lol.. some have flavors too and can use this as a lubricant its a 3-in-1 type stuff lol, and I love it.
@funny boy if u want a real massage I can do that I have putten guys to sleep from giving them a massage and I do not watch the clock and take off time for massaging or conversating with you, come to think of it I do not even own a clock at my place. I enjoy what I do and never have rushed anyone and never had complaints....

bamatide · 10-04-2012, 04:58 PM

Massages before a session is a nice touch. Great as an icebreaker along with some conversation.

Mature Companion · 10-04-2012, 06:25 PM

I dunno, I'm just a woman who enjoys a man. I ain't anything special.

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Originally Posted by Nutting Buckeye

Whoa WM, that must be one helluva a massage!!!

As for funnyboy's comment.

I too don't feel an offer of a massage is in any means of milking the *clock*. At least not by those who actually enjoy giving them. Though I do see your point.
Some men, simply are not into the whole *sexual intimacy* aspect. For whatever reason, they're not.
And some of nervous as heck around women. And a massage is a nice way to calm the nerves and removes a bit of his shyness.

Massages are not for everyone. But there are those who enjoy it. Be it a very slow sensual massage or a full on body massage for the sore achy stressed body (without being toooooo hard).