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sexsenior · 10-17-2014, 01:55 PM

I have written before about older guys with younger women. A couple of years ago the consensus was age was not really an issue. Lately, I am not so sure, now! It seems these younger women are not really into their work. Limited touching, admitting they are more into other women and just want to do a quick bj, collect their money and go! Race is not the issue, but seems generally to be a generation thing. I am just having bad luck, getting to old for this or are others observing this?

stanky · 10-17-2014, 05:12 PM

You're not crazy..

I firmly believe it's a generational thing. Maybe the hookup culture is to blame, but I have found that younger gals, both in and out of the hobby, just aren't that interested in the GFE / BFE dynamic.

stanky · 10-17-2014, 05:16 PM

And that's why I stick to the older gals...

I dabbled in the kiddie pool for a while, but I missed the GFE and the companionship.

hairyhoudini · 10-17-2014, 06:30 PM

Some of the younger girls don't care about building a nice repeat client base. The older clients (in my opinion) tend to treat the girls with more respect, if treated well, come back, and are established financially. Oh and we vote(with are reviews).

Jayhalprin · 10-17-2014, 10:21 PM

Well, you have to realize that the frontal lobe of the brain does not really mature until age 25, in general. Those in whom the frontal lobe is not fully developed tend to be immature and impulsive. If you are a parent, you already know this. I'm met some youngsters who are great, others, not so much. So, I see this as a maturity issue more than a generational issue.

chairspud · 10-17-2014, 11:03 PM

I agree 100% !! I get slammed some for just seeing the more mature ladies. I have several ATF's all in their 40's. It's truly amazing to me the difference in how I'm treated as opposed to when I see a young one.
My rule of thumb now is no one under early 30's.

Zoey Zacquery · 10-18-2014, 02:07 AM

aw... Y'all..!

Clearly none of you have ever met me is all I have to say. Sorry you're having these experiences! But I seriously don't think you're right to generalize about younger ladies like this. We really come in all shapes, sizes, and maturity levels.

MrGiz · 10-18-2014, 03:01 AM

Quite simply... there is no talent that experience does not improve!

stanky · 10-18-2014, 03:42 AM

Well said, Giz.

ztonk · 10-18-2014, 09:53 AM

A lot of the younger ladies are just plain lazy. They do the absolute minimum they need to and then move on.

Some has a sense of entitlement. "Oh, you'll put up with me being mediocre because I'm cute. Tee hee hee!"

There a few gems in the under 25 category, but you really have to work to find them.

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James1588 · 10-18-2014, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by spicyzoey

aw... Y'all..!

Clearly none of you have ever met me is all I have to say. Sorry you're having these experiences! But I seriously don't think you're right to generalize about younger ladies like this. We really come in all shapes, sizes, and maturity levels.

Zoey, I'm sure you're right. In your case, for example, I'd confidently bet the rent money that you're an absolute marvel of proficiency, diligence, consideration ... and maturity. But I'm 60 years old, and the reason I draw my absolute no-younger-than line at 40, and my line of preference at 50 and up, is that I would feel like a real first-class creep if I set out to be intimate with women young enough to be my daughter -- or worse!

I realize (with my head -- the big one, that is) that a woman of 18 or better has reached her majority, and there's no moral issue with her having sex with anyone else, age 18 through 118. Maybe it's really a cultural thing ... but, whatever the cause, I'm just not comfortable with intergenerational sex. Actually, now that I think about it, I conclude that with me, it's aesthetics, and a sense of the ridiculous. In any case, it's definitely not that I think you young ladies don't provide excellent value for your clients.

watchoutthegameisrigged · 10-18-2014, 02:17 PM

I've enjoyed excellent early 20s all the way to an excellent 53 year old. After a very fine 32 year old told me she was getting old for the game, I averaged the ages of the ladies I've seen and it came out at 36. I'm 60 so I'm sure that's part of it. But it all depends on the lady. I've met some very mature and completely professional, discrete, safe and reliable providers who are in their 20s. My opportunities are way more limited than I like so research is key. And this place is by far the best for that among all the other sites I've checked out. Without ECCIE, I'm pretty sure I would never have taken the plunge into the hobby.

Cpalmson · 10-18-2014, 10:09 PM

I don't know where you all have been, but I've fucked three 19 yos in the past 6 months. Each one has been very good and very accommodating to my needs. Had my last 19 y.o. a week ago and can't wait to see her again. I want to be her Christian Gray

Gbfsl · 10-18-2014, 10:31 PM

I have found it has less to do with age and more to do with whether the girl really loves what she does and enjoys the whole experience. If they love what they do, then I have found each session with such a person to be great, regardless of age.

Zoey Zacquery · 10-19-2014, 10:01 AM

I can understand wanting to be with someone closer to your own age. For me, I've always been attracted to older men and kept their company, and I thank the hobby for breaking through my inhibitions about men who are a couple generations my senior. Once I got a taste of hot men who are great in bed who happen to be 60-80 with silver hair or whatever, I wondered why the fuck I hadn't been pursuing and sleeping with such men all along! Now in my personal life (sometimes I cruise in bars when I'm horny and bored and feeling adventurous), I'm more likely to pick up a guy with silver hair than a guy too young for silver hair. But that's just my preference. So I don't find it the least bit creepy or whatever to have intergenerational sex and I actually appreciate it most of all. BUT I totally respect that others may feel differently, of course.

I definitely agree that everything gets better with experience. When I first started doing this five years ago, I was really into giggling, laying on my back, and letting my cuteness win them over for me without having to offer much in terms of a substantial and unique experience. These days I'm really into blowing minds and providing the best orgasms ever. Five years has made a big difference in both my price tag and the level of experience I offer. And I'm still under 25, baby! But only barely, lol.