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Originally Posted by Craash
I'm going to have a 3-4 day trip to Texas next week, I'd be open to some female company if you had interest in testing a new area.
The transport method willl be comfortable, I'll provide a room (simply to sleep) and we'll explore some fine places to eat, if you wish.
Drop me a line, if you have an interest. Yes, this is my first post, but I have a long term member and active member of this board who will vouch for me.
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If you truly have such a reference (vouch), it would appear to me personally that the member has done you absolutely no favor by ignoring what most would consider to be proper etiquette and introducing you to the community
prior to your making an overture such as that which you have detailed while claiming you have such a reference (as yet unnamed) . . . Regardless of who vouches for you, there will most likely always be some suspicion surrounding you as your announcing that you have a vouch (especially as you appear to omit their identity purposefully) rather than waiting and being vouched for by them seems very impolite to the both the board and the unnamed member and may lead many here to believe you may be somewhat impulsive, impatient and imprudent. In this endeavor, first impressions are acutely important.
If I may point out a few things, three to four days (including travel time) leaves little time to "test" a new market -
ESPECIALLY Texas . . . Texas is not one market, but in reality it is a collection of ten to twelve separate very, very large markets - perhaps more if one wanted to really divide and partition the area socioeconomically (based also on population and geography) . . . And, any tour of Texas to "test" response would require much more than a few days notice to properly advertise in advance - with the market as it is in Texas, a lady might desire to have ads and announcements running for a week or two in advance, probably more. Your offer of a room to sleep is kind, however, the lady will
require an incall location in Texas (or will she have access to transportation you will supply for her servicing outcall?). Your solicitation seems to prohibit her using her sleeping accommodation for incall by delineating that the accommodation is solely "simply to sleep". Additionally, if this were truly a working trip for a lady to accurately and definitively test a new market, there would be precious little time for socializing as most of her time would be spent taking care of business - and I'm not only referring to servicing actual bookings, but all of the work that goes along with touring successfully . . . taking and returning hundreds of phone calls, screening potential clients, text messaging, reading and returning emails and P411 screening requests, etc. - it is
very time consuming for a working lady, and, at the end of the day any professional worth her salt is going to be so tired that your offer of exploring some fine places to eat (and I am assuming for dinner), although quite kind an offer from a true gentleman, will be the absolute last thing on her mind. This is her business, after all, and you've opened yourself to experiencing a lady's working trip - you didn't ask for companionship limited only to yourself . . . On a working trip in such a manner as you detail, you'll see her on the trip down and back, and she'll be otherwise engaged, most likely (unless you too would like to book with her while she is working in Texas and wait on line for an opening in her schedule).
Of course, since your friend is active in this endeavor and no stranger to this board and the machinations herein, I am sure you considered all of this prior to posting, so I'm sure there must be something I am missing here - so I'll apologize in advance . . . unless, of course, you just want free or reduced price pussy under the guise that you provided the ride, room and some food and in return she had the
possible, albeit incredibly unlikely opportunity to make two or three appointments over the course of three to four days while experiencing a whirlwind tour of some little dusty corner of Texas . . . but since an active member's reputation (and, in many respects, your own) may be on the line here, I'm certain that would be the furthest from your true intent.
Oh, and I don't want to forget to mention that any lady would most likely have quite severe reservations as a passenger in any type of conveyance that was controlled by a person that uses a variant of the the word "crash" as a member ID.
But, I digress . . .. I was noting the date of your request (the 6th) and realizing the fact that your trip has most likely already taken place this past week, as such, I am very curious to know if you had any takers on your offer, and how things progressed for you both. If you did have the company you sought, maybe you might provide her name, or a review of your experience?
Perhaps, also, you may have another trip coming up in the future . . . Might you provide more notice prior to departure if you repeat your request?
(Seems as though I may have busted his balls a little too late . . . )
- Jackie