Why Screening Is Important For Both Clients & Providers

[Kat VonDee]

The hobby can be a pretty scary place for both the ladies & the gents. It's much more complex than just looking through showcases,
messaging a lady you find appealing & setting an appointment. You have to go through a screening process with a majority of ladies. When going through a screening process, you have to give her or her booking agent your name, phone number, email & whatever else information is required to book with her. Sometimes you think this information is going into good hands & you have absolutely nothing to worry about. She's screened you thoroughly,
probably did more digging on you than what you've realized.
But you on the other hand, the most you've done as far as researching the lady you're about to see is read her reviews, look at a couple of her ads & looked at her pictures. You have absolutely NO IDEA who she really is.
Granted, yes, the hobby is built around a fantasy; an illusion of passion. Even the meanest & most nastiest of us providers can come off to be the sweetest most sincere ladies bcd. But an illusion is always just a mask, eventually that mask comes off & you see someone's true colors & what they're really capable of doing once you're either not benefiting them the same way, they become jealous or simply because they're tired of being nice.
The question is... how do you detect a conniving provider? I always encourage gents to look through a lady's posts on any forum she uses for advertising. Pay attention to how she speaks to not only other providers,
but to clients as well. Social media is also a VERY powerful tool. I'm not saying go try to hunt a lady's real world information down, NEVER cross the lines of privacy & discretion especially if you don't want someone to do that to you. But many providers do have Twitter, Instagram, Facebook etc. & that is usually their "comfort zone" to let their true colors shine.

PROVIDERS
I cannot emphasize this enough. I tell every lady I speak to & every lady just getting into this hobby, THIS IS A DOG EAT DOG BUSINESS!!! I've been lucky to come across 3 providers who genuinely like me & I can honestly say will never screw me over, but I've also come across ladies who their only motive to being my "friend" was to find a way to destroy my reputation & "take my clients" (like there isn't enough business to go around, lol). Be cautious who you let your guards down to. I know this is a lonely place sometimes, & sometimes you want an escort friend, but not everyone has your best interests in mind or give a single shit about what you have to lose in life.

I just encourage everyone to be more careful when it comes to their hobbying, business & whom they choose to associate with. DO YOUR SCREENING. Not everything that glitters is gold!!!!


xoxo,
KVD

[J.blue]

messaging a lady you find appealing & setting an appointment. You have to go through a screening process with a majority of ladies. When going through a screening process, you have to give her or her booking agent your name, phone number, email & whatever else information is required to book with her. Sometimes you think this information is going into good hands & you have absolutely nothing to worry about. She's screened you thoroughly,
probably did more digging on you than what you've realized.

But sometimes I worry that this information isn't going into good hands. How can that be it be felt with?

[Nikkilove91]

If you are worried about ur info going into the wrong hands...you are seeing the wrong ladies..

[Kat VonDee]

+1 Nikkilove91. J.Blue, you need to do your research on a lady to decipher that.

[DallasRain]

I like you Miss Kat!

I am very reference friendly & very pro-screening!
{screening is more than just for safety,but also helps with comfort level during playtime............if you are secure with who you are seeing/doing,then you both will have a most comfortable connecxtion leading to an epic playtime}

[chad1966]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

....screening is more than just for safety, but also helps with comfort level during playtime.....

It may have taken a knock or two for this happy hobbyist to learn the truth in this and the importance of understanding a bit about the person on the other side of the dollar bill..

The next time you, Miss Dallas, and Kat are in town at the same time I sure would like to get the three of us in a room together!

[DallasRain]

Chad. You are a providers dream client...a big dawg here with many many reviews

[darkmoonmaster]

I hate giving out my personal information only to seek a provider for an hour, ive already have more than 100+ posts and i barely review providers.

[Ishootblanks]

Originally Posted by darkmoonmaster

I hate giving out my personal information only to seek a provider for an hour, ive already have more than 100+ posts and i barely review providers.

Agreed...

[Mufflerbearings]

As a sombody that is not a "regular", I've found it difficult because I'm always a newbie because I will go 4-8 months between a visit. Previously I was on P411 and even with that membership, I was being rejected because my okays were older. Screening is super important and I totally understand that for the benefit of both parties.

[Kat VonDee]

Originally Posted by Mufflerbearings

As a sombody that is not a "regular", I've found it difficult because I'm always a newbie because I will go 4-8 months between a visit. Previously I was on P411 and even with that membership, I was being rejected because my okays were older. Screening is super important and I totally understand that for the benefit of both parties.

I will take a gentleman's reference as long as it's anywhere from 3-6 months & if it's from a reputable provider (not a BP only lady). I think maybe if you've visited a certain lady more than a couple of times but had a time span between your visit with her, that should qualify for a reference for some ladies.

As far as giving "all" of your info to a lady for screening, that isn't necessary. A majority of us just want your first name that you use in this hobby, the title of your occupation (not actually where you work) & your hobby email & phone number to confirm you. I personally do not go off of just someone's posts or amount of reviews for several reasons. That doesn't tell me what kind of client you are & your account could've easily been taken over by someone else. Safety is very important to me.

[Mufflerbearings]

Originally Posted by Kat VonDee

I will take a gentleman's reference as long as it's anywhere from 3-6 months & if it's from a reputable provider (not a BP only lady). I think maybe if you've visited a certain lady more than a couple of times but had a time span between your visit with her, that should qualify for a reference for some ladies.

As far as giving "all" of your info to a lady for screening, that isn't necessary. A majority of us just want your first name that you use in this hobby, the title of your occupation (not actually where you work) & your hobby email & phone number to confirm you. I personally do not go off of just someone's posts or amount of reviews for several reasons. That doesn't tell me what kind of client you are & your account could've easily been taken over by someone else. Safety is very important to me.

I think a lot of it has to do with the provider's level of "professionalism" in how they handle their business as well. KVD clearly on top of her game.

[LondonNicole]

Thanks for this. I am new to this. So I am still learning it all.

[southeasternvixen]

A great word of advice for both men and women!