This hobby has corrupted my pink little mind, and I like it!

[NolaScofflaw]

I feel like my views towards women have changed a lot since I got into the hobby nine months ago. I used to think I wanted to fall in love and get into a serious relationship with somebody someday. Never get married or have kids because that's stupid and I don't want to risk getting divorce raped, but the rest of it sounded fun. Spending all this time around women in a sexual context has really made me lose my interest in all that. Specifically noticing how differently they'll treat you when they know you have a little money. I've had some convincingly-presented bullshit whispered into my ear by some of these women. At first I would take time to process it to try to figure out if it was genuine or if they were just trying to play me. Now I realize you can never really know and you should always assume they're trying to play you. I've applied this mindset to all women. You can never really know and it doesn't matter because it doesn't have to be real. Most women are hookers and aren't honest with themselves about that. There's no way to know for sure what their intent is when they start whispering sweet nothings, so just assume it's malicious and see a hooker. It's not the Disney fairy tale you may want, but it's a lot better than nothing and your heart and finances aren't in jeopardy. I know this all sounds negative, but I really feel like it's directing me towards a better path. I would imagine many other hobbyists and providers have experienced something similar.

[Guest041324]

Its all pretty casual.

[trainwreck+]

“Malicious”? Follow you most of the way, but don’t get what you mean by “malicious”? Insincere?

[Melissa Madyson]

OK, let me intervene and say something...This is my "job",what I do every day, day in and day out to make my living. I do Massages. and I treat it as a "Business" and not just a fast way to make cash. My "Job" is not always easy.

Today for example, I had a guy that contacted me @ 12:35 pm. for an appointment. He ended up not showing up till 2:39 pm.

I could have taken an Eccie member in the mean time, but I didn't because I had already committed myself to this guy.
(I don't double book)

He treated me like I was not 1st class.(BY BEING 2 HOURS LATE)and said I am sorry something came up.So I said if you knew you had other obligations then why book now for a certain time and be late?)SMH But the other provider he saw, said he was on time for session.

I asked him why I was supposed to be any different than her?? Why should I accept you trying to be 2 hours late??
He kept saying he was sorry and that he was coming. He FINALLY arrived, and turned out to be a decent nice guy, but all the "TIME" he wasted in the meantime was very unacceptable to me.

Guys complain all the time that we ladies are late to appt's. and we ladies don't treat you gentlemen in a 1st class manner, and then we ladies rush through appointments, ect.

But just flip the script, there are ladies like myself and others who provide 1st class entertainment, go out of our way to have a nice and comfortable place for you to relax in and feel safe, treat you special, and are not time rushers.

But yet in still we always get lumped with the other ladies who are just bad service providers and time rushers.

I literally had to stay on the phone the last 15 minutes with this guy to direct him to my home. That was frustration to me, and put a strain on the session.
But I still showed him a 1st class time, and did him right, even though he was 2 hours late for his meeting.

So when you guys are "Venting" about ladies, please don't lump us all in the same category, just call out the bad provider(s) by names, and then it won't cast a bad light on all of us.!!

MY RANT IS OVER!!


ma·li·cious
məˈliSHəs/
adjective
characterized by malice; intending or intended to do harm.
"malicious destruction of property"
synonyms: spiteful, malevolent, evil-intentioned, vindictive, vengeful, malign, mean, nasty, hurtful, mischievous, wounding, cruel, unkind; More

Now who was MALICIOUS??

M.M.

[Guest123018]

Originally Posted by NolaScofflaw

Most women are RUNNING THEIR BUSINESS AS SHE SEE'S FIT!

True

Originally Posted by NolaScofflaw

There's no way to know for sure what their intent is when they start whispering sweet nothings

I always deliver the 'for sure' truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Here's a script. Lol

Originally Posted by NolaScofflaw

malicious

Malicious ??
Here's my definition of malicious:
When a client shows up with dick cheese there's nothing in the world more malicious.

Who made you sign up and register here to put up with this malicious abuse?

[Lia88]

I'm trying to understand if your not paying her and she's a regular chick.

What is she gaining besides your attention???

My thing has always been. If I pay a compliment it's just that. A compliment. If I have nothing to say then nothing is said. If I do say something as Far as a compliment. It's pretty genuine.


I never whisper "Sweet nothings" I might whisper dirty words. Not Sweet nothings.

Just try to stay out your feelings and you'll be alright. It ain't all bad as your making it I'm sure

[NolaScofflaw]

Originally Posted by trainwreck+

“Malicious”? Follow you most of the way, but don’t get what you mean by “malicious”? Insincere?

Most of the girls I've seen get into character, but don't go beyond that. Some of them try to turn you into a boyfriend. Mostly sugar babies. I think some of them don't understand what's motivating them, but I would imagine many of them do. Some probably really think they're interested in you, but it's probably usually they're trying to gain access to more of your money.

Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

please don't lump us all in the same category

I didn't mean to, I just meant to suggest that you can't ever really know what's motivating another person when they know you have something they want. Men aren't any better, they're just typically after sex instead of money.

Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

Now who was MALICIOUS??

I can't say I know. It's difficult to figure out for sure when the girl is self-aware enough for it to be malice.

[Melissa Madyson]

Okay as long as you know that not all ladies are the same. I know a lot of ladies are just after a Man's Pocket, and while that may be true in most cases there are some of us that actually don't mind earning what we are given.

M.M.

[SoSexyMsT]

I can have a client and also like them. It's not mutually exclusive.

[NolaScofflaw]

Originally Posted by SoSexyMsT

I can have a client and also like them. It's not mutually exclusive.

Of course, but my point is you can't know when that's the case. Often times, especially when they know you have something they want, when a person professes to feel a connection, women will be motivated by money and men will be motivated by sex. What complicates things even further is many of these people are unaware of the fact that this is what's motivating them.

[Warptcuck]

I usually feel a connection, until I shoot off.
Then it all goes away.

[jillyclaire]

Give and take. It’s not that complicated. Men want something and women want something. Assumptions are pointless because every individual is motivated by something differently

I actually chose this profession because I love sex. I figured I could make it work. Come see me honey. If you walk in and bring your A - Game I’ll be genuinely happy to give you what you want. Women need to be inspired. Get it?

[Tumbling Tad]

But you're not going to give it away for free....nor should you. It's a market where buyers and sellers come together. That doesn't mean common courtesy should not apply.