I like how do I get providers to act more flamboyant?

[Depurefymii]

I like flamboyant, glamorous, dare I say, narcissistic women.

I want providers to use hypnotic techniques like prompting me affirm their appearance or giving me a leading question about how good I am feeling or hyping themselves up about how good they are doing a strip tease. I am so incredibly suggestible that it will suck me into the experience more and make me feel more satisfied afterwards.

It is awkward for me to bring it up, and the women have a propensity to act flamboyant usually become cam girls instead.

[Fizley]

Find a regular and have a conversation with her telling her what you like.

I am sure a regular would be more than willing to help you out with that fantasy.

[Depurefymii]

When you say a regular, what do you mean?

[Fizley]

A regular-as a provider you see on a monthly basis, who gets to know what your desires and likes.

Will cater to your needs.

If you see new providers every time you do not have the opportunity to develop familiarity.

[Depurefymii]

Maybe I'll try leading them initially and see if they catch on.

[yourdesire]

Originally Posted by Depurefymii

Maybe I'll try leading them initially and see if they catch on.

Why beat around the bush and try to get her to read between lines just be upfront

[Depurefymii]

Yeah, that makes sense. Should I tell them via text or wait until the session?

[Depurefymii]

Being straight forward seems like a one way ticket to monkhood. I don't get responses at all.

[Fizley]

Find a provider you like. Go and see her for an hour.

When your naked gazing into her eyes ask can you xxxx.

She is either going to be willing or not. If she doesn't cater to your fantasy, time to move onto the next.

Some of the ladies will be willing to meet you for a cup of coffee at Starbucks. You could see if she was up for your fantasy. Video call would be another option. However with the demand for hobby exceeding the number of providers currently I suspect your best option is to pick a gal that floats you boat and go and see her.

Just make sure you do your screening. My suggestion is to see well reviewed providers.

[ShahOfTexas]

step 1: wear blue lipstick
step 2: somehow make your balls covered in glitter
step 3: entrance music-bring a boom box I'll leave the song up to you, definitely not Radiohead

[KCQuestor]

I'm sure if you use words like "roleplay" and "strip show", the providers will get more of an understanding of what you want. Ones who are more "performative" shouldn't have a problem acting narcissistic and demonstrating for you. Make sure they understand that the show is as important to you as the actual activities. You won't have much luck with the $100 Listcrawler girls, but a quality escort should at least be willing to try.

But acting is a skill like any other, and some girls just may not be good enough to meet your needs.

[Fizley]

Good advise, KC. Avoid $100 girls. See the $300 providers.

[yourdesire]

Originally Posted by Depurefymii

Yeah, that makes sense. Should I tell them via text or wait until the session?

I would suggest waiting until you meet the provider first. Trying to start that conversation via text could get you shut down real fast

[KCQuestor]

Originally Posted by yourdesire

I would suggest waiting until you meet the provider first. Trying to start that conversation via text could get you shut down real fast

Yeah, definitely avoid anything specific before the date. But I would definitely let them know that you are into roleplay, nothing rough. You want them expecting to have to act a bit, and not throw it in as a surprise last minute.