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[honeydavis]

So I recently had a few encounters with a civilian who likes to play the role of a dom...and I have to say the idea of playing a sub is starting to grow on me. Thinking I might like to explore that realm a little more...Is there such a thing as sub/dom roles in the hobby?

[Zena]

Honey ~ there are opportunities for Dom sub play in the hobby. Please please be EXTRA CAREFUL to screen more carefully when letting a man Dom you, in the hobby. Im telling myself this again ,also. You can also try being a Switch in the Hobby.... Some men love
LOVE YOU TO DOM THEM! Lol!
When you are the Dom or Domme in the Hobby, it is typically safer or possibly safer because you are in control of the power, restraints, equipment, etc. Be very careful with screening and references before you LET A STRANGER DOM YOU.
Kissable Melissa knows a few things also, about being a Submissive in the hobby. You could pm her.
Good luck Sweetie !

[Zena]

Also... Do research, research,
And more research. Learn all you can before playing with a true Dom.
Also- safe words: yellow, red,
Pm me. I can explain! Thank you
Honey! Good luck!

[mrredcat43]

The safety word is "Banana"

[Lena Duvall]

There are several things I look out for when determining if I should open myself up to submitting during a session. I'm stringent when it comes to screening for a GFE date, but when it comes to a D/s dynamic there are even more nuanced tells I'm looking out for.

A misconception I've come across countless times is that if a provider is sexually submissive and offers those services, she must be weak or a pushover. Whenever I've sidestepped boundary pushing clients and instead cultivated connections with those who seek to dominate me in ways that are respectful and consensual, I've gained a breadth of enriching experiences.

[Tobor the 8th Man]

Originally Posted by mrredcat43

The safety word is "Banana"

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[DallasRain]

sub/dom roles are built...on respect,connection,comfortabil ity & trust...so find someone who you have those with in the hobby
and have fun!