why u catching feelings when we agreed to just sex?

[HedonisticFool]

is fwb just a myth? i can’t seem to keep something steady without it becoming emotional. im up front that im married, (although unhappily and i refrain from disclosing that im on the brink of running out the door screaming) but then eventually that seems to be an excuse to formulate and become the subject of an argument...of which eventually leads to the common “i guess u would never leave her for me?”

what could i be doing wrong? i thought it was an age thing...but it’s not. two weeks with the most recent girl and she dropped this bomb on me today. i should’ve known what was about to happen when she told me last Friday that she had broke up with her long distance BF.

this is one good reason to stick to hobbying...

thanks for reading,

HF

[winn dixie]

Ahhh what? Calm down Beavis. Have some nachos..There's always other chicks to score with.......

[pickupkid]

they're are always the ones that want rescued or a sugardaddy. move on

[Jules Jaguar]

Are you seriously asking this on a hooker board? Lol

I think you answered your own question with that last sentence.

Good luck

[Nightshift83]

Just hit it once or twice and move on. Play the game just don’t play it to long !!

[HedonisticFool]

when the pussy is good, i’ll keep hittin’ it until either of us gets bored or she starts talking about a relationship. it’s then when i’ll try to get things straight or i bounce...

Originally Posted by Nightshift83

Just hit it once or twice and move on. Play the game just don’t play it to long !!

[jimmy jump]

Just tell her you’re her BF and cheat like a motherfucker.
If you’re not interested in a relationship, you shouldn’t give two fucks.
But fwb fuck buddy relationships can work if that’s what both want.

[SimplyEcstatic]

HF it sounds like you aren’t upfront about expectations and only seeking a fwb. Saying you are married while you are outright pursuing another woman doesn’t say fwb, it says you aren’t happy with your situation and are looking to change it. Your follow up post makes it appear you like to play games with women’s emotions. You aren’t man enough to be open with your wife or with ‘side’ chicks. You are just playing with other’s emotions for your own pleasure and are going to end up destroying and scarring your wife. Try fixing your home life before you go off creating chaos in other people’s home life.

[HedonisticFool]

ive had a sancha, and that’s difficult to maintain. like any GF, they want to date, spend the night, travel, meet the family, etc. basically, living two lives is a MOTHERFUCKER...

i often connect with college girls. they’re serious about school and don’t want the interference and distractions of a relationship, but still have needs that they want satisfied by an asshole like me. i am open about expectations and sometimes we both end up agreeing to fwb...and when it doesn’t, i move on. ive often thought it was an age thing, but it’s not. ive connected with divorcées that tell me up front, without asking, that they just want to be free and no strings attached. some stick to their guns while others fall back into old habits and forget that we had an understanding.

Originally Posted by jimmy jump

Just tell her you’re her BF and cheat like a motherfucker.
If you’re not interested in a relationship, you shouldn’t give two fucks.
But fwb fuck buddy relationships can work if that’s what both want.

[HedonisticFool]

i do set expectations...so plz don’t make assumptions. i am not happy with my marriage situation, but i am man enough to take care of my home affairs and be there for my kids. not disclosing to my wife, the nature of my sex addiction and my repetitive infidelity, has nothing to do with me not being man enough...it just shows how smart i am. obviously, that situation would stand to benefit NO ONE!

u may speculate all u want and ur entitled to ur opinion...thanks for ur post!

Originally Posted by SimplyEcstatic

HF it sounds like you aren’t upfront about expectations and only seeking a fwb. Saying you are married while you are outright pursuing another woman doesn’t say fwb, it says you aren’t happy with your situation and are looking to change it. Your follow up post makes it appear you like to play games with women’s emotions. You aren’t man enough to be open with your wife or with ‘side’ chicks. You are just playing with other’s emotions for your own pleasure and are going to end up destroying and scarring your wife. Try fixing your home life before you go off creating chaos in other people’s home life.