Making sure you are being screened

[BigDeal]

In light of the current times and inherent risks the hobby presents.

When guys complain because girls are screening so tough, there is a good reason for it and its valid.
When a lady screens you however that is, make sure she is doing it.
Make sure you ask that she do it, make sure your multiple refernces are aware.
Complacency gets people busted!
When we give a girl a hard time, understand from her point of view.
I realize that your personal info is valued, but so is safety for both her and you.
How do you know if she has been compromised by LE, or a pimp?
You dont!
How does she know you havent been compromised equally!
Be patient, have your ducks lined up and if something doesnt feel right, follow your gut!
Anyway not meaning to lecture, but just a reminder to all of us that be safe and follow a process.
Make sure you are getting screened and if you dont like the tough screening, then maybe this girl or that guys isnt for you and move on!
Happy Holidays!!

[yourdesire]

BRAVO Bigdeal spread that word sweety. Personally I won't argue with anyone about the screening and I won't discuss the screening. with them. Either they'll give me the information or they won't see me. And as you said the gents ought to be the same way. And in turn I always answer the questions that are asked of me. I feel what's fair is fair. xoxo Have a happy bird day. Gobble gobble I'm a turkey before and after Thanksgiving waiting on a pilgrim 😂

[BigDeal]

Good for you YD!
Be safe and enjoy your Thanksgiving.

[DallasRain]

Amen!!! Great post n answers!!

I say if ya dont wanna be screened then go see somebody else....not all money is good money!

Safety is job 1..when things are secure and comfortable in a playtine then it maximizes the fun!

[FlingRox]

Thank you! I have no problem passing if you don't want to screen! If you can't trust me with a little info on you how do I trust to invite you into my home intimately? If we met at a bar, I'd already know your first and last name, where you live, work, kids, daily habits and if you had a goldfish or visit grandma at the nursing home down the street! So, yes...keep things in perspective and check reviews. It's just too bad that a "man's word" means nothing these days and safety is of the utmost!
Thanks BigDeal for your advocacy!!

[Lil Oral Annie]

Awesome post. I wish more gents thought this way.

[ElumEno]

We as clients have a whole plethora of information at our finger tips when doing our due diligence when checking out the ladies.
Reviews, ads, personal websites, social media, word of mouth and the list goes on and on, we already know her likes and dislikes,
favorite color, pets, drinks, positions ect. ect. ect. it's almost like we've already known her intimately before ever making first contact.

We have to remember that just because we know so much about them, the chances are that they know nothing about us.
So talking like we are long lost lovers on first contact can be quite creepy to them on first contact... I know I've made that mistake.
So when she starts asking screening information, sometimes our subconscious goes into defense mode, after all, you know her so well, so why is she asking all these questions.
In reality she knows nothing about you and is just trying to insure her own safety, and in doing so, is also insuring yours.

In doing her due diligence if she ask you something that you do not feel comfortable in sharing, for gods sake, don't get rude and nasty about it.
Getting nasty about it is not going to get her to see you, matter of fact, its going to close the door on other girls seeing you too.
Politely and respectfully tell her that you do not feel comfortable at this time sharing the information and apologize for taking up her time.
Accept the fact that she will not see you and move on, and try not to contact her again unless it is to provide the information she wanted.

All might not be lost, in rare cases (as in do not count on it) she might contact you later down the line, Just like we guys like talking about the ladies, the ladies also talk about us.

[Cherokeechief]

Well Hell Folks, We guy's do the same thing in reverse. Don't complain just do it or be prepared to handle it yourself. LOL No problems here.

[timmystool]

yup
this is exactly why Ive havent this charli
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...846&highlight=




she sends pics.videos, but I can't find her cept on tryst and she says shes very busy, wont do outcall, so I'm patiently waiting for someone to take the plunge




oh and her screening is a pic of your social media page, or p411 or ID from some site, like this one or drivers license.

[yourdesire]

Elum sometimes The Gents get so worried about their info being given (understandably) but none the less they forget how much information they actually do already have on us. I appreciate when people see things on both sides

[DallasRain]

Alot of us gals who ask for the pertinent info are the reliable reputable ones!
I have been around a long time..lol..and in all my time here have NEVER outed or disclosed info that was given to me!
It all comes down to trusting your provider!

[timmystool]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Alot of us gals who ask for the pertinent info are the reliable reputable ones!
I have been around a long time..lol..and in all my time here have NEVER outed or disclosed info that was given to me!
It all comes down to trusting your provider!

we need to clone you!

[Lil Oral Annie]

It's the ones who don't ask for anything that you gotta be more worried about.

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by Lil Oral Annie

It's the ones who don't ask for anything that you gotta be more worried about.

Agree...but guys will still take the risk and take it again and again, get complacent and bitch and whine they get busted or outed.