Does the duration of the session change the nonrushed experience?

[alias77]

I have experienced providers who advertise as nonrushed providers but rush HH sessions. Is this false advertising?

[Guest022718]

Originally Posted by alias77

I have experienced providers who advertise as nonrushed providers but rush HH sessions. Is this false advertising?

It takes me 15 minutes to get outta my clothes and another 15 to get dressed! Sheesh, give the ladies a break! By definition, when you request 30 minutes, you are asking for a quickie.

I usually book 90 minutes to two hour sessions. In those sessions, it's not unusual to go over time a bit. You want unrushed, you have to pay for unrushed.

[Old-T]

Really?

Do you expect untrusted service at the McDonald's drive through?

If you schedule for 30 min of course it is going to seem rushed. No, that is not false advertising, it is unrealistic expectations by the reader.

(Sorry, H, i'm a slow typist and you posted as I was still pecking.)

[Guest062114-5]

If she's pushing you out the door at the 15 min mark, then it's a rushed experience. If she's just trying to stay on schedule for 30-40 min....no.

[Bijou Neko]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

If she's pushing you out the door at the 15 min mark, then it's a rushed experience. If she's just trying to stay on schedule for 30-40 min....no.

What she said.

I tend to be more mindful of time with half hour sessions because of those unfortunate few gents who try to cheap it out by booking a half hour and then overstaying. But most of my half hour gents are pressed for time rather than funds... they don't expect the same leisurely pace as a full hour appointment, but they also know I'm going to make the most of every minute of that time.

[alias77]

Good answer bijou!

[alias77]

Although you have to be a clockwatcher to recognize the difference between 30-40 minutes. Time constraints are one of the reasons most clients like me will ever choose a HH session but nonrushed is nonrushed. If you rush duringHH sessions then state that in your ad. Otherwise, it's false advertising.... I find many providers do this. Many providers performance is different and attitude during shorter sessions as well. In that case, why accept HH sessions? You can just do hour sessions only as a provider instead.

[Guest062114-5]

Then if it's not the money but the time...book an hour and take your time...


Oh, and you're wrong about your comment about having to be a clock watched to know the difference between 30 & 40 min. I have a very accurate internal clock and I am a very good judge of time. I rarely run more than 12 min late and I can predict that by about 11 am.

I stand by my comment. Staying on schedule is not rushing.

[Guest052616]

i had a few who booked 30 mins appt...ans THOUGHT they would be sly and stay an hour.. so yep... i will watch the clock for my 30 min appt.. and i will tell any guy that books Hhr... it just took a couple bad apples to ruin the HHr thing fo me

[Bijou Neko]

No, you don't have to be a clock watcher. After a while in this milieu, I've developed a pretty good sense of when a half hour or hour has gone by, and I'm sure that many other ladies have too. Also, I play music to help keep track of time. I have certain playlists that I use for appointments and they let me know how much time has passed without me having to keep glancing at the clock. And no, staying on schedule is not rushing and does not make one a clock watcher. IMHO, clock watching is when a lady's attitude is "OMG, isn't he finished yet?" through the whole appointment, and her whole manner shows that she can't wait to show her visitor the door.

[alias77]

12 minutes over is proof your not a clock watcher and nonrushed. I agree schedule is important and time is money. Another good answer....I wont respond to every comment. I just like to get different perspectives

[Guest062114-5]

BIjou gives a great suggestion with the playlist and staying on schedule.

[Guest052616]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Then if it's not the money but the time...book an hour and take your time...


Oh, and you're wrong about your comment about having to be a clock watched to know the difference between 30 & 40 min. I have a very accurate internal clock and I am a very good judge of time. I rarely run more than 12 min late and I can predict that by about 11 am.

I stand by my comment. Staying on schedule is not rushing.

i have that internal clock thing too..the most ive gone over was probably 15 mins... and that was probably because i was grabbing myself a selfish round in the shower with him... lol!!

Im talking half hour appts. I do look at clock every once in a while..
1. so i can make sure he gets his pop
2. because ive had assholes book a 30 min and purposely drag it to an hour...thinking they were being sly.

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by alias77

Although you have to be a clockwatcher to recognize the difference between 30-40 minutes. Time constraints are one of the reasons most clients like me will ever choose a HH session but nonrushed is nonrushed. If you rush duringHH sessions then state that in your ad. Otherwise, it's false advertising.... I find many providers do this. Many providers performance is different and attitude during shorter sessions as well. In that case, why accept HH sessions? You can just do hour sessions only as a provider instead.

Originally Posted by alias77

12 minutes over is proof your not a clock watcher and nonrushed. I agree schedule is important and time is money. Another good answer....I wont respond to every comment. I just like to get different perspectives

The more you post on this topic the more difficult it is to take you seriously.

First, you say "recognizing the difference between 30 and 40 minutes", i.e. 10 minutes (or 33% overrun) on a half hour means the lady is a clock watcher.......but
12 minutes is proof of NOT being a clock watcher? The two minutes really makes that much of a difference in your mind?

Second, assuming you work and get paid for an 8 hour day, how do you react when your boss comes over at 4 PM and says "I want you to work another 2 and a half hours tonight--unpaid of course." That is LESS than a 33% overrun. Or when was the last time you went into a restaurant, ordered the 10 oz steak and complained when it wasn't a 13 oz steak that came out. If you want 40 min, arrange up front for 40 min and pay the going rate. But even at 40, most encounters will be "rushed". I'm like H, I can hardly say hello & goodbye in 30 min.

But at the most basic level, what do you think an "unrushed 30 min" session looks like? I am not being sarcastic, I really don't know what you mean--other than if she is pushing you out the door early.

Attitude difference in 30 min vs 2 or 3 hours? ABSOLUTELY!!!! Why would you expect all the extras of a multi-hour date when you only arrange for a half hour? Again, do you expect the same attitude at McD's as you do at a fine steak house? I know I would not.

I think you really need to be a bit more specific what you think the attitude and rushed aspects are. If all you can point to is half hours that don't run well overtime, then I think you are just whining. If it is something else, please speak up and be a bit more specific than an ill defined "bad attitude". Maybe it's not the time, maybe her attitude in an hour session is twice as bad.

[Krystal Kay]

Originally Posted by alias77

I have experienced providers who advertise as nonrushed providers but rush HH sessions. Is this false advertising?

Yes, the duration of the session does change the experience. But there's a few explanations to your question about rushed HH's.

1. Depends on the donation. If the provider is offering a "special" or the donation itself is "cheap" for the HH, then in my opinion, It is already in the providers mind to rush you and make It actually a Quicky.

2. Some providers are all about getting to the "activity" and skipping the small chat/foreplay. That's why before you should ask her "rules" or "likes" so you don't get a miss understanding on thinking she's rushing you by not wanting foreplay but actually she doesn't like it/feel comfortable with it.

3. Overbooking. Providers are horrible at this because no one really knows who is actually going to show up. I am an experienced escort, so I can tell who will show up and I arrange my day correctly but most providers don't care. So when you show up to an appointment for however long and are rushed, most likely she overbooked.

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Now, If you book with the right provider than the length of time should change the experience.

Q: Is usually for the men on the go. On lunch break or have just a small time frame before heading home/on with their day. Straight to the point type session.

HH: Slower pace, time for small chat & light foreplay before getting to the "point" & enough time for clean up.

HR: Massage/dance for introduction or conversaion, foreplay and slowly starting. Also depends if she allows multiples. If not, the pace should be very slow. Or you might need to pay extra for another round.

Multi-hours: There's no rush for anything!!

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Now these are just my opinions