when should the session timer start and or end?

[China Doll]

Originally Posted by dearhunter

I thinck CD is fucking hot.........that's my opinion.

Well thank you, darlin'! It's too bad Dear John doesn't seem to agree with you.

[DEAR_JOHN]

Originally Posted by camilleMorgan

Who put anybody in charge of me or anyone else saying how/what they feel...and the veiled threat of Negative Reviews IS BS!!!!

Nobody threatened anybody with a negative review. Let me quote again what I stated.

Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Sometimes providers posting themselves in threads of this nature are worse then negative reviews.

I stand by my statement. I guarantee you a lot of other guys feel the same way, they just won't post it.

If anybody wants to be a self proclaimed being clock watcher, that is their business and I respect that. They can just post away.

If any guy chooses not to visit a self proclaimed clock watcher, that is their business and they can take their hard earned cash elsewhere.

Mars/Venus

X/Y

[sabre692]

My "Willie" is guarded by a conversation sentry. When I decide which provider, it'll be for 2 hours because I would want conversation with my visit. Me being the mild mannered person I am; my person would need to be excited both mentally and physically. If you're worried about time...simply book a bit more, no?

[jacksparrow]

I agree with you Dear John, you learn a lot of things just by watching others self-destruct themselves.
I almost never had a problem with time issues with well known providers, and if I do I sure damn well will let my buddies know about it. that is why this site is so helpful.

[Doove]

Originally Posted by trouserpress

As to your statement: "Well, we don't, not if you don't care whether or not we're into you." I NEVER expect a provider to be "into" me. I assume she has a life outside the hobby and is only providing a fantasy for me which forces her to act like she IS into me for the brief time we spend together.

To a certain extent i'll agree with this statement. But as a clarifier, i'll add this. It would be impossible for me to buy into that particular part of the fantasy if all i did was walk in, drop the money on the table, and insist we go to the bedroom and start getting busy without giving her an opportunity to get to know me a little.

An analogy, albeit a rather crude one, would be this. As part of my fantasy, i'd prefer that the girl have an orgasm or 2. If that isn't going to happen, then maybe some faking would be in order. But if she went into fake orgasm mode at the 3 second mark, it would pretty much lay her efforts to waste. Even fantasies, at least those of this nature, have to have some level of plausibility for them to be enjoyed.

[Sensia]

"Clockwatcher" is such an unfair label. A lady needs to keep track of her time during a visit and there are many ways to do that. I often wonder how many gentleman use the term "Clockwatcher" but really mean code for "I wanted more time without paying". There has to be mutual respect of each others time. If you agreed for a certain time frame the lady should honor that and so should the gentleman.

[Eccie Addict]

I think some guys say clockwatcher when a lady isn't tactful about time. Geez don't check the time between every position. I agree there needs to be mutual respect of each other's time. You can even set the alarm on your cell phone to sound like a ring tone to let you know how much time has passed. When you don't get up to check it we will be happy that you ignored your phone to be with us .

I have been with quite a few providers where I left right on the hour mark and I didn't even know it but I assure you she did.

[bbkid]

Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

If any guy chooses not to visit a self proclaimed clock watcher, that is their business and they can take their hard earned cash elsewhere.

Which is exactally what I will do.

This is a good thread. I don't think any lady that I've ever seen has had a "time" issue with me. But, for one to profess their penchant to underscore that they are a clockwatcher, well I'll just move on along.

[Guest082824]

Well, for me it's like this...

I actually like a little "get to know ya" time on my first visit with a provider, I feel it makes for a better session, especially if we haven't met before at some type of social or gathering.

How much time, well, that depends...could be 15, 20, hell, maybe even 30 minutes but I'm cool with that even if the appt if only for 1 hour.


Now, if there's a 2nd time, there is no "get to know ya" time, it's straight to the sucking and fucking...and I will do my best to make it last for the WHOLE hour!

Shouldn't be anything wrong with "earning your money"

[China Doll]

A mutual respect for each other's time is exactly what is needed. Threads like these often get heated because each side perceives the other to be lacking this respect. Perfect example: I have admitted that I very frequently give extra time when I have it, yet I am a "clockwatcher" because I believe that the time should not be expected. Sometimes ya just can't win!

[Eccie Addict]

It is a touchy subject I noticed lol. Nothing wrong with a little heated discussion. It doesn't have to get nasty . It's been informative actually.

[dearhunter]

CD, respect for a persons view hits a pothole when they mischaracterize an opposing viewpoints words as cM did..........that is a sign of laziness.......or worse.

One the reasons I enjoy your posts (even though we don't always agree) is you state your position clearly without massaging someone elses position.

[lisa.lisa0302]

Wow

Are you gents going to post a thread about how great providers who don't watch the clock are. Its plenty out there.

How hard is it to be a gentlemen. If she allows extra time, say thanks and move on. If you didn't tip and she didn't mention it, she remembers it. You may or may not be able to see her again. So just to be on the safe side and drama free, just stay your time.

If she is talking too much, change it. She knows what she is supposed to do. Do you? Get the ball rolling, or you will leave like OP did, stiffed.

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Wow

Are you gents going to post a thread about how great providers who don't watch the clock are. Its plenty out there.

How hard is it to be a gentlemen. If she allows extra time, say thanks and move on. If you didn't tip and she didn't mention it, she remembers it. You may or may not be able to see her again. So just to be on the safe side and drama free, just stay your time.

If she is talking too much, change it. She knows what she is supposed to do. Do you? Get the ball rolling, or you will leave like OP did, stiffed.

You are absolutely right. It's a mutual thing.

[camilleMorgan]

Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Nobody threatened anybody with a negative review. Let me quote again what I stated.



I stand by my statement. I guarantee you a lot of other guys feel the same way, they just won't post it.

If anybody wants to be a self proclaimed being clock watcher, that is their business and I respect that. They can just post away.

If any guy chooses not to visit a self proclaimed clock watcher, that is their business and they can take their hard earned cash elsewhere.

Mars/Venus

X/Y

I don't remember mentioning anyone specifically in my statement. I'm glad you chose to stand by your statements....Because I most Definitely stand behind Mine.

I am not concerning myself with people not willing to speak their feelings. Nor do I chose to speak for anyone.....because I don't know HOW other people feel if they DON'T express it......& because I'm Not Clara T ...I will leave all that to Other People. Knock Yourself Out.