Providers and their S.O.'s

[Russ38]

You know my email....send that shit....

[Sonya]

Senr

[surcher]

Originally Posted by Beau Derierre

I will admitt married men turn me on more than anything in the world! I always dare if just one would meet me outside their residence in the middle of the night while the wife is a sleep ,pull up my skirt an fuck the shit out of me and sneak back in.. Still haven't found one to take me up on the dare.

Does part of your fantasy include your client getting divorced? Sneaking out in front of his home and fucking the shit out of you where there's a possibility a neighbor's security cam might catch you, or maybe dogs start barking and waking people in the neighborhood, including his wife, are just two possibilities. Suppose he gets away with that part, he's now got to sneak back in and wash the pussy juice off his cock and balls, while still trying to be quiet enough not to wake the wife and kids, praying his own dog isn't an ankle biting barker. After that, all that's left for him to do is getting out of the clothes that now have your faint scent, sneak back into the bed he snuck out of, next to his wife, while smelling freshly washed. And you wonder why no one has taken you up on it?

[boxluvher]

Originally Posted by Sonya

Just curious. Many of you have wives and gfs and have no qualms of telling us. But is it a no no for us ladies to admit relationships? Does it turn you off? Do you assume it must be a pimp or less of a Man who deals with our job? Does it ruin the fantasy of the gfe?

So, where do you and your SO fit in this discussion?

[Sonya]

No, lol this wasn't my Sonya has an S. O. post. Was just curious. Seen women here who admit it get accused of having a pimp. Have men who drop the phrase, my wife, often. Wondered how everyone felt.

[boxluvher]

Ahhhh, I see. You are doing some research for a "friend'. I get it...
lol

[Sonya]

Um no, research for me. That week there were threads about more intimate areas of the hobby. Thought this question tied in nicely. From all the comments you can see it was a question not really touched on before.

[ARCHmajor]

Originally Posted by Lady Elizabeth

I've found that when a client brings that up - it's getting too personal. However, I have the perfect situation and reply...my SO is my girlfriend youngsexxxysam and she's a part-time provider. Kinda deflates the situation and is an excellent lead into trying to schedule a double

Lmao awesome!

[Starving Artist]

Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

In my opinion, this is huge and could easily become a much stronger relationship than two casual daters could develop.

This is very true.

[Dorian Gray]

Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

I dated a client and honestly, (even though I put his arse through the ringer and he wanted to choke me half of the time lol) I really enjoyed the fact that I didn't have to lie and hide my occupation from him. He became a great supporter and friend as well.

Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

In my opinion, this is huge and could easily become a much stronger relationship than two casual daters could develop.

Originally Posted by Starving Artist

This is very true.

So to the two (2) providers:
Did you still let/do you let your SO buy some strange while you were out cock-smithing?

For the 'tard:
Would you continue to buy strange, while still with your poon-slinger?

[Guest030824]

To me that would be a fine situation I am alone with just me and the cat and I enjoy having some one to just be friends with. I hate cooking for just me and going out with some one on occasion that I can laugh with would be delightful.

[Guest062217]

Sonya - I think for some guys if a providers openly admits to having an SO, it would ruin the fantasy for them.

Whether I first meet a girl in the civilian world or a provider - I always figure that every girl is potentially "seeing, dating, fucking, likes, has a SO etc. etc. etc." on the side. Just as most guys probably are married, have an SO or whatever..

[fragtasticator]

I was once seeing a girl on a regular basis whom I met at a strip club.

It started with ITC stuff, progressed to VIP, and then we moved to some OTC stuff.

One night she let slip that she had to go pick up her kid because her husband couldn't as he was at work.

I tried to get with her once more, and found out the fun had gone: I couldn't stop thinking about how I'd feel if someone had their dick in my (hypothetical) wife.

So if you want me as a customer and you have a husband, for god's sake don't tell me.

[Dorian Gray]

Originally Posted by fragtasticator

I was once seeing a girl on a regular basis whom I met at a strip club.

It started with ITC stuff, progressed to VIP, and then we moved to some OTC stuff.

One night she let slip that she had to go pick up her kid because her husband couldn't as he was at work.

I tried to get with her once more, and found out the fun had gone: I couldn't stop thinking about how I'd feel if someone had their dick in my (hypothetical) wife.

So if you want me as a customer and you have a husband, for god's sake don't tell me.

I wonder if we can tie this in with the" are married men safer" & the two (2) "BBFS Ad" threads

[BusyLiving]

On the other hand, I had a provider recently tell me in conversation the first time I was with her that she was married. She says she tells guys that generally because it keeps them from getting too attached and starting to imagine she is some sort of real GF (YMMV - right? - She was the kind that I think could trigger that in some guys). Of course, that may have been the way she explained it to ME because she got a vibe from me that I was exactly the type that gets too attached. lol Who the hell knows what she tells other guys? I know it won't keep me from going back. If I was worried about adultery I think I would need to find a different hobby!