Relationships

[mongostryker]

So I'm relatively new to the hobby.. been lurking for a few years and only had a few interactions with local women. That being said, everyone I've met or chatted with on this site has been awesome.. Was just curious if anyone has ever developed an actual relationship with a provider.. or vice versa? I know that's probably very rare to transcend that type of relationship, but I was just curious.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by mongostryker

So I'm relatively new to the hobby.. been lurking for a few years and only had a few interactions with local women. That being said, everyone I've met or chatted with on this site has been awesome.. Was just curious if anyone has ever developed an actual relationship with a provider.. or vice versa? I know that's probably very rare to transcend that type of relationship, but I was just curious.

The whole point of the hobby is to keep a relationship away from the hobby.

When you want a relationship with someone, one has to take the time and effort to help develop a relationship. That is the difficult part that too many people don't take the time to do.

JR

[mongostryker]

Yeah that's why I'm here.. I was just curious though..

[DallasRain]

You can't shake a "whore tree" and expect a wife/best friend/girlfriend to fall out!
{be careful when crossing that line....From what i heard,it has been done successfully in some cases}

[Enchanterlingum]

It surely has happened, but is a terrible idea.

See how it works out in "Casino."

[zeejoe]

The flip side of "Karma is a Bitch" is- sometimes Karma can fuck your brains out, too.

Over time, it is certainly possible and quite nice to develop relationships within the hobby. Outside of it.... not so much.

Advice for a newbie- make wise decisions about who you see in the first place, be cool, respectful, generous and consistent about how you conduct yourself, and you will be very pleased with what the upside is on the whole "your mileage may vary" part of the escort equation with some gals.

[i'va biggen]

Always wanted someone with a hooker attitude, got tired of all those headaches, or just too tired. I really liked to fuck a lot.

[mongostryker]

That's for damn sure.. lol..

I have been easing my foot into the pool, so to speak.. I'm really hoping to develop a relationship in the hobby with 1 or 2 providers to see on a regular basis.. But being in JOCO, it seems hard to find.. But just like dating, it takes time.. lol

[DallasRain]

Ok let me add a statement to my earlier post....I was raised by a southern Baptist Momma so I was taught to "love everybody"...So when i grew up and life handed me "lemons",I learned that trust and love is special and has to be earned & treasured.......Now,I HAVE become "close" friends with quite a few of my clients,but I am very selective of who I trust in this hobby.....I have known most of these gents a few years or more...one of them I have known ten years and he has even made a wood rocking horse for my grandman!


just be careful who you trust and how much you trust!

[mongostryker]

Jesus.. I can only imagine the amount of time and effort it takes to gain the trust of a provider.. That's why I usually bend over backwards when they ask something of me..

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Ok let me add a statement to my earlier post....I HAVE become "close" friends with some of my clients,but I am very selective of who I trust in this hobby.

[satan666]

Originally Posted by mongostryker

Jesus.. I can only imagine the amount of time and effort it takes to gain the trust of a provider.. That's why I usually bend over backwards when they ask something of me..

in some cases that is fine but look out because there are some in the pool that are out to take advantage. they do it as long as they can get away with it. hell I learned early on never again and that young lady still tries to get me to see her for dates or loan her money, doesn't matter how many times I tell her she has back rent. she gets pissy and then a few months later acts as everything is kosher. just watch out young blood be selective and be safe.

if you want a good word of advice never loan or pay money up front for future promises. it will always end in disaster these gals that try this approach usually have a substance problem!

[mongostryker]

Originally Posted by satan666

in some cases that is fine but look out because there are some in the pool that are out to take advantage. they do it as long as they can get away with it. hell I learned early on never again and that young lady still tries to get me to see her for dates or loan her money, doesn't matter how many times I tell her she has back rent. she gets pissy and then a few months later acts as everything is kosher. just watch out young blood be selective and be safe.

if you want a good word of advice never loan or pay money up front for future promises. it will always end in disaster these gals that try this approach usually have a substance problem!

Oh I definitely know better.. I may be young in the hobby, but not young in years lived.. I know women.. lol.. I just meant bending over backwards to give them enough info to check me out, or just being kind and respectful in general..

But thanks for the look out, I appreciate it.

[Savannah Moon]

just be careful who you trust and how much you trust![/QUOTE]
Ms RAIN..
Couldn't have said it better
I got burnt recently by folks I trusted and I feel like the lesson was priceless because I knew better... Sometimes we get lonely and we put our logic to the side

[malwoody]

I've had numerous relationships in this endeavor...

Most were 1-2 hours...

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by malwoody

I've had numerous relationships in this endeavor...

Most were 1-2 hours...

Slut puppy
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