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kos · 11-07-2011, 02:53 PM

It looks like most of the providers here require a few references. Im new here and dont have any references, and Im wondering what the best way is to get started? If this is an FAQ, then please point me to somewhere that this info is provided.
Ive seen some providers that say they are "Not newbie friendly". Is that common, or are most ok with newbies? Is there any other screening process that is acceptable to most?

thanks for any info
Kos

Anita Lay · 11-07-2011, 02:58 PM

READ, READ, READ, and READ some more.
Look over this website and you will find it.

hd · 11-07-2011, 03:01 PM

most cases, she'll say 'newbie friendly' in her showcase or p411 acct.

but if you see one you want to schedule with, just ask if she'll see you, sometimes being an eccie member will certainly help. Get one or two under your belt, then should never be any problem after that.

Anita Lay · 11-07-2011, 03:27 PM

Please do research before calling a provider, there are guidelines on how to conduct it .

Sweet N Little · 11-07-2011, 03:42 PM

Read this KOS http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...tives+hobbying
Perspectives on hobbying ...Good info

Good luck and have fun!!

sketchball82 · 11-07-2011, 03:49 PM

Hi Kos:

You're going to get a lot of tips. I'll throw you to a couple threads that have a good summary.

Hobby terminology/acronyms, to help if you're confused:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=8752

First is the general thread for newbies:
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=178982
(This thread is actually a sticky in this forum, lolol.)

Second is a thread I started when I was a newbie about avoid LE/covering your ass:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=308871

Third is the legal forums here. The stickys by ShysterJon are great resources for what the real laws are (in Texas at least) and what to do if you're stopped, etc.:
http://www.eccie.net/forumdisplay.php?f=7

In addition to the above, I suggest registering on one of the prescreened services outside of the US. (Because it's outside of the US, it is significantly harder for LE to compel information in a mass sting operation. P411 is preferred as they claim to destroy your information upon verification. They are hosted out of Canada. http://www.p411.com) These services are a great way to schedule and search for providers. You can use their provider profiles on these services to see what services they offer and to see links to reviews. As a newbie, I would recommend to stick to well reviewed providers. Look for newbie friendlies. Once you have your first "ok" on the prescreened service, it is significantly easier to find new providers and your options open a lot.

Good luck!

kos · 11-07-2011, 04:14 PM

Thanks for all the great info!! Cant wait to get started. ;-)

jaydalee · 11-08-2011, 04:26 AM

I would suggest signing up for a verification site such as P411 or Date-Check.com
On those sites you can search for newbie friendly providers in your area it will state on their profiles if they are newbie friendly.Also,a look at the ladies websites to see if it states no newbies or newbie friendly.If you search ladies ads and websites and it is not stated inquire if she is newbie friendly.Sign up for either one or both of the verification sites and you should not have a problem.
Good luck to you!

Paven · 11-08-2011, 07:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sketchball82

Hi Kos:

You're going to get a lot of tips. I'll throw you to a couple threads that have a good summary.

Hobby terminology/acronyms, to help if you're confused:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=8752

First is the general thread for newbies:
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=178982
(This thread is actually a sticky in this forum, lolol.)

Second is a thread I started when I was a newbie about avoid LE/covering your ass:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=308871

Third is the legal forums here. The stickys by ShysterJon are great resources for what the real laws are (in Texas at least) and what to do if you're stopped, etc.:
http://www.eccie.net/forumdisplay.php?f=7

In addition to the above, I suggest registering on one of the prescreened services outside of the US. (Because it's outside of the US, it is significantly harder for LE to compel information in a mass sting operation. P411 is preferred as they claim to destroy your information upon verification. They are hosted out of Canada. http://www.p411.com) These services are a great way to schedule and search for providers. You can use their provider profiles on these services to see what services they offer and to see links to reviews. As a newbie, I would recommend to stick to well reviewed providers. Look for newbie friendlies. Once you have your first "ok" on the prescreened service, it is significantly easier to find new providers and your options open a lot.

Good luck!

From one newbie to another, lots of great information here!

Guest110911 · 11-08-2011, 11:28 AM

This may not be a popular answer... But it works. Get a few bj's from a few fat chicks... Now u have refs..

Explorer · 11-08-2011, 01:41 PM

Join P411. They check you out and many providers will see you if you contact them through P411. This is even if they don't see guys with no references. (P411 is in Canada where Play 4 Pay is legal.)

Then, after the session, go back on P411 and request a provider "OK".