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Originally Posted by Iiris
I tried BDD last night and was left alone for most of the night. The only ladies who ever said anything to me were the waitresses.
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If you managed to spend an hour or more in BDD on a Friday night and not get approached by any dancers, then something is definitely wrong. You have to be sending the wrong signal somehow to not have anybody approach you. Just watch out for the ones where the first words out of her mouth is "do you want a dance". I always let those go by.
It does help if you tip the girls on stage. If you see someone you like, walk up to the stage with $1 or $2 and exchange a few sentences with her while you're there. Make sure you're not hiding at a table in the back corner where no one will notice you. Instead, pick a table that's in the main traffic flow. Also, you might get up and walk around once in a while to survey the scenery, walk up to the upstairs bar and see who's sitting there, and so on.
All that said, I'm inclined to agree with blackmaleindallas. If the amount of cover charge is important to you then this probably isn't going to work out for you. (That is, unless your goal is to have a drink and sit and look at the scenery all night. That works for some guys, but not many.) It is possible to be smart with your money at a Strip Club, but you do have to be willing to spend a reasonable amount on dances. More important than that, you don't want to look cheap or let the girls think that you have no money to spend. That will tag you as exactly the kind of customer they don't want to spend time on.