Bittersweet Experience

[charlestudor2005]

I just saw a newbie lady three weeks into the business. I didn't know at the time of booking she was so new. She was so naive it was sweet. But it was bitter having to guide her. She was soooo apologetic for declining certain activities. I kept telling her that she didn't need to apologize for her limits.

She said she was a "pleaser" willing to do "anything." Hardly the case. She had a lot of hard limits. Basically, she's only BBBJ and DT, with NO CIM. And CFS.

BTW, it wasn't all bitter. She was very small...had the tightest pussy I've ever felt.

Guess this leads to a question for the ladies. How naive were you in your first month in the business?

[alluringava]

So nervous and naive I forgot to collect the money and the guy, thankfully, ran after me and said " You forgot this!"

[AdventureAdams]

Did she have reviews? Did you know about her rules before-hand?

I don't think I was very green when it come to the sexual part of escorting when I first started, granted I wasn't the perfect escort when I started, I take everything as a learning experience.

Sorry you weren't 100 percent happy with your experience.

[AdventureAdams]

Originally Posted by alluringava

So nervous and naive I forgot to collect the money and the guy, thankfully, ran after me and said " You forgot this!"

Haha I've done this as well, the guy mentioned it my first review- which was kinda weird- but funny.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

Did she have reviews? Did you know about her rules before-hand?

I don't think I was very green when it come to the sexual part of escorting when I first started, granted I wasn't the perfect escort when I started, I take everything as a learning experience.

Sorry you weren't 100 percent happy with your experience.

Yeah, she had one. Limits weren't mentioned in the review. She was my first plunge into the world of Agencies. If I blame anyone, it's the Agency. It was so obvious she was nervous when she walked through the door, the first thing I asked her was how long she had been doing this. Don't think I've ever asked that question before.

The Agency had listed her on P411; she'd never heard of it. They also had her on the Agency website, which she'd never seen. In the afterglow, I tried to gently suggest to her that she should have her limits clearly defined on P411.

I don't know if she will, but I hope she does.

About the 100% happy comment: as soon as I realized how new she was, I adjusted my expectations. I guess I'd say she met my adjusted expectations. Not what I had in mind at booking time, but if I did reviews my recommendation would be "Yes." But I would definitely mention the limits and the "newbiness."

[Shayla]

I was naive... I didn't know what 'greek' or any of the acronyms meant. I got the basics down from a few hooker friends and I was always awkward when trying to initiate it. I didn't know if they wanted me to or not. And I "worked" way harder then. I thought the expectations were porn star styles... Not so much.

[Naomi4u]

No I was not. I researched the business for 2 years and then started working for a high end agency. I was kinda nervous about the sex part but when I saw my first $300 for p4p, I was on cloud 10! All the nervousness was gone after that. I still get nervous today but that's just from meeting a guy for the first time and not knowing him.

[canuckvic]

Originally Posted by Shayla

I thought the expectations were porn star styles... Not so much.

They're not????

Lucky me!

[john353]

Some guys seem to enjoy being first when certain agencies turn out a new girl. It's like popping a cherry or something. Personally...I find it rather awkward.

I got a call from an agency owner once several years ago, to come over and check out his newest girl since he wanted to put her out there and she also needed a review. I went and saw her and she was cute...but she had no clue whatsoever as far as what to do. I had to sit and talk to her for several minutes before she took the initiative to start getting undressed.

The whole thing was awkward and just left a bad taste in my mouth. I won't do that again.

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by alluringava

So nervous and naive I forgot to collect the money and the guy, thankfully, ran after me and said " You forgot this!"

Boy thats a dedicated Monger for ya isn't it, lol.

[charlestudor2005]

@johnny

That's a lot what this lady was like.

[Eccie Addict]

I would rather not see a new girl.....

I would definitely not wanna "break in" a new girl, especially for an agency or variation of....

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I would rather not see a new girl.....

I would definitely not wanna "break in" a new girl, especially for an agency or variation of....

Those are my sentiments, too. But when life gives you lemons...

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Shayla

I was naive... I didn't know what 'greek' or any of the acronyms meant. I got the basics down from a few hooker friends and I was always awkward when trying to initiate it. I didn't know if they wanted me to or not. And I "worked" way harder then. I thought the expectations were porn star styles... Not so much.

BBCR is a basic activity.

[burkalini]

Have any of you experienced a provider when she was new and naive and it almost felt like you were helping her thru the experience and then see her again at a much later time and she was hard and unfeeling. The new experience sometimes is the better of the two.