Stood up for B.C.S

[KinkyMaddy]

Well I had a an eccie member *CAJUNSAUSAGE* contact me monday morning the day of the b.c.s bowl inquiring about a twelve hour day date. We pm back in forth and settle on a donation. Date is set for three p.m . so I ask him please call me to confirm. He calls five min later, we talk and i let him know that I need to get ready and run an errand before I can imake it there. I told him i would be fiffteen min late he said fine , then i ket him know i would call him on the way acroos the river to downtown. So i did and let him know i was fifteen min out he said cool just valet my car and he would take care of it. I had first and last name that he gave me and that his provider refrences conquered with. I go to valet and asked me name on room i tolded them and they told me because of b.c.s i would have to pay 50$ if i wasnt a guest i said no my friend is. I call him no answer, the continues for 15 min.in that fifteen min i called the hotels fronT desk and have then connect me to the room number he gave me and they asked for his last name i gave it to them they said I'M SORRY WE DO NOT HAVE A GUEST BY THAT NAME! I get a text hold on my boss is calling me. I wait another 20 min no answer. I text no answer. i wait another thirty min then i get a text sorry my boss said i have to go to work!!!! this is all while im sitting downstairs of his hotel, after that text he would not respond via text nor answer his phone!!! So after i am pissed off have to pay 50 dollars for parking and stuck in traffic for two hours, i found out thru some providers friends he booked with Heidi as well she just couldnt come Till five p.m . Me and her talked and she said he cancelled on her at the same time that he texted me and cancelled. SO what i was suppose to show up three and her at five???? double book??? SO Maybe he triple booked??? OR WAS HE GETTING HIS KICKS OUT OF BOOKING APPTS, HAVING THE GIRL SHOW UP SOMEWHERE THAT HES NOT EVEN AT???

WASTE OF FUCKING TIME!!!!

[DallasRain]

So sorry that happened!

[bodilly]

Is this really alert worthy ?
There is another thread where he explains what happened.
I know my job can call at any minute and I have to go ASAP.

I'm not taking sides but couldn't this have been posted in the coed section as a NCNS.

Would an apology and compensation for your time and expense be an option?

Shouldn"t the alert section be reserved for safety or law enforcement concerns?

[KinkyMaddy]

Sorry I posted the alert before I read the Coed.

[Outdoorsman]

Moved it for ya.

Story would have more validity from the hobbyest if he would have replied to txt messages, or calls. Humans tend to run and hide when they know they have done wrong (no answers, cancels by txt not a call, hell I would have ran downstairs and at least paid your parking). When plans change legimately (not saying that did not happen) people tend to face the disappointment head on as they know they are not in control of situation. I think Maddy would have understood if you ran down paid her parking at least and faced the music, idk. I know he had to hurry out, but a txt 30 mins after date was to begin and then no messages nor calls, but he has time to reply to threads on this site.

Has he even offered to reimburse you the $50 for parking?

I still believe that when I screw up I have to admit it and attempt to make things right, that is me.

[KinkyMaddy]

No he never offered anything!! But with cancellation text he said I will make it up to me.

[Andrea Chase]

Hmmm this is a little weird. Especially since I just checked my PM's and he sent me one inviting me to the game and said he had a room at The W. I am so sorry he wasted your time........All it takes is one guy to mess it up for everyone. Not impressed...

[gimme_that]

He should have had the parking paid for, and the tickets in hand. Epic fail.

[Brmike1963]

He is the exception not the rule. Most of us mature hobbyist are considerate gentleman who will not operate like that. Make a note and let it go , don't let him ruin any more of your time.

[causewaycommuter]

There is another thread on the same topic. I'm closing this one.