haha, backpage...Women for Men

[mrtenn15]

so they shut down the escort section, which providers had to pay for, now the women for men section is overflowing, before there wasnt shit there. So basically they can still put there ads up, just for free now. I have noticed no one is posting rates. Has anyone made appointments since it has changed? just curious if overall since im sure business is down, theyre rates have changed. I hate to sound like a cheap skate, i just cant afford it right now. My first time she had posted $60, I think i gave her $125 bc she was really nice and made me feel comfortable, and provided incredible service. I saw her 2 other times then her phone was off. Anyway again not trying to sound cheap for take advantage or whatever, just curious. Im only into bbbj so those three appointments were very short. well i just thought it was funny how the government spent all the time and money and hastled so many ppl, just to have them being able to post there ads, and do it for free. Hope things are going ok for anyone who has relied on BP to get by.

[CiaraAodhan]

Providers have been posting on BP in the adult section for free for years. Ever since the credit card companies refused to process charges relating to adult ads, BP went free in protest. So nothing has changed, just the section they are posting in. I personally don't do the whole unprotection thing, that's just encouraging all sorts of nasty things clorox won't remove and oral spreads just as bad of things too. I do know some providers offer it and I'm sure by posting here they will find you for an apt. As far as money goes, I'm turning more away than ever. Several BP clients are used to those "50/60 dollar specials and I just don't offer that, but they just keep calling so the money is out there for the taking. I can't tell that it's hurt business. It will make it more difficult for LEO to sting and raid which is always a plus as far as I'm concerned.

[Danielle Reid]

Umm, IDK about this "free" posting bullshit. My ads cost anywhere from $2-$12 depending on where I was in the country. The highest for Little Rock was $5 an ad.

Now that I post in W4M my ads cost $1. Way better than $5

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

Umm, IDK about this "free" posting bullshit. My ads cost anywhere from $2-$12 depending on where I was in the country. The highest for Little Rock was $5 an ad.

Now that I post in W4M my ads cost $1. Way better than $5

They let you post a new ad on the initial run for free. But it doesn't show up in the main listings. I think it shows up under the date tab? Most people don't look under that tab, so it's useless.

I love the new dollar deal in the dating section. And you can put your rates in there... if you get creative.

[Hot Summer]

Definitely not free but we do have to be careful on wording or they won't post your ad .... Rates are the same for all the ladies I know hun , plenty of places to post ads

[BabyDallass]

lol I'm sure he felt so smart when he found this out....smh

[mrtenn15]

I was just commenting on how i thought it was stupid to shut down the actual escort section, bc now all the ads are in dating/w4m. I didnt realize it cost to post under dating. I figured it was like craigslist w4m section, i dont even bother with craigslist anymore, not sure exactly when craigslist turned to shit, but i got 2 pretty decent IT jobs, bought and sold all kinds of stuff, and got laid twice from the dating section, anyways..Not sure what you meant Baby Dallas, i usually just kinda lurk around eccie and rarely post, just trying to be more active so i figured id start posting some. I have bad social anxiety, even to the point of not interacting online, so oh well.

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by mrtenn15

I was just commenting on how i thought it was stupid to shut down the actual escort section, bc now all the ads are in dating/w4m. I didnt realize it cost to post under dating. I figured it was like craigslist w4m section, i dont even bother with craigslist anymore, not sure exactly when craigslist turned to shit, but i got 2 pretty decent IT jobs, bought and sold all kinds of stuff, and got laid twice from the dating section, anyways..Not sure what you meant Baby Dallas, i usually just kinda lurk around eccie and rarely post, just trying to be more active so i figured id start posting some. I have bad social anxiety, even to the point of not interacting online, so oh well.

Then why are you here?

[Vannah]

Originally Posted by mrtenn15

I was just commenting on how i thought it was stupid to shut down the actual escort section, bc now all the ads are in dating/w4m. I didnt realize it cost to post under dating. I figured it was like craigslist w4m section, i dont even bother with craigslist anymore, not sure exactly when craigslist turned to shit, but i got 2 pretty decent IT jobs, bought and sold all kinds of stuff, and got laid twice from the dating section, anyways..Not sure what you meant Baby Dallas, i usually just kinda lurk around eccie and rarely post, just trying to be more active so i figured id start posting some. I have bad social anxiety, even to the point of not interacting online, so oh well.

Let me just say that as a fellow member of this board with severe social anxiety, I too know how stressful it can be to even post online. The fact that the internet is full of trolls ready to rip apart any shred of self confidence you have doesn't make it any easier. Hell, I was a member for over a year before I finally got the lady balls to post my welcome thread. I'm so glad that you're here and I look forward to seeing more posts from you!

But yes, they should realize that just because they shut down the adult section, ladies will still find a way to advertise there.

[BK]

First rule of posting : look for a thread that discusses what you wish to discuss before starting a new thread. Not like there already weren't at least 2-6 backpage threads about posting in W4M... now we have a 3rd 4th, or 6th one to read.

[Hogfan69]

Thank you Vannah for continually being a class act on here.

OP, don't listen to the ones complaining here. They will do it no matter what unless you're directly blowing smoke up their asses

[Guest110920]

Originally Posted by Vannah

Let me just say that as a fellow member of this board with severe social anxiety, I too know how stressful it can be to even post online. The fact that the internet is full of trolls ready to rip apart any shred of self confidence you have doesn't make it any easier. Hell, I was a member for over a year before I finally got the lady balls to post my welcome thread. I'm so glad that you're here and I look forward to seeing more posts from you!

Well said as always, Vannah! Also glad to see you post - there's been too little Sexy Cat Lady around here lately!

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by BK

First rule of posting : look for a thread that discusses what you wish to discuss before starting a new thread. Not like there already weren't at least 2-6 backpage threads about posting in W4M... now we have a 3rd 4th, or 6th one to read.

Everyone wants to shine

[mrtenn15]

thanks vannah for sharing similar experiences w anxiety, Dorothy i think you might need to take a break, over 12 thousand posts in few years. your probably seriously jaded. The providers i see who post a lot and have been doing this a while and seem like they are always positive and upbeat and dont just post once sentence shots at ppl. Sorry for the repeat thread, ill use the search function more often. A lot of times i cant find what im looking for or get no results w search, or if its a common phrase just dont have time to wade through 100 threads.

Thread can be deleted i just noticed that on backpage and posted a comment, understand duplicate threads bog the site down w useless stuff, if i can delete it i will or mods are welcome to.

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by mrtenn15

thanks vannah for sharing similar experiences w anxiety, Dorothy i think you might need to take a break, over 12 thousand posts in few years. your probably seriously jaded. The providers i see who post a lot and have been doing this a while and seem like they are always positive and upbeat and dont just post once sentence shots at ppl. Sorry for the repeat thread, ill use the search function more often. A lot of times i cant find what im looking for or get no results w search, or if its a common phrase just dont have time to wade through 100 threads.

You have no idea who Dorthy (not Dorothy) is. She's an until you piss her off lol.

Don't take it to heart. I have social anxiety but I lose it on the internet...unless there's a fear of rejection like submitting a piece of writing to an agent and being told that I suck, my writing sucks, and I should go back to sucking...

ANYWAY, breathe and relax. The internet isn't real. The people disappear when you turn off your electronic device.