Socials & Get Together’ s YES OR NO?

[Still Looking]

Socials & Get Together’ s YES OR NO?

[ck1942]

How about a "not sure?"

[Unique_Carpenter]

With trusted friends.
Off clock dinners, brunches, bar hopping, etc.

[Still Looking]

I hear ladies complain that they go and guys don't call them later. Interesting....

[ck1942]

No one should ever assume or presume anything immediate in the way of certainty regarding "dates."

Events are meet and greets only. But I sometimes feel like Noah of the Ark fame insofar as most attendees usually seem to arrive as solos but some might depart as pairs.

Believe it or not, many people go to mingle with others of the same gender.

In any case, mine for sure, it may often take several events worth of visiting with someone before trigger pressure load results in further one-to-one exploration.

Unless, as has happened several times over the years, the hair or hairless trigger got the cocked and loaded signal.

Or is that cock is loaded? ~ evil grin ~

[Still Looking]

327 Reviews and not one invite to a CK social. I'm seeing the wrong chicks LOL

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

I hear ladies complain that they go and guys don't call them later. Interesting....

Why is that interesting. It is a lot cheaper to get to know a person through normal social contact. Then, a guy can make up his mind if he is even interested in meeting again. A guy should always pay close attention to the ones who might be crazy so that he can be sure to avoid them in the future.

We can always be nice to each other; it doesn't mean that a guy has to be anything but nice when he walks away.

JR

[Guest081519]

Social gatherings bring out the drama in the crazy people. I remember one time after a social when I received several requests to guest or disable several profiles. I can only guess things may have gotten a little out of control.

I've been to a couple of social events and hobbiests really don't need to know what I look like. Especially the ones that get jealous of who is fucking their ATF.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Why is that interesting. It is a lot cheaper to get to know a person through normal social contact. Then, a guy can make up his mind if he is even interested in meeting again. A guy should always pay close attention to the ones who might be crazy so that he can be sure to avoid them in the future.

We can always be nice to each other; it doesn't mean that a guy has to be anything but nice when he walks away.

JR

You missed the point entirely! Ladies, Hot Ladies get invited to socials then get no results. So they stop going to these social events. The point of the socials for the ladies is to promote business. If that doesn't happen... can you blame them?

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

You missed the point entirely! Ladies, Hot Ladies get invited to socials then get no results. So they stop going to these social events. The point of the socials for the ladies is to promote business. If that doesn't happen... can you blame them?

Every community has a group of guys that really cannot afford to hobby or they lack the ability physically to hobby......

BUT... They need social interaction and it is not something they tend to get in their personal lives......

So they hang out in CoEd as well as go to Socials and waste professional ladie's time.....

They are the typical Usual Subjects.....

[Unique_Carpenter]

You guys are entirely missing CK1942's point.
Some folks, guys and gals, that trust each other, including the additional trust needed to hang out in a social environment, have no problems going off clock for civie social stuff.
Those whom may not have reached that additional level of trust from others simply don't get an invite. Which takes care of all the comnents that have been made.
Simon does present a valid issue. But that gets back to an error in trust (sloppy admin on that party).

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

You guys are entirely missing CK1942's point.
Some folks, guys and gals, that trust each other, including the additional trust needed to hang out in a social environment, have no problems going off clock for civie social stuff.
Those whom may not have reached that additional level of trust from others simply don't get an invite. Which takes care of all the comnents that have been made.
Simon does present a valid issue. But that gets back to an error in trust (sloppy admin on that party).

Point taken but sadly guys attending thing the ladies that show up are off the clock and interaction is FREE! Happened several times where guy meets gal, they leave and he pounds patch and thinks its free only to have the provider remind him she's a hooker. He gets pissed and NOW there is a problem. seems guys lose sight of the fact these ladies are being nice... yes but they want BUSINESS!

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

You missed the point entirely! Ladies, Hot Ladies get invited to socials then get no results. So they stop going to these social events. The point of the socials for the ladies is to promote business. If that doesn't happen... can you blame them?

Let me sharpen the comments up a little. Perhaps being so gentle with my statement made it difficult for you to understand.

Some ladies show up at a social, and the guys get to know them; so, they don't get any business. Yes they might as well stay home rather than shooting themselves in the foot.

The same thing happens here on this board: some ladies just have diarrhea of the mouth and pen. They chew out the mods, or they express a lot of anger and sociopathic tendencies for all to see.

Then they ask: why doesn't anyone want to see me?



Look at it this way; when this type of person doesn't come to the meeting (or quits constant posting on this board), there is hope that a better person will take their place.

By this point in our lives, we should all know how to work and play with others.

JR

[ck1942]

Some of the opinions above don't necessarily apply to ck1942 events.

For example, all gents invited to ck1942 events are vouched in by established providers based on sessions from within the past 90 days.

Only gents who play at least once a month or so are considered for invites. Gents are revouched on a regular basis.

Ladies are vouched in on similar protocol.

Events are an opportunity for any lady or any gent to meet prospective playmates and vice versa. That's all it is.

Ladies are never obligated to book with a gent merely because he is on my guest list. Nor are gents obligated, either, to play with any lady merely because she attends.

Fact of the matter is that I also organize and host infrequent events for only gents to attend, but same screening process above applies.

And, on occasion I have arranged ladies' only events, too.

[dumars]

Once I met a lady at her place and we went in my car to a local restaurant in exchange for some extra "quality time". On the way we conversed and I brought up my concern about her being recognized. She said she wasn't concerned, nobody knew what she was doing.

We got to the restaurant, ordered our meals, engaged in small talk. At some point I turned to look around and noticed people were turning around in their chairs to look at us. A fewer older guys exerted some effort to turn around. I felt like I was eating in a fish bowl. She was oblivious to everything.