When you're really not that interested

[ash1102]

what do I can't fake enjoying being with someone? Do I end the session? We all know that if one party is not interested the other party is going to feel that. So what's the point in continuing? But what if the other party went out of their way to come see you or you draw that way out of your way to go see the other party? Then what? Bugs me. I don't like to be with someone that I don't want to be with. For what? Money? A reputation? Really?

I feel like you hobbyist don't have to feel that same Feeling but really you do. So why do we allow ourselves to do that? I mean do you really at the end of the night feel good about f****** someone you really didn't want to be with? Does it feel good? Seriously? Because to me... I feel like s h i t! And honestly I don't know why. Is it because it was instilled in me that sex is sacred? that we're supposed to keep our body like a temple? I don't know just food for thought

[TryWeakly]

A Freudian dilemna, for sure

[tiatate]

We all have our likes and dislikes. But I believe you should find something about your clients that you enjoy. That being their dick size or their IQ level, they didn't make it this far (past screening and into my incall) for their not to be something I don't like and can concentrate on.

Sex is sacred to an extent. But if it really were that sacred, most of the world wouldn't have sex organs would they?

If you feel so turned off because you have to fuck a guy you are not physically attracted too, you are prob in the wrong profession.

[Back2HoustonHobby]

That's how all ladies feel when they see wolfrapepxmcccwhistle walk in

[shinepro]

Originally Posted by ash1102

what do I can't fake enjoying being with someone? Do I end the session? We all know that if one party is not interested the other party is going to feel that. So what's the point in continuing? But what if the other party went out of their way to come see you or you draw that way out of your way to go see the other party? Then what? Bugs me. I don't like to be with someone that I don't want to be with. For what? Money? A reputation? Really?

I feel like you hobbyist don't have to feel that same Feeling but really you do. So why do we allow ourselves to do that? I mean do you really at the end of the night feel good about f****** someone you really didn't want to be with? Does it feel good? Seriously? Because to me... I feel like s h i t! And honestly I don't know why. Is it because it was instilled in me that sex is sacred? that we're supposed to keep our body like a temple? I don't know just food for thought

This shit is beyond comical. I don't have the patience to type a response to this shit. I will once the henno kicks in but now I will not. I'll just say wow and leave it at that.

[Alyssa71]

I agree. " Body is a temple." or " sex is sacred". You're in the wrong profession. Am I on Christian mingle? Maybe I'm lost....

[Alyssa71]

Originally Posted by tiatate

We all have our likes and dislikes. But I believe you should find something about your clients that you enjoy. That being their dick size or their IQ level, they didn't make it this far (past screening and into my incall) for their not to be something I don't like and can concentrate on.

Sex is sacred to an extent. But if it really were that sacred, most of the world wouldn't have sex organs would they?

If you feel so turned off because you have to fuck a guy you are not physically attracted too, you are prob in the wrong profession.

this+1

[Brooke Wilde]

Originally Posted by shinepro

This shit is beyond comical. I don't have the patience to type a response to this shit. I will once the henno kicks in but now I will not. I'll just say wow and leave it at that.

I totally agree. The OP's post was pure dumb on so many levels. Basically openly admitting how gross she finds this job and how awful she feels about herself for doing the things she does for $$$. It's like hearing a nurse at a hospice talk about how much she hates sick or old people. Just odd.

Originally Posted by Alyssa71

I agree. " Body is a temple." or " sex is sacred". You're in the wrong profession. Am I on Christian mingle? Maybe I'm lost....

Yep. The only thing required by the men here is that they are clean, respectful and only stay for, the time they pay for.

I can honestly tell you that I have had some clients that just pure turn me off in ways that I would never say out loud ... I would never sleep with them for free ... however ... those are the clients I actually enjoy the most.

The ones that sadly got the low end of the genetic gene pool and never receive a woman's warmth or attention, those are the ones that hold a place in my heart. To see their smile and hear how much I have made a difference in their life. To see them leave my place with their head up high and have a renewed zest & energy for life, it touches my heart.

[Tobor the 8th Man]

"The ones that sadly got the low end of the genetic gene pool and never receive a woman's warmth or attention, those are the ones that hold a place in my heart. To see their smile and hear how much I have made a difference in their life. To see them leave my place with their head up high and have a renewed zest & energy for life, it touches my heart."

Wow.

[ash1102]

Lol its just what I was brought up to think. Something instilled into my childhood I went to a private school I had those little school girl outfit except it wasn't very little it's actually kind of long. So what? I enjoy seeing most of my clients but tonight I saw someone who I really really did not like he wasn't gross but I was completely turned off now I'm usually turned on by almost everything I like to f*** I'm good at it and I love to give head even more what I'm saying is when you really don't want to do it is there really right go through the whole session when the feeling isn't present between the two? I don't like stealing people's money. I like to work hard for what I get and I like for my clients to be satisfied whenever they're walking out my door I feel bad if they're not or if I feel that they're not. Sorry I guess that's just my customer service talking.

And this wasn't for jokes it's serious. It's rare that I find someone who I don't want to please. Really I just wanted to tell this dude to get the f*** up out my room. I don't want to be rude though. If you know me you know that I don't want to be rude if you don't know me I don't know what to tell you.

[TryWeakly]

Tell me more about this school outfit ....

[ash1102]

Originally Posted by Tobor the 8th Man

"The ones that sadly got the low end of the genetic gene pool and never receive a woman's warmth or attention, those are the ones that hold a place in my heart. To see their smile and hear how much I have made a difference in their life. To see them leave my place with their head up high and have a renewed zest & energy for life, it touches my heart."

Wow.

That's exactly how I feel. I enjoy that feeling that's more pleasurable to me then anything sexual really. Because I know I did my job right I'm a hard worker and if it's not done right I'm the type that needs to make it right. I'd rather get an A+ then A-
Sure as hell would hate to get an F I don't know I hate that the one thing that I posted trying to be part of the community is shamed and frowned upon or laughed at thanks guys maybe I should start posting more often

[ash1102]

Originally Posted by tiatate

We all have our likes and dislikes. But I believe you should find something about your clients that you enjoy. That being their dick size or their IQ level, they didn't make it this far (past screening and into my incall) for their not to be something I don't like and can concentrate on.

Sex is sacred to an extent. But if it really were that sacred, most of the world wouldn't have sex organs would they?

If you feel so turned off because you have to fuck a guy you are not physically attracted too, you are prob in the wrong profession.

Its not about physical attraction from the moment this client walked in my room I just had this feeling like there was no connection it was going to be a horrible time like why did he want to fuck? I just felt bad vibes the entire time. Usually I don't feel that way when someone comes in my room. Usually their smiles laughing conversation this just felt upsetting and stomach-turning I posted about it because I felt it before but not as strongly like I wanted opinions. I figured you know somebody out there is going to feel the way I feel. I guess not? Pardon me I was trying to do the whole Community thing

[ash1102]

Originally Posted by TryWeakly

Tell me more about this school outfit ....

I was hoping someone would catch on maybe I could show you. I have a new one

[ash1102]

Originally Posted by Brooke Wilde

I totally agree. The OP's post was pure dumb on so many levels. Basically openly admitting how gross she finds this job and how awful she feels about herself for doing the things she does for $$$. It's like hearing a nurse at a hospice talk about how much she hates sick or old people. Just odd.



Yep. The only thing required by the men here is that they are clean, respectful and only stay for, the time they pay for.

I can honestly tell you that I have had some clients that just pure turn me off in ways that I would never say out loud ... I would never sleep with them for free ... however ... those are the clients I actually enjoy the most.

The ones that sadly got the low end of the genetic gene pool and never receive a woman's warmth or attention, those are the ones that hold a place in my heart. To see their smile and hear how much I have made a difference in their life. To see them leave my place with their head up high and have a renewed zest & energy for life, it touches my heart.

I don't feel gross about my job I feel gross and horrible about seeing someone that didn't want to see me that they didn't say anything but I could feel it the way they acted how do you said things and moved. I strongly care about my clients opinions. They make up what I do every single day. Most of my clients like I said i enjoy fucking but not when the other party isn't feeling it. Ugh I don't like that.