How did you get past the nerves?

[Jsmithnavarre]

Alright guys, got a question: Howdid you get past the nervousness of meeting your first provider? I talk myself into it and then my mind starts to go nuts and I talk myself out of it. Keep thinking I am going into a bust or scam. I have two ladies in mind, both I am sure are real, but still get nervous. (If this is the wrong place for this question, my apologies)

[Jjsunday]

I still get a lil nervous. When I met someone for the 1st time. I think there maybe something wrong if you don't. I know I like to roll the dice a lot and just see someone that don't have reviews and no one knows anything about. Some time its a good time and some times not.

If it's the 1st time I see some one I always keep the talk to a low key. I really watch what I say just incase it is a bust. Thank God I have never walk into one. But you know Better safe then sorry. I never bring up anything I want to happen during the visit. It only for time. Hell we both already know why I am there. So that way the only thing they got on me is asking about time.
But the best way to get over the nervousness is to get into a lady !

[hotrix1]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TSp2NjoXKpM

[VelvetValentineco]

Do your homework. Check to be sure the girl has solid reviews, maybe even on other sites beside Eccie. This isn't the only place, you know...Maybe make sure she also has a reputable website. Read her site, read her reviews. Sometimes screening might be a pain, but remember, if she is too quick to see you as a newbie, how safe is she? That's just something to think about. Everyone sees it differently.
Avoid drama. Trust your gut. Be safe. Good luck!

[duraman]

Be careful and check reviews. See someone, write a review and enjoy the site for what it is.

[laloverboy]

Originally Posted by duraman

Be careful and check reviews. See someone, write a review and enjoy the site for what it is.

X2. This can be simple and enjoyable if everyone participated in reviews.

[hooperstatus]

Only go through with it if they have reviews. Not too many or to little though. That’s what has kept me safe. Also pay attention to what pictures they have in there ads. There are many fake pics floating around that LE uses. Also for me if they have a hotel as an incall it’s a red flag for me. This is not the case all the time but mostly

[Easy Does It]

Good advice here. Research, research, research. Once you have chosen an established provider with a good reputation, I think it's probably best to let her know up-front that it is your first time. A good provider can help your first experience go smoothly if she knows.

There are several ladies here on the Panhandle board that would make excellent first choices for a newbie.

I still remember my first hobby experience. It was at a "massage parlor" in Lexington KY almost 30 years ago, not an AMP, but a similar setup with caucasian and hispanic ladies rather than asians. No internet to use for research back then. I actually walked in the door and walked right back out 3 times over the span of about a week before I worked up the nerve to stay. A lovely hispanic gal of about 20 years took me by the hand and before very long all my nervousness was gone.

That's not to say that I don't still get nervous. I still do just about every time I meet a provider for the first time. I think it's part of the thrill.

[bc1969]

Being nervous is part of it and once you start to control that feeling it is a one of a kind rush, you may even begin to crave that feeling and become a ho yourself. Developing feelings happens easily also and it becomes very real, the girl will not be able to help you thru that process, they don’t get it, private mail some one here and talk it out with them, (if that happens)