Jealous?

[Rodimus54]

Sorry moderators(s) for hijacking a different thread to start this conversation. Should have moved it here to begin with. Apologies.

Anyway..........

My original question to Recap, and honest one, was " So I have seen you call a few people jealous as a retort. What, in your eyes, are people jealous of? Not being a jerk, just an honest question. I don't want other peoples take on my question, just Recaps
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Originally Posted by Recapacitar

It's simple. Getting more freakin pussy than they could ever get on their best day.

Originally Posted by Recapacitar

And it's not just that. Well, wait a minute. Yes it is.

Ok, that is what I though the answer would be. So the only way that could be true is that people may be mildly jealous of your stamina or energy. Maybe. And that is it. You say "Getting more freakin pussy than they could ever get on their best day." Dude, YOU ARE PAYING FOR IT!!. You are not some Don Juan that goes into bars, Target, Starbucks, the bank, etc and throws out this awesome game and the women are falling all over you wanting to get you in to bed. Be honest with yourself. YOU ARE PAYING FOR IT, which fine if that make you happy but there is nothing you are doing that is making people jealous of you. Hilarious. Who doesn't have the ability to pay for it? Not really an accomplishment or something to be jealous of someone for.. You are doing what most on these boards do, it is just you are an addict (which is a totaly different topic). "Getting more freakin pussy than they could ever get on their best day. " Hilarious or sad?

Originally Posted by Recapacitar

It's having these great adventures with providers....expensive trips, nice dinners, fun and romantic times.

Again, paying for it. The trips and dinners prob are cool but romantic times? HAHAHAHA. Dude, how far down the rabbit hole are you?

Originally Posted by Recapacitar

Some people get jealous. Some people don't believe it's possible because they've never done it or it's never happened to them.

They prob have "never done it" because they prob are not to the point where they pay for it as much as some (almost every day of the week is seems in your case). Whether it is because they use the hobby only to supplement real life experiences/relationships or because (or in addition to) they'd rather spend what they want to on the hobby and spend the difference compared to what you spend on other things.

Originally Posted by Recapacitar

Writing reviews for me is just a memory of a great experience. It's not to make someone else feel bad....but unfortunately, it does for some people and they get deathly jealous.

Fair enough on the reviews for memories thing. I have friends that take a lot of pictures (in real life) so they can go back and reflect on things they might of otherwise forgotten. But dude, no one is jealous of you, deathly or otherwise.

Originally Posted by Recapacitar

When I started in the hobby, there was no one that helped me to do this. I've experienced crap that many will never even see in the hobby. So when I found the boards, it was to have a safe, fun experience plus let people know what

Originally Posted by Recapacitar

was out there so that they would have fun.

Fair enough. Like most reviews, they are most likely appreciated for the info they provide, whichever direction the person chooses to let the info take them,

Originally Posted by Recapacitar

Some people valued that information and some thought it was impossible for someone to have seen that many girls....and they had doubts. And even to this day, they still have doubts....but you can't change someone insecurities....they have to do that themselves. You can't change someone's doubts, they have to themselves. I'm not out to make you a believer in me.

Goes back to me saying this may be the only way someone might be mildy jealous. Insecurities? Don't quiet get that one, prob because it does not apply to me

Originally Posted by Recapacitar

Whether you read my stories or not is not a requirement. If I say she's real, then she's real. You make a decision from there whether you want to see her. You don't have to believe everything that happened between us. But if I say she provide X services, then that's what she provided to me.

Fair

Originally Posted by Recapacitar

Whether it happens to you, is another story and if it doesn't there are a lot of reasons for example: some guys don't bathe, some have mental issues, some have physical issues, some don't know how to talk to women, some are assholes and the list goes on. Girls respond to different guys for different reasons. It's a fact of life. Just because a guy thinks he's better than another guy, may not be what the woman thinks...and that's a reality. The sooner

Originally Posted by Recapacitar

some guys realize that, the better they will be.

True

Originally Posted by Recapacitar

There are a lot of misguided people in the world...the real world and the hobby world. It's just the way it is.

Absolutely!!

[bluffcityguy]

(bcg decloaks for what he insists will be the last time, ever...)

Originally Posted by Rodimus54

Ok, that is what I though the answer would be. So the only way that could be true is that people may be mildly jealous of your stamina or energy. Maybe. And that is it. You say "Getting more freakin pussy than they could ever get on their best day." Dude, YOU ARE PAYING FOR IT!!. You are not some Don Juan that goes into bars, Target, Starbucks, the bank, etc and throws out this awesome game and the women are falling all over you wanting to get you in to bed. Be honest with yourself. YOU ARE PAYING FOR IT, which fine if that make you happy but there is nothing you are doing that is making people jealous of you.

Speaking as one who's pretty much retired from the hobby for lack of funds to support it... IF all of Recap's accounts are even marginally true (i.e., that he's really seeing the women he's reviewing; I'm sure his accounts of his superior sexual performance are solidly in the realm of science-fiction), I'm jealous of the size of his hobby budget. That's all.

Now, if Those Inconsiderate Bastards would stop winning my Powerball jackpots and let me claim what is rightfully mine...



Cheers,

bcg (off to lurk forevermore...)

[bn_hot]

BCG.... nicely stated!

[Goodisntcheap]

Another thing that I have found that causes jeolusy or envy, not only in the hobby, but in general is. Some guys are on a short leash with SO's, and /or family or other things keep guys from being able to spend as much time as they would like with providers. I work with guys who have to plan a month in advance to stop and get a drink somewhere. Certainly reading a guys review every day of seeing a different provider could make you hate the person.

[Rodimus54]

Originally Posted by Goodisntcheap

Another thing that I have found that causes jeolusy or envy, not only in the hobby, but in general is. Some guys are on a short leash with SO's, and /or family or other things keep guys from being able to spend as much time as they would like with providers. I work with guys who have to plan a month in advance to stop and get a drink somewhere. Certainly reading a guys review every day of seeing a different provider could make you hate the person.

True, the short leash from a SO is something I had not thought of but, then, what is more sad: a guy who allowed himself to be on a short leash or a guy addicted to and/or looking for romance in the hobby?

Now, someone who is just plain busy with kids, family with no SO leash in sight, and feels that is jealous because they feel it is taking time away from time in the hobby... also kinda sad.

But enough to hate a guy, that is kinda a stretch.

[Bigstk01]

Only thing I can comment on here is the Non-Stop "OMG! Best I've ever had!" reviews. One right after another.
Most of the reviews are so detailed, must be intended to be classified as "blind man's porn".
So many details.. hell... I dont need to see her now.
Takes all the Mystery out of it...IMO

[altec269]

Wait. So people actually read Recap's reviews?

The only thing I want from anyone's reviews are the facts. Price, activities, and your opinion on looks or if the pics are accurate. I don't give a shit where you had sex or how hot you thought it was, how you connected to the provider, etc. I've never read anyone's multiple paragraph review.

I actually feel sorry for recap as it seems he's seeing 5-10 providers a week, that's not healthy. If true his life is consumed with the hobby, that's not good. And when he's not seeing providers's he's writing 25 paragraph reviews of them on multiple hobby websites.

I don't have funding or SO issues that limit my hobby, I just have a life.

The other thing is, from the pics of the providers that he sees, we clearly have different standards. To each their own.