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Originally Posted by Babydoll2211
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Also I have a review up, I do admit I wasted his time I didn't realize the guy was black until it was too late. I'm not racist. I had a very bad experience happen which some know in Nashville where I was kidnapped by 2 black male late one night and I could had died. Over this experience I panic when I'm in a room alone with a black man. I have severe ptsd over it and have severe nightmares and wake up crying almost every night. These guys intended to do very bad things to me alone with killing me if an officer hadnt heard the scuffle hours later I might not be here to even say anything about this. It was traumatizing. But I feel that whatever I want to do is on me but yes i should had asked before he even started heading my way.... I tried to post on my review but it wouldn't allow me. I can admit my mistakes but just saying if I was black I'd Def say it knowing I'm from TN. And knowing that says a lot but there views is not what changed my thinking, what happened to me that has traumatized me is why I believe this stuff. And it's odd all these people on here talking trash but then begging to see me. Strange? So who is two faced. And fake? I can speak my mind. I have been around for 7 years and I've noticed Pittsburgh men seem to treat ladies the worst. I've never had men treat me so badly. Everywhere else I'm treated as a goddess. I think Pittsburgh men need to step there game up. And remember rules are rules. So follow nine and I'll follow yours. Gotta give respect to get it. I think I'll be moving back to tn now.
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Sweetie, couple of things. First, own up to what you do... right, wrong, or indifferent.
Second, don't feel justified in having to explain your reasoning. Have a good reason for what you do. If you have hard limitations, then make those known before hand to avoid misunderstanding and conflicts during or after the fact. Some people may not like what you do but that's their choice. Keep it cordial and move on from there.
Third, keep your head and shit together. Reputation, reliability, and professionalism can make it or break it. Even a novice can see a certain trend developing and it's leading in a questionable direction. Don't let it go in a direction that is not what you want.
This is not meant to be condescending or a opportunity to jump onto the bandwagon. Instead, the choices are with you and what you do with them, are yours. That being said, action equals consequences.
Try to make the good choices and will benefit you.